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Time to let go
    #1699636 - 07/09/03 02:55 PM (14 years, 11 months ago)

Often, I look to another, a lover, for a sense of completing myself. I look for one who has the character traits that I lack tin order o make myself whole. In reality, this mode of dependency, will not be an enlivening experience but more of a draining experience. Then, I find a friend who nourishes me. Endless nights of conversation of psychology, philosophy, anthropology, family life, movies, our first sexual experiences - humor, good humor, in plenty - a delirious place opens up in my breast from this feedback we're sharing, such an intense eroticism delayed ---- for me, a month with a friend without sex in CJ years could be compared to a year for normal people! And we fall asleep cuddled together in karezza, w/o sex, and it feels totally right on.
So I look back, at other lovers, some would be easy to let go of and others I'd really fear for their disappointment and well being without me. And I ask, is it best for me? Is it best for them? Should I let go now? Can I redirect this relationship to a healthier place. I am happy basing a relationship around dinner, a movie, and sex... but how refreshing a friend who digs so deep with you... shares so intimately.... that it brings deep yearnings for this kind of nourishment in all aspects of life.
Your thoughts, please?


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Everything is better than it was the last time.  I'm good.

If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

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Re: Time to let go [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #1699645 - 07/09/03 02:58 PM (14 years, 11 months ago)

Marriage?


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Re: Time to let go [Re: FlusH]
    #1699667 - 07/09/03 03:05 PM (14 years, 11 months ago)

i have very little knowledge about the joys of marriage from my observations.
tell me more, if you know.


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Everything is better than it was the last time.  I'm good.

If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.


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Re: Time to let go [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #1699734 - 07/09/03 03:21 PM (14 years, 11 months ago)

I started to awnser your question but at the 5th paragraph I realized I have to take off for work. I will come back later tonight to talk. Peace.


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