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Re: Responding to the Suicidal With "Tough Love" [Re: akira_akuma]
    #17316263 - 12/01/12 05:53 PM (11 years, 2 months ago)

I hate the idea of 'Tough Love' and all that it encompasses.  To me, 'Tough Love' is a way of someone asserting their belief that their moral/social viewpoint is superior to yours.


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Re: Responding to the Suicidal With "Tough Love" [Re: akira_akuma] * 1
    #17316267 - 12/01/12 05:54 PM (11 years, 2 months ago)

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akira_akuma said:
say fuck you you dumbass mother... but, hey, it's ok, deal with it.

ok, see how it works also very STUPIDLY TOO? please don't regard this as flaming, i'm simply making a point.






I don't regard it as flaming. I regard it as you missing the point and arguing the exact point I was making.
I was claiming it was retarded reasoning. :facepalm:


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Re: Responding to the Suicidal With "Tough Love" [Re: Fire is Born]
    #17316378 - 12/01/12 06:15 PM (11 years, 2 months ago)

i got threatened with bans when i created a thread like this, for legitimate disucssion as well

thread was just flat out removed from the boards, not even locked or deleted


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Re: Responding to the Suicidal With "Tough Love" [Re: Fire is Born]
    #17316387 - 12/01/12 06:17 PM (11 years, 2 months ago)

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Fire is Born said:
Quote:

akira_akuma said:
say fuck you you dumbass mother... but, hey, it's ok, deal with it.

ok, see how it works also very STUPIDLY TOO? please don't regard this as flaming, i'm simply making a point.






I don't regard it as flaming. I regard it as you missing the point and arguing the exact point I was making.
I was claiming it was retarded reasoning. :facepalm:



and yet, you don't understand that what OP and anyone else who is talking about THIS SUBJECT is making distinctions here... not generalizing the whole "point" like... *ahem*... smart potatas.


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Re: Responding to the Suicidal With "Tough Love" [Re: CidneyIndole]
    #17316795 - 12/01/12 07:27 PM (11 years, 2 months ago)

Cyn here:

Not sure why my husband didn't mention this, but it's funny the OP of this thread asked what my husband would to if it were his child.  My daughter (my husbands step-daughter of one year at the time)said she wanted to kill herself, and I knew she was just an angry child trying to get attention.  I did respond with tough love.  Of course, I took her to the hospital where she stayed for a week and paid thousands of dollars to make sure she was in a safe fist.  P.S. my brother committed suicide when he was 15 and I was pregnant with said daughter. He was drunk that night and he didn't tell anyone he was going to do it.


I think the most important word in "tough love" is the last word, which is often missed by a lot of people.  The reason my marriage is so strong is because we call each other out on each others bullshit.  I think if someone doesn't challenge me to be a better person, they must not have much interest in me at all.  This can be done from a place of love.
I would never tell someone to commit suicide.  Life is a precious thing, and it's a shame that some people don't see that.  It's also a shame that some people feed off other people by making threats, and I think that's they type of people my husband was referring to .  Every challenge in life is a gift, because it teaches us something, and makes us stronger.


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Re: Responding to the Suicidal With "Tough Love" [Re: King of Pain]
    #17317000 - 12/01/12 08:04 PM (11 years, 2 months ago)

yeah, but there is a point when you do that. you can't just DO THAT ALL THE TIME. "oh i'm gonna killmyself, i hate my life" "fine, you suck do it".


that's a fuckin' bombshell.:mindblown:

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