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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: i like cow poo]
#16303696 - 05/29/12 10:47 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Id take personality over looks any day.( to a point) Id take looks with personality over just personality or just looks though.
A good personality can make someone who I wouldnt otherwise be too attracted to seem way sexier. Itd still have to be someone Im attracted enough to be willing to fool around with though for anything to work.
Right now though, I think Im over the just going for looks thing...i want someone with a beautiful soul. Bodies are only physical vessels, I want someone beautiful inside.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#16303895 - 05/29/12 11:28 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've had some attractive looking girls and I'm starting to realize they are kinda bitches, tho the last girl i was with was pretty pathetic
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Konyap] 2
#16305070 - 05/30/12 07:45 AM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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The thing about attraction is, it can be a lot of things. Like the typical blonde cheerleader -doesn't really do it for me. I think I was saying another thread, I've been attracted to voices, to just the way they move. And even just experience, growing together with someone can make them very attractive. Honestly most real attraction I've felt has been the butterflys in my stomach while they're in the room, not something like 'they have a nice rack'. Go for the one that makes you feel good. Focus on that instead of just looks.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Lynnch]
#16305380 - 05/30/12 10:04 AM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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eh it's easy to be judgemental sometimes but one thing i've come to realize is all the people judging rarely look any better. don't know how many fat frat kids with kankles i've seen sitting around putting other women down for their looks. the irony is ridiculous. even my own friends and i are average/below average looking dudes. it's kinda ridiculous to have such high standards in these cases. i think media has given us an image of women that's kinda unrealistic. when you get out of high school or off a college campus the ratio of hot women to population becomes like 1/100. seriously just walk down the street on an average day and chances you see a perfect body are slim.
i see a lot of really hot girls around campus sometimes but then i come to realize they're personalities really lack and im much happier with the one i've got right now. who cares if she's a runway model or not, she's fun and i like being with her.
as for your girl. acne will go away (even faster if she takes care of it) and small tits are hot. i don't care what anyone else says. big ones are too, but some of the hottest girls i've seen were probably b cups maybe a (i don't actually know sizes i just know they were fucking small)
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: i like cow poo]
#16305389 - 05/30/12 10:07 AM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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i like cow poo said: My girlfriend isn't attractive to me in broad daylight. When the lights are down low her skin looks alot better and so does her face. In low light shes semi attractive. Personality wise she is a perfect fit and shes horney as fuck. She likes hiking and running. Can I learn to love her for who she is? Or is it hopeless?
I'm going through a VERY SIMILAR thing except it's in the world of dating.
Honestly I think it just comes with our age. I think you are also a junior in college. Part of the dating process is fucking all these pretty faces who break out hearts because we THINK we know what love is, but in reality we are naive.
Once we go through this process and find the true meaning of love, it makes a girl like the one you are dating now even more attractive.
I am starting to realize all this so I am making the conscious decision to not go for the pretty face. Sapiosexual- being attracted to intelligence.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: withoutawire] 2
#16305450 - 05/30/12 10:26 AM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: i like cow poo] 1
#16305489 - 05/30/12 10:43 AM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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If there is no physical attraction, she's just a great friend that you fuck.
But make sure that this isnt a 'grass is greener' kinda thing.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: automan]
#16306093 - 05/30/12 01:00 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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although it may not look like it at first, the grass is greener on the other side
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: automan]
#16306098 - 05/30/12 01:01 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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There's a difference between "I could do her, if I liked her personality" and "I dont wanna even think about her naked".
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#16306147 - 05/30/12 01:11 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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break it off. be friends if anything. it sounds like you want a new adventure. you can't be with a girl you think only looks good with the lights off and
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: itchmynipple] 1
#16306499 - 05/30/12 02:32 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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itchmynipple said: break it off. be friends if anything. it sounds like you want a new adventure. you can't be with a girl you think only looks good with the lights off and 
You mean to say YOU can't do that. I definitely could fuck a 5/10 with* a lot of passion if they were my best friend who I wanted to spend my life with and have kids with.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: i like cow poo] 1
#16306613 - 05/30/12 03:01 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Post a pic of this girl and we can decide for ourselves include a poll.
Must be a face shot and a full body shot.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: withoutawire] 5
#16306621 - 05/30/12 03:03 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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withoutawire said:
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itchmynipple said: break it off. be friends if anything. it sounds like you want a new adventure. you can't be with a girl you think only looks good with the lights off and 
You mean to say YOU can't do that. I definitely could fuck a 5/10 without a lot of passion if they were my best friend who I wanted to spend my life with and have kids with.
Totally agree. I used to be one of those people that always thought that attraction was imperative to a relationship, and that I could never ever be happy in a relationship with somebody who I wasn't attracted to. Then I fucked my best friend, not really a stereotypically attractive guy, doesn't look at all like the type of guy I usually go for, but he ended up being THE BEST LAY OF MY FUCKING LIFE. HOLY SHIT, it blew my fucking mind away!
Then, when I realized that he was my best friend, a guy who literally knew everything about me, including my horrible past and all my faults and accepts me for them, a guy who makes me laugh and shares the same deranged sense of humor as me, a guy I get along with better than anybody else I know, a guy who knows exactly how to please me in bed, a guy who is just as kinky as me and would literally play out ANY of my fucked up fantasies in bed. It was only then that I realized that I wanted him more than anybody else.
So, I broke it off with the really attractive, sexy lawyer I was dating (the one who looked like Tom Cruise when he was young), to exclusively see my best friend. A guy who was making minimum wage, not somebody who I found conventionally attractive at first, but was a really smart, genuine, and interesting guy. And even though I originally wasn't attracted to him, I've found him cuter and cuter because of how well we get along. In the end, if you're thinking about how unattractive your partner really is, then you probably don't really like them as much as you think you do.
Take it from me OP, hot guys/girls are a dime a dozen. And once you've had as much hot tail as I have, it wears itself out. Shit gets old, and you're always left yearning for something deeper. All the hot guys I've dated have never, ever been able to accept my past, which is why I keep my mouth shut and always hide my true self around a lot of my past boyfriends. I feel like I can never be myself or show my true colors around hot guys. You will probably have these same problems if you ever start dating hot girls. There's just too much pretense when you feel like you're dating somebody who is way out of your league.
Plus, no offense OP, but are you sure your girlfriend isn't thinking the exact same thing about you? I mean, I hardly think you have any room to complain if you aren't smoking hot yourself. And something tells me... you aren't.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Crystal G] 1
#16306661 - 05/30/12 03:10 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Very well spoken and my sentiments exactly. between the ages of 14-22 I strictly dated hot girls and rejected many girls who today I would gladly give a chance....because they were much more eager to please me than those hot high mantenance girls I used to go for.
In fact I wanna go back in time and slap the shit outta myself for rejecting cute girls who shared my interest who I only rejected cuz I didnt think they were the best I could do physically.
Also...some of them are damn sexy now. Go ugly early.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: trekie]
#16306756 - 05/30/12 03:34 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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trekie said: Post a pic of this girl and we can decide for ourselves include a poll.
Must be a face shot and a full body shot.
[Pictures removed because mission accomplished
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: i like cow poo] 3
#16306792 - 05/30/12 03:42 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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i like cow poo said: (Pictures)
Now post a picture of you so what we can judge whether you are good enough for her.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Crystal G]
#16306800 - 05/30/12 03:44 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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i like cow poo said: (Pictures)
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Crystal G]
#16306809 - 05/30/12 03:45 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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i like cow poo said: (Pictures)
Now post a picture of you so what we can judge whether you are good enough for her. 
This.
No, I wouldn't tap that, personally. Personality is important to me, but I have minimum looks standard, beyond which it's all personality. But she has to at least be attractive to me.
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Chairman Meow]
#16306837 - 05/30/12 03:53 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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As you command mistresses Pictures removed because mission accomplished
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Re: My girlfriend isn't very attractive [Re: Crystal G]
#16306931 - 05/30/12 04:20 PM (11 years, 7 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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withoutawire said:
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itchmynipple said: break it off. be friends if anything. it sounds like you want a new adventure. you can't be with a girl you think only looks good with the lights off and 
You mean to say YOU can't do that. I definitely could fuck a 5/10 without a lot of passion if they were my best friend who I wanted to spend my life with and have kids with.
Totally agree. I used to be one of those people that always thought that attraction was imperative to a relationship, and that I could never ever be happy in a relationship with somebody who I wasn't attracted to. Then I fucked my best friend, not really a stereotypically attractive guy, doesn't look at all like the type of guy I usually go for, but he ended up being THE BEST LAY OF MY FUCKING LIFE. HOLY SHIT, it blew my fucking mind away!
Then, when I realized that he was my best friend, a guy who literally knew everything about me, including my horrible past and all my faults and accepts me for them, a guy who makes me laugh and shares the same deranged sense of humor as me, a guy I get along with better than anybody else I know, a guy who knows exactly how to please me in bed, a guy who is just as kinky as me and would literally play out ANY of my fucked up fantasies in bed. It was only then that I realized that I wanted him more than anybody else.
So, I broke it off with the really attractive, sexy lawyer I was dating (the one who looked like Tom Cruise when he was young), to exclusively see my best friend. A guy who was making minimum wage, not somebody who I found conventionally attractive at first, but was a really smart, genuine, and interesting guy. And even though I originally wasn't attracted to him, I've found him cuter and cuter because of how well we get along. In the end, if you're thinking about how unattractive your partner really is, then you probably don't really like them as much as you think you do.
Take it from me OP, hot guys/girls are a dime a dozen. And once you've had as much hot tail as I have, it wears itself out. Shit gets old, and you're always left yearning for something deeper. All the hot guys I've dated have never, ever been able to accept my past, which is why I keep my mouth shut and always hide my true self around a lot of my past boyfriends. I feel like I can never be myself or show my true colors around hot guys. You will probably have these same problems if you ever start dating hot girls. There's just too much pretense when you feel like you're dating somebody who is way out of your league.
Plus, no offense OP, but are you sure your girlfriend isn't thinking the exact same thing about you? I mean, I hardly think you have any room to complain if you aren't smoking hot yourself. And something tells me... you aren't.
i dont need to be lectured on what true love is. im not at all saying that you need to be attracted to the person your with either. im saying when the looks of a person becomes a problem and a constant thought in/weight on your mind and you feel the need to post it on the web for advice, your not following how you really feel. your following other peoples decisions and expectations. if the OP doesn't like to look at his girlfriend, then that is a problem. the OP doesn't like to look at a his girlfriend in the fuckin daylight. only at night when portions of her face are not visible
how are you goingto argue that?
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