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Anger
    #1754269 - 07/28/03 12:03 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

I have a friend(no really) who has told me he has anger/dislike'ing towards some good friends of his. It has been building up for a while, and he's making these plans to get back at these people before he moves. The things he wants to do seem pretty extreme, especially from my point of veiw, because I think he is playing it up bigger than it is and/or is bringing out hate from other things and tying it all towards these people. My question is this:
What do yall do when close friends hurt you, and not like little things, but big things? His first instinct was to get violent with it, but he is planning of fucking them over way bigger than being sore for a week.

What can I tell him is a better solution? I mean, I dont feel its his right to play the avenger, but I do feel something should be done(non violent) to show the people what they did(and are doing)is wrong, but I dunno. I would say to him "that all bad things come back to you at least 2x", but thas isent much condolences. Thx, and I really dont want to get more specific.


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Re: Anger [Re: 2Experimental]
    #1754283 - 07/28/03 12:13 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

1st off violence solves nothing unless you think solving something is having the almighty corrupted LAW in your life. You can embarass them, reveal who they really are, and this involves creativity.

I know you dont want to, but the more specific you get the more specific thought process I could do on as to go about the correct way of dealing with this.


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Re: Anger [Re: LikwidDrawp]
    #1754341 - 07/28/03 12:46 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

"Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent."
- Isaac Asimov


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Re: Anger [Re: 2Experimental]
    #1754723 - 07/28/03 04:18 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

we need more details!  :devil: 


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Re: Anger [Re: pattern]
    #1756881 - 07/28/03 06:49 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

How about having him TELL his friends that he is upset with them, and explain why he is upset?  Confronting people like this usually yields much better results than violence :wink:


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