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OfflineMello KittyS
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sex drive: zero
    #17002907 - 10/10/12 12:44 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

i have absolutely ZERO sex drive. not even a masturbatory thought or desire. is this really the product of drug abuse ? or is there just something wrong with me ? i never had a huge libido but i atleast had something. i remember i started using cocaine and mdma a lot and it would make my sex drive sky rocket. it would be all i would want while i was on it.

but then it seemed to have made non-drug sex even that much more unappealing. ive never had an addiction to cocaine or mdma it was something to do some of the time. my real addiction is with opiates which i know can also kill your libido. but i am familiar with a lot of users even IV-users that still have a sex drive. i think im just broken :crazy:


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OfflineBjorn_Stormcrow
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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17002916 - 10/10/12 12:47 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

I don't think so, sex drive can sometimes come and go in waves. just speaking from personal experience I've had months where I can't seem to think of anything else but i've also had months (or even years) where I've barely given it a second thought.

If you don't feel the need for it then you don't, or maybe you need to mix it up a little bit. try experimenting around a little, could just be that plain vanilla sex has gotten boring for you.


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17002919 - 10/10/12 12:48 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

You will get it back when you find the right person


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OfflineThe5thElement
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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17002927 - 10/10/12 12:50 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Well i've seen some of your posts around the forum a while back and what I can get from it you have had some periods of life being unhappy, are you still unhappy? That would be a major cause for having zero sex drive as you say.

Talk to me girl, I'm here for you (as cheesey as it sounds) :wink:


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: LiquidGlass]
    #17002929 - 10/10/12 12:50 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

I've heard that sex on MDMA can ruin non-MDMA sex.... I hope you didn't have too much sex on MDMA.

But as the poster above stated:

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LiquidGlass said:[/b
You will get it back when you find the right person




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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
    #17002994 - 10/10/12 01:04 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

If you are depressed combined with opiate addiction its completely understandable to have no sex drive.


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
    #17003058 - 10/10/12 01:26 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

i have
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lifeiswhatyoumake said:
I've heard that sex on MDMA can ruin non-MDMA sex.... I hope you didn't have too much sex on MDMA.

But as the poster above stated:

Quote:

LiquidGlass said:[/b
You will get it back when you find the right person






what he said


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: LiquidGlass]
    #17003117 - 10/10/12 01:45 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

LiquidGlass said:
You will get it back when you find the right person



Or: you may find the right person when it's back :wink:


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OfflineMello KittyS
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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17003151 - 10/10/12 01:57 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

yes pretty unhappy these days. going to try to change this finally. but everything is just so complicated


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: koraks]
    #17003172 - 10/10/12 02:05 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

koraks said:
Quote:

LiquidGlass said:
You will get it back when you find the right person



Or: you may find the right person when it's back :wink:




:awehigh:


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17003177 - 10/10/12 02:07 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

ellenallien said:
but everything is just so complicated



It is if you make it so in your mind. I bet your life isn't much more complicated than anyone else's.


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: LiquidGlass]
    #17003933 - 10/10/12 08:21 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

You libido will be back to normal once your hormones and the neurotransmitters in your brain go back to their original state naturally after you've ceased your drug abuse, dont worry.

also:

Quote:

LiquidGlass said:
You will get it back when you find the right person




yep, be patient.


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OfflineThe5thElement
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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17004377 - 10/10/12 10:29 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

ellenallien said:
yes pretty unhappy these days. going to try to change this finally. but everything is just so complicated





Talk it out, its only going to get better once you face it, I'd suggest discussing it with other people if your comfortable with that, helped me out thats for sure. Life's just starting to get better for me after about 4 months of feeling like shit.

So  what's up?


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OfflineLSDXM
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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17004526 - 10/10/12 11:02 AM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Happiness, fear, anger and love are some reasons people get turned on/think about sex regularly
Depression, anxiety, paranoia and insecurity are some reasons people might never even consider sexuality.

You're not broken or weird. Asking why you're not horny when you're depressed is kinda like asking why you're not happy when you're depressed.


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: LSDXM]
    #17006470 - 10/10/12 05:05 PM (11 years, 3 months ago)

My girl generally is more horny after iv heroin. It sucks for me though generally I can't keep it up and cumming... forget about it.


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: Mello Kitty]
    #17006534 - 10/10/12 05:18 PM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

ellenallien said:
i have absolutely ZERO sex drive. not even a masturbatory thought or desire. is this really the product of drug abuse ? or is there just something wrong with me ? i never had a huge libido but i atleast had something. i remember i started using cocaine and mdma a lot and it would make my sex drive sky rocket. it would be all i would want while i was on it.

but then it seemed to have made non-drug sex even that much more unappealing. ive never had an addiction to cocaine or mdma it was something to do some of the time. my real addiction is with opiates which i know can also kill your libido. but i am familiar with a lot of users even IV-users that still have a sex drive. i think im just broken :crazy:




Opiates made me much less interested in sex.  I could have boners all day too so it is a pretty funny catch-22.

When I quit my sex drive went out of control for a bit.  I used furious masturbation because I wasn't able to really preform in a way I imagined would satisfy anyone else.

Now my sex drive comes and goes.  If I am uninterested in sex for a while it is usually because I am over-stressed.

Are you still on any opiates?  Suboxone?  Overuse of them can cause anhedonia, but it could also be long-term effects from the stimulants.

You ain't broken, you're amazing :grin: Take care of yourself and be patient.  Exercise, eat healthy, and take time to relax.  :heart:


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: shallowbastard]
    #17007068 - 10/10/12 06:42 PM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

shallowbastard said:
You libido will be back to normal once your hormones and the neurotransmitters in your brain go back to their original state naturally after you've ceased your drug abuse, dont worry.

also:

Quote:

LiquidGlass said:
You will get it back when you find the right person




yep, be patient.



neurotransmitters? fuck outta here! Lol but op you gotta downgrade on the herb and stay off drugs


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: voltagegated]
    #17007874 - 10/10/12 08:21 PM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Not quite a mature response.  shallowbastard is correct about neurotransmitters....

don't go bashing knowledge you don't understand voltagegated.


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
    #17007901 - 10/10/12 08:25 PM (11 years, 3 months ago)

as others said - probably droogz.

consider yourself lucky.


as a mid twenties man, i am grateful when i don't feel like my libido is going crazy and my groin has enormous pressure on it all day, internally, from all the build up...


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Re: sex drive: zero [Re: JesusIsLord]
    #17009087 - 10/10/12 11:24 PM (11 years, 3 months ago)

Exercise more.  Shit seriously helps.


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