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ive had friends do speed heroin even meth around me
WTF is speed heroin? Is that like meth heroin? Ya mean speed ball? I've processed as much injectables as anyone. Dude, my liver is worth at least $1.00 a hit, except for the Hep C thing. I'll take fiddy cent...Come on back 'Lil Lady', give us a shout out ... . . .
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Ulfrick said: Is it wrong that I am now looking for a 3 bedroom apartment that my roomate and I can afford between the two of us just so I can take her in and try to get her the help that she needs?
Not wrong, but kinda not a wise idea IMO. Junkies bring all sorts of problems to everyone around them. It's really kind of you to do that, but you have to understand that she can (and most likely will) bring her bullshit home, where YOU have to deal with it.
I think the truth is that some people just don't want help. I hope she makes it through okay, I really do. But at the same time, you have to watch out for yourself. You have to make sure you have a safe living environment.
I've delt with junkies before, hell I used to be one which is why I have such a soft spot for em. I know the kind of bullshit it will bring with but I also know how to nip it in the bud (current record is 5 people i've helped get better to 1 person who was beyond repair)
If you know what you're getting into, more power to ya. You know probably better than I do.
I just didn't know if you were doing it as a kneejerk reaction. She can destroy her life, I just didn't want her corrupting other people's lives. But IF you know what you're getting into, that is a very kind thing to do. <3 +5
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Bjorn_Stormcrow
The Farfarer.



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Ulfrick said: Is it wrong that I am now looking for a 3 bedroom apartment that my roomate and I can afford between the two of us just so I can take her in and try to get her the help that she needs?
Not wrong, but kinda not a wise idea IMO. Junkies bring all sorts of problems to everyone around them. It's really kind of you to do that, but you have to understand that she can (and most likely will) bring her bullshit home, where YOU have to deal with it.
I think the truth is that some people just don't want help. I hope she makes it through okay, I really do. But at the same time, you have to watch out for yourself. You have to make sure you have a safe living environment.
I've delt with junkies before, hell I used to be one which is why I have such a soft spot for em. I know the kind of bullshit it will bring with but I also know how to nip it in the bud (current record is 5 people i've helped get better to 1 person who was beyond repair)
If you know what you're getting into, more power to ya. You know probably better than I do.
I just didn't know if you were doing it as a kneejerk reaction. She can destroy her life, I just didn't want her corrupting other people's lives. But IF you know what you're getting into, that is a very kind thing to do. <3 +5
Well, it is somewhat of a knee jerk reaction, but that doesn't mean tht it isn't something that I know a lot about. kind of like how someone trained in combat might have a "knee jerk reaction" to someone grabbing their shoulder and end up putting them in an arm bar (yes I have had this happen, it was my ex-girlfriend, yes it was really awkward, and no that is not why we broke up)
still it is something I am currently considering, and assuming that she has a passport (or even without one since the canadian border is pretty lenient if you can give a damn good reason for crossing which I would be more than happy to speak on her behalf for) as such my offer will still stand.
Even if I don't end up getting a 3 room I can always section of a portion of living room because having SOME space in a good environment is better than having any amount of space in a bad one.
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Azure Essence


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If you were really a junkie, than you would no that no one can help them but themselves.
Now dont blow that into some weird misinterpretation so you can tell me I'm wrong, but you know that the person has to make the conscious decision for themselves to be helped, and you cant just say, 'Oh look at this room you have now, I'm here to rescue you! Everythings going to be allright!"
Unless they make the decision to be helped and get better, it wont do anything. It'll just be her floating along on this charade so people quit telling her she lives a fucking retarded lifestyle for a few months.
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moonrockmushy
High on Spite



Registered: 07/01/05
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Americans cannot get into Canada with pending cases, they are very not leinent about that. It is very hard having any drug offenses on your record, even if the case is old.
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sidewayz6.6
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Shit, sounds like the only thing u might get charged for is paraphernalia, in which case you could fight it saying he did not have probable cause. Just because your arms had needle marks doesn't mean he can search.
Deny u used any of the drugs recently. They all stay in your system for a while, so they can't prove u were DUI.
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Enlil
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sidewayz6.6 said: Shit, sounds like the only thing u might get charged for is paraphernalia, in which case you could fight it saying he did not have probable cause. Just because your arms had needle marks doesn't mean he can search.
Wrong. He can terry frisk the car if he has reasonable suspicion that anyone in the car had a weapon of any kind.
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lazyfingers
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#17107299 - 10/26/12 05:42 PM (11 years, 3 months ago) |
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Time to pray to Satan. I'll set up some candles in a starshape in my backyard for you.
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Nature Lover


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Ha that was so random
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lazyfingers
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Everyone knows Ellen is a satanist, and although Jesus is my God of choice, I've learned to be tolerant of other's beliefs.
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eriatarka
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i know many people have weighed in on this, but to answer a few of the initial questions asked.. 1: It doesn't really matter the number of diff drugs you have in your system when it comes to being eligible for a drug treatment alternative thru court. also, the dilaudid and heroin both show up as opiates, and the suboxone won't show up at all cause no one tests for it except clinics and special circumstance situations..
2: All you had was paraphernalia. I was arrested w/ two needles and a spoon several years ago and had a sh*tty court-appointed attorney, and he was able to get the para charge thrown out completely. They may try to say they've got a possession charge on you, b/c of residue, but more often than not, they'll use up the entire sample in one test, and they have to leave at least enough to do a follow-up test, or to allow the defense to run an independent test.
Aside from all this, I very well understand your situation, and the feeling of hopelessness; but had i been successful in my attempt to OD around 8 years ago, i wouldn't have my beautiful daughter and the life i have now. If there's anything I can help with, or if you have any questions at all, regarding getting clean, what to do if court requires you to give clean piss tests, etc., please feel free to PM me.
I wish you all the best, and please know that as much as you want to punch everyone in the face for telling you this (including me, i'm sure, i know from experience), it will get better. I understand heroin addiction, benzo dependency, high tolerance to everything, and nothing more than to just give up and give in. But I'm glad i didn't.
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Enjoywho
Rags to Bitches



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Re: just got arrested [Re: eriatarka]
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This thread is sad. Miss oh I won't be doing speedballz all the time. Gets arrested for DUI on her way to get speed balls 
This girls going nowhere, she's going to end up dead. Oh well.
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Enlil
OTD God-King




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Re: just got arrested [Re: Enjoywho]
#17107491 - 10/26/12 06:14 PM (11 years, 3 months ago) |
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Everyone ends up dead
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lifeiswhatyoumake
Trance in my sig n blood



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Re: We all deal with the system sooner or later. [Re: Vicker]
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Wow get a life.
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lifeiswhatyoumake
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lazyfingers said: Everyone knows Ellen is a satanist, and although Jesus is my God of choice, I've learned to be tolerant of other's beliefs.
sure. Whatever works for some one. As long as they don't sacrifice ppl unwillingly.
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#17107543 - 10/26/12 06:23 PM (11 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dont take life too seriously youll never get out alive
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underfliptown
I suck and you should kill me


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five to one baby, one to five, no one here gets out alive. You got yours baby, i got mine. Gonna make it baby in our prime!
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Spectacle
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Telling someone how much of a fuck up they are doesn't really accomplish anything but make them feel like shit and dig them deeper into the hole they are in It is sickening to see people here saying things along the lines of "you got what you deserved" To those who did say such things, please try and have more sympathy and empathy. the girl is clearly going through a lot right now.
Some of you should really think before you type things out. Words can have a big impact on people, especially someone in such a vulnerable state.
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Azure Essence


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Re: just got arrested [Re: Spectacle]
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Honestly, she's putting other people in danger every day.
Fuck sympathy at that point. You can be going thru shit, fine, but dont put others needlessly at risk. No one is asking for her to be on the road, she's doing it of her own volition. She DID deserve what she got, and honestly, I hope she has to go thru the system because for some reason that seems to be the only way some people can start taking care of themselves, when the law forces them too.
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Magick
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Hey Ellen,
Look you need to keep your head up. Going through the legal system sucks ass and I'm sorry that you too have to deal with it. But know that in your situation, you are almost certain to come out of it with probation/treatment, and that is a manageable situation. A lot of people have to go through what you are, but life goes on and once you've gone through this experience, you too will understand that. Not yet, but you will.
I too have had to go through the hell that is the legal system. I had a chemistry set that the cops decided they wanted to call a meth lab, and well I was charged with a felony. Also I had a bag of pot so I have a possession charge as well, and some shrooms but not a big enough sample to charge me with thank God. I could have fought the first charge and probably won, but I was so scared of what could happen if I lost, that I took the guilty plea and took probation/treatment as a result.
Anyways, the details surrounding my situation aren't important. What I want you to know is that while it was one of the most tragic events in my life and one of the hardest times to get through, things do get easier. The whole thing passes and eventually things like probation just become another routine part of life. It requires a little growing up, but it's nothing that we can't handle.
Just keep your head up, and know that you'll make it through just fine In this life you have to just keep fighting for what you need and as long as you do that, you will soar as high as an eagle.
As for the situation, it is what it is. <- Those words were spoken to me by a man I was laying next to in the holding cell. He was convicted of murder for a situation that was completely out of his control - no evil inside of this man, one of the nicest people I've spoken to, and he's going to be in prison for the rest of his life. But it is what it is, and just like him, and myself, you just have to accept the way things are and fight through. This is a walk in the park compared to what some people have to go through and don't forget that - so stay strong!
And don't forget that it's alright to break down. It will happen, just make sure you always pick yourself back up. There are plenty of resources and people out there that care and will help any way they can. K?
Good luck, Magick
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