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hmm wtf, am i a people repellant?
    #1674948 - 06/30/03 09:32 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Ive noticed that whenever someone starts getting close to me, I end up driving them away- I start rambling and being insane. Then, generally, I apologize and do it again later on. Sometimes, the apology itself is a rant. Likely one problem is that I sort of go through an extreme shift of mood and personalities on a monthly basis- i think it has alot to do with the moon..

anyway, any advice? anyone ever encounter something similar? Im pretty frustrated and don't know what to do. It's not easy not being able to hold on to any good friends...


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1675392 - 07/01/03 12:01 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Why change yourself for others? Be who you are, embrace it... you don't need to change yourself for anyone! What do you owe to them?

There are plenty of people who love to ramble too, ya know :wink:


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: daba]
    #1675597 - 07/01/03 01:15 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

no, i'm just thinking
id def not change myself just to keep friends,
but I don't like when I can't control myself at all... much of the rambling is out of pure dementia, and I'd rather be able to steer it - at least a bit


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1675768 - 07/01/03 02:37 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

hmm sometimes I get crazy too

or forget that most people aren't as free-minded as shroomerites.

Slow down, relax. Try to listen more than you talk.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1675791 - 07/01/03 02:52 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

If it's something, an acting out you can't control or train it may actually be brain damage, I'm dead serious too.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: MyInsanityTrip]
    #1676246 - 07/01/03 07:46 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

That's encouraging. :smirk:

Do you mean lack of inhibitions? If so, I'd reckon he'd have to have trouble inhibiting other behaviours as well. Do you Morrowind?


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"My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: enotake2]
    #1676262 - 07/01/03 08:06 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

LOL brain damage. STOP BEIN SO PSILLY!


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: enotake2]
    #1676265 - 07/01/03 08:15 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

...
no

well er, sometimes i find it hard to stop an addiction, but thats it.......


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1676837 - 07/01/03 02:02 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I get that way with people alot. Its mostly people i have strong emotional confrontations with people. and that is mostly my ex girlfriend. When she pisses me off, yeah i go off on a rant. but thats been aquired after a long time. My friends dont mind too much some times when i rant or just "be myself". If they are cool they wont care. I think what this "attitude" has taught me is that people dont understand, you get frustrated, and for me i get pissed off and start ranting.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: enotake2]
    #1678308 - 07/02/03 12:41 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Sorry to morrow, it came off as flippant.

I'm serious though, I've seen and heard of some wicked shit like that.

There are functioning human beings walking around in society with real honest to God brain damage, mostly mild.

Like I said though, if it cannot be trained or overcome maybe morrow should see a doctor.

Maybe I'm extreme :nut: 


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1679303 - 07/02/03 07:13 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

So what do you do? Do you just talk too much, or explain yourself too much, or something else?


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Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.

"Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium

"My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: MyInsanityTrip]
    #1680325 - 07/02/03 02:27 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

brain damage? thats very likely for me.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: Zero7a1]
    #1680350 - 07/02/03 02:37 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

well knowing that you ramble is a good start, most people who do it have no idea and it just makes them annoying


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: enotake2]
    #1681410 - 07/02/03 10:11 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

oh just everything

mostly i keep mentioning how my mood is getting funky, nonsensical things that the person probably doesnt care about at all ( sometimes they relate on a minor note, actually, they usually do but iuno.. they relate only superficially- not the same way i meant it at all ).

lets see, i get extremely random and delusional ( in clear, true ways )

anddd

what else..

oh, i get the odd habit of mentioning things, many things. I write emails titled "This Friendship."
and shit


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1681866 - 07/03/03 01:05 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I often have troubles "dealing" with other people, in somewhat the same manner that you do.

My thought patterns tend to be much more abstract and non-linear than most people I encounter. I find people USUALLY (most of the time!) fail to grasp what I'm aiming at, and instead think of something else. That's if they understand what I'm talking about at all! Many times people just say "yeah, ok. so anyway..." and change the subject. Even when I'm talking about what they are talking about!

I tend to jump around through various topics all in one conversation. The topics are all linked quite clearly to me and the conversation wouldn't be the same if I didn't include all of them...but I've begun to realize that when I see a connection, not everyone else does.


Do you tend to not care much about social "niceties" and such? Don't really care how you look or what others think about you? Do you dress haphazardly? (my colors clash? who the fuck cares?)

If so, you might just be one of the FEW of us who are fairly "different" than "the norm". We think differently and we act differently, but are not necessarily "not right".

Think about it  :wink: 


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1682567 - 07/03/03 04:28 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Hey. Are there any times it doesn't occur?


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Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.

"Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium

"My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: trendal]
    #1683275 - 07/03/03 10:28 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

yea, i guess im a bunch like you in that respect

but as a side note, i like having comfy clothes that look kinda nice together- i dont care what fashion it is, as long as thats met.

ive always known im kind of odd, but it gets extremely frustrating. girls generally regard me with a detached bemusement rather than attached amusement. oh well

thought maybe, just maybe, something is wrong with me, and that i could change it..


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: enotake2]
    #1683285 - 07/03/03 10:31 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

well, yeah
it depends if im comfortable with the person


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: ]
    #1683302 - 07/03/03 10:36 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

You only need to change it if you want to  :wink:

I like the way I am. I didn't always, though. There was a time when I wanted NOTHING MORE than to just be "normal". To not be so smart. Not be so strange.

Those days are over now  :cool:

Yeah, I'm smart. So what? I guess it makes some people uncomfortable. Oh well, that's their problem, not mine!

We may be different, but I truely think it's a GOOD thing. In a world where most people are generally "the same"....we are truely unique.


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What you know you can't explain,
But you feel it;
You've felt it your entire life.
That there's something wrong with the world.
You don't know what it is, but it's there....
Like a splinter in your mind...
Driving you mad.


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Re: hmm wtf, am i a people repellant? [Re: trendal]
    #1683338 - 07/03/03 10:45 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

haha this reminds me of a part of the play Waiting for Godot, which went something like this:

Didi: Ive never been happy.. always wanted to be
Gogo: Hmmm..... say youre happy.
Didi: ?? no, im not
Gogo ( getting a bit violent ): SAY YOURE HAPPY!!
Didi:..No!!
Gogo ( hits didi): Say it!
Didi: alright, alright.. I am Happy.
Gogo: Good! I am happy too...
Didi: We're Happy!
Gogo: yup!
Didi:... What now?
Gogo: .. i dont know

aah, i suck at remembering plays but trust me when i say it was very amusing and relevent :tongue:


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