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Almond Flour
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Roommate Romance UPDATE!
#17554995 - 01/15/13 11:22 PM (11 years, 14 days ago) |
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I live with 4 girls. Naturally as a straight male it's only a matter of time.........
But should I make the move on the one I'm most attracted to? It's not rejection I'm afraid of.......it's shitting where I sleep that I'm worried about. Especially when another one of the roommates has a thing for me. Would you guys risk it? Life is pretty good in our house, we all get along, and no drama right now. But this could EASILY change if I throw romance into the picture. She might accept my advances and then it's pretty much like I'm living with a person I started dating.
Or I could get rejected making things awkward as fuck around the house
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Worst and longest relationship came from a roommate wasn't worst cause they wer roommate but because she was a whore who needed a baby daddy. It caused problems with my other roommates though. So just so history doesn't repeat itsself I Would Not do it. But that's me....
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Almond Flour said: it's shitting where I sleep that I'm worried about. Especially when another one of the roommates has a thing for me. /quote] this is what you should worry about. lets say you hook up with girl A (the one your interested in), and girl B has a thing for you. Well naturally B just became Hostile to A, and girls C and D are most likely gonna have to chose sides, thus resulting in one fucked up living situation. Now lets say you and A break it off, how fucking weird would it be bringing a girl home??? these are just my immediate worst case scenario thoughts. take them with a grain of salt
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Sleep with all of them. Arrange an orgy. Make the best of the clambake you currently call home.
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Hehehe yeah.... Fuck them all That would Solve Everything
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i know more than one couple that started out with roomates and are still married today.
they started off as roomates in college
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Almond Flour
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Re: Roommate Romance [Re: rackem]
#17555075 - 01/15/13 11:45 PM (11 years, 14 days ago) |
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rackem said: i know more than one couple that started out with roomates and are still married today.
they started off as roomates in college

Honestly, I see this shit getting taken to the next level. She's VERY shy, but I'm almost certain she would not reject my advances. Unless someone equally as awesome and less risky enters the equation.......it gonna be like Manifest Destiny
......"you can't stop it and neither can I"
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sVs said: Sleep with all of them. Arrange an orgy. Make the best of the clambake you currently call home.
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 posting to thread. this is gonna be some jucy epic fail shit. imo of course. but good luck anyhow
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Re: Roommate Romance [Re: funegi]
#17555365 - 01/16/13 01:15 AM (11 years, 14 days ago) |
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They could be like sister wives. Sleep with a different one each night. That way everyone gets a piece and no ones left out.
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Whatever happens, let us know
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UPDATE
Ok so wanted to update you guys. I eventually made a move, in a very romantic way. Long story short she gave me a chance, she REALLLy likes me (and I like her), and we have started having sex.....not to mention she was a virgin.
Fast forward 2 months and things are pretty stable. No fights, no real drama, however the girls have some underlying tension. My other roommates flirt with me from time to time, and Its getting under her skin. There are some ill feelings that only one of the roommates gets the gossip about our sex life when she talks about us, and she tells the others to quit being nosey (more or less)
So what did I learn? The house dynamic is very different this semester. Last semester we were like a family, constantly hanging out, laughing, having a grand old time. This semester the house has kind of retreated into "Clicks" way worse than last semester. Like, last semester people naturally gravitated towards different pairs because different personalities get along better. But this semester there is an obvious divide between all of us, and it started with me making a move on a roommate.
Im not the one whos really having a problem, its the girls. Jealousy, and underlying anger kind of underline their conversations with each other. Not in a major way, but feelings have been hurt, clicks have been formed, and things are definitely different Really sucks because I dont want any of the other roommates to leave, but naturally I think some are unhappy
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Edited by Almond Flour (03/10/13 02:25 PM)
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Interesting. I like updated on shit I forget about
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Re: Roommate Romance [Re: apeboy]
#17933819 - 03/10/13 02:29 PM (10 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah I totally forgot about this thread. Anywho's sounds like your on Big brother (try to sleep with all of them) 
Just kidding... Not really
So are you and this girl a couple now? Sorry I honestly forgot what I just read like two seconds ago.
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The5thElement said: Yeah I totally forgot about this thread. Anywho's sounds like your on Big brother (try to sleep with all of them) 
Just kidding... Not really
So are you and this girl a couple now? Sorry I honestly forgot what I just read like two seconds ago.
Yes we are. And shes starting to fall for me. Shes sleeps in my room quite often. We are dangerously close from living with eachother already.
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Time to bring the others into the relationship...polyamorous anyone?
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I'm kinda in a simular situation, well just that this girl really likes me and she too is a virgin. Except she wants to become a couple meanwhile I don't. I told her I'm not looking for a relationship right now, just wanna fool around and whatnot. Thing is I kinda am looking for a relationship, just not with her; she's kinda clingy and won't stop txting me dammit 
She's also kinda crazy in the head, I could see her being a really bad choice for a girlfriend. So I'm just going to try to get my D wet, as you would say
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Clingy girls are the best bro. idk wtf guys problems are with clingy girls. I prefer them
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I like women who don't need to be around me all day, everyday. Also I value being alone, not always but I'd say I need my quiet time in my day, and I don't like to be around people all the time.
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Oh and guess who just txted me
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Gotta give her props though, it's 3pm here usually she txts me first thing in the morning... Every morning
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The5thElement said: Gotta give her props though, it's 3pm here usually she txts me first thing in the morning... Every morning 
haha i've had girls like that. i didnt really mind it personally i like feeling like im wanted
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The5thElement said: Gotta give her props though, it's 3pm here usually she txts me first thing in the morning... Every morning 
i like feeling like im wanted
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I thought you had a girlfriend, hence your last thread about sadness of having a girlfriend and then the one after about taking her virginity. I'm confused
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The5thElement said: Gotta give her props though, it's 3pm here usually she txts me first thing in the morning... Every morning 
haha i've had girls like that. i didnt really mind it personally i like feeling like im wanted
Ya I liked it... for the first two weeks then afterwards it started to get really annoying. Mainly because the contents of her texts...
Usually something like this:
Her: Hey whats up? Me: not much, you? Her: Oh, nothing really Me: Cool Her: Yup
Or she'll txt me asking "hey how was your day? I'll say "good", she'll say "oh that's good".
and that's pretty much it, she'll just say the same stuff all the time and then usually talk to me about literarily nothing. How is that even possible? 
I mean I'm reading this and I kinda sound like an ass but it's true, she literally bugs me all the time and has nothing really to say.
Or when we have nights planned for her to come sleep at my place she'll seriously always asks if I want her to come over ARRRRRGH Everytime she does this. And this is after talking for like 15 minutes, allready establishing that she is infact coming over and I do obviously want her to come.
Last time she did this I was like "yeah, of course I do duhhh", I said it like I was being kinda playful or whatever, I didn't mean it like Duhh your an idiot. Anyway's she got super defensive after she didn't respond for like five minutes and I said " so what time are you coming over tonight lol? She's like "I'm sorry, I'm kinda busy now, don't think it's going to happen"... So I was like lol ok
Then she got pissed and was like OK?????? Seriously that's it and I'm like "yup, that's it.
Then she's like can I ask you a question I'm like " Yeah, shoot"
"what are we"

(We've hung out like 3 times so far, and you stayed the night once and we made out and I played with your downstairs a little)
I assumed as in what are we relationship wise.... And I wanted to make her mad so I'm like Uhhhh 2 people?
She got soooo mad 


Oh my God I laughed so hard when she flipped shit over txt. 
So naturaly I ignored her for a day, of course she txted me all day, kept saying stuff like "hey what's up" Literaly like 3 or 4 times, finnaly ending the night with a "Like, are you ignoring me or something"?
LOL no...No, I am not at all.
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Haha that was hilarious.
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