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Re: Ladies, I want you to think about this one for a minute [Re: Cabinet_Sanchez]
    #17498697 - 01/04/13 07:27 PM (11 years, 1 month ago)

Yawn. Shoot the messenger, why don't ya? :smile:

Here, have a blast:
1. Female Ovulation Correlated to Male Perception.
2. Ovulation Changes Women's Behavior.

You can try and get scientific with me all you want, as I explained above, I read conclusions of the studies, tested if they work well enough to get the job done, found that they do and that's all I need to know. If you have a neurology fetish, knock yourself out. Go wild. Spend years reading the literature, measure effect sizes, plot graphs, draw bell curves, I for one care very little for it.

All I need is where the switches are and how to flip them. I suspect that most guys asking for girl advice want something like this as well, not the whole history of human evolution. I know that's what I would have needed back a few decades ago when I had no idea how girls should be approached at all.

I have mentioned this is not a denigrating view of women, it's a simple map and compass to know what the fuck to do. Happens to be the map I use for some time now, it's not the only one available. I've shared it for whoever wants to give it a shot, because I've found it to work for me. Women don't have to actually agree with the theory described here, nor do they have to like it, for it to be close enough to the truth to work.

Regardless of gender, our bodies often say yes when our logical minds say no. Men don't like getting inappropriate erections either, especially with a loving wife present, but guess what, they still do.

While women can't simply "become younger" and do other things that men are looking for, we men can do the internal work that relates to confidence and alpha behavior (same thing really) that is attractive and reassuring to women. That's why I think it's important to know these 2 distinct ways in which a woman can be attracted to a man, and if one wants a long stable relationship, it's important to know how to trigger both of these, not just one.


Edited by Spacerific (01/04/13 07:38 PM)


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Re: Ladies, I want you to think about this one for a minute [Re: Spacerific]
    #17500749 - 01/05/13 07:38 AM (11 years, 1 month ago)

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Spacerific said:
Yawn. Shoot the messenger, why don't ya? :smile:

Here, have a blast:
1. Female Ovulation Correlated to Male Perception.
2. Ovulation Changes Women's Behavior.

You can try and get scientific with me all you want, as I explained above, I read conclusions of the studies, tested if they work well enough to get the job done, found that they do and that's all I need to know. If you have a neurology fetish, knock yourself out. Go wild. Spend years reading the literature, measure effect sizes, plot graphs, draw bell curves, I for one care very little for it.

All I need is where the switches are and how to flip them. I suspect that most guys asking for girl advice want something like this as well, not the whole history of human evolution. I know that's what I would have needed back a few decades ago when I had no idea how girls should be approached at all.

I have mentioned this is not a denigrating view of women, it's a simple map and compass to know what the fuck to do. Happens to be the map I use for some time now, it's not the only one available. I've shared it for whoever wants to give it a shot, because I've found it to work for me. Women don't have to actually agree with the theory described here, nor do they have to like it, for it to be close enough to the truth to work.

Regardless of gender, our bodies often say yes when our logical minds say no. Men don't like getting inappropriate erections either, especially with a loving wife present, but guess what, they still do.

While women can't simply "become younger" and do other things that men are looking for, we men can do the internal work that relates to confidence and alpha behavior (same thing really) that is attractive and reassuring to women. That's why I think it's important to know these 2 distinct ways in which a woman can be attracted to a man, and if one wants a long stable relationship, it's important to know how to trigger both of these, not just one.





years from now you are going to look back on your smug self and feel horrible

you dont get why any of this is bullshit and i pity you.


this binary circuitry way of thinking about the human mind is just plain wrong.

you think you found some secret but what i think you found is a scientific way of explaining something more to do with unknowable impressions and tiny subconscious signals. the fact that its works doesnt make it right. and the fact that you dont try to pry and understand it makes it 10 times worse.

if i were you and found some miraculous way of explaining what most men cant grasp, i would look into it until i was genuinely convinced it isnt some crock. but you shrug and say it works.

i think you and the women you observe this working on are all bumbling around without a clue.

as for the california studies. im not convinced whatsoever.


ill leave you with this...no girl or woman i know behaves like this. most of them have an archetype they try to fulfill just like us males. and some are open to most men unless we fuck it up. its on us. i think this is what scares you. that we jump through hoops for women and they sit back and test observe and consider. that is always how it will work and no one gender will ever have a psychological drop on another.



i should add this is a conversation i have with my room mate all the time. he works out and dresses nice and subscribes to the man-o-sphere bullshit. but yet im the one, with all my flaws and nice-guy-ness, who flirts with and understands women on a different level. most of women i know have a problem with the way he thinks about women. and its frankly pathology. its fucked up shit that happened to him relating to his mother and his past relationships. he also grew up with four brothers and i grew up with a twin sister and a single mother. you cant understand these things. you have to live with the complexities. that we as people are predictable until we arent.

we are not part of the animal kingdom. we are on a different level. we defy and control genetics. we ALL do.


Edited by sirbojangles (01/05/13 07:50 AM)


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Re: Ladies, I want you to think about this one for a minute [Re: drug100]
    #17501462 - 01/05/13 11:35 AM (11 years, 1 month ago)

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drug100 said:
honestly what does being shy have to do with how good you are in bed? shyness has to do with personality and being good in bed is about skills. its two completely different things.




honestly it doesn't... I'm just asking chicks if chicks think that... All I'm curious about is if not making the first move, or being shy expresses low self esteem, which in turn might make a girl think that the guy is inadequate when it comes to their love making skills. This wasn't supposed to be some analytical, scientific argument... It's simply a yes or no question:peace:


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