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OfflineHidingInPlainSight
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WhaT TO Do
    #1568633 - 05/22/03 09:39 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

hi guys.. heres the deal:

there is this girl that i know and we we're talking one day about messing around but just for fun... well that day came and it was great...but then she said she was "craving" hehe it again and so we mess'd around again in my truck last nite.. well im starting to like her for more than just someone to mess around with..

what should i do? should i go ahead and tell her that i am starting to like her...even if i did it wouldn't mean that she would stop doing stuff with me even though we agreed to have it be nothing more than that at first..

help me out. :smile: 


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: HidingInPlainSight]
    #1568875 - 05/22/03 12:24 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

stop fooling yourself - the only reason you're starting to like this chick is because she's letting you fool around.

If you admit to her that you're falling for her (which you're not - you'll realize this in the future), she'll walk all over you.

That's MY OPINION, anyway..


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: Strumpling]
    #1568909 - 05/22/03 12:44 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

well the reason i even made the suggestion to mess around was because i had always been interested in her, not messing around but her... then whenever we start to mess around thats when i realized that i actually did like her.. but i was the one that said "just for fun, nothing else". so im wondering if she might be holding back what she feels because she doesn't want to screw this little thing we have going on up.


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: HidingInPlainSight]
    #1569112 - 05/22/03 02:14 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

so this is a girl you've liked for a long time?

either tell her or just keep boning.. what's your question?


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: Strumpling]
    #1569128 - 05/22/03 02:20 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

i haven't liked her but i've been intersted in her.. kinda like whenever you see someone and you want to get to know them more.. well now that i sure as hell know her more i like her .. and im not sure if i should tell her i don't want her freaking out because before this started we said "just for fun, nothing else" but if shes also feeling the same way towards me i think i should tell her about how i feel. im just not quite sure abuot her reaction.


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: HidingInPlainSight]
    #1569544 - 05/22/03 04:20 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

heh all I can say is that if you tell her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same way, its time to find a new chick.


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: Strumpling]
    #1574912 - 05/24/03 07:16 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

"Well I guess that's just what sluts do,
We just met and I just fucked you."


THANK YOU Marshall Mathers.


I 'fell' for a girl, didn't realize I was falling for the pussy... got stuck with her for over two years! eh!


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: Phoshaman]
    #1582104 - 05/27/03 06:33 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

if you are unsure as to how she feels don't just blurt it out cuz it may mess shit up if she doesn't feel the same. guys just don't relize that when it comes to showing how you feel it isn't an all or nothing thing. you can subtly show her that you care for her a little more than just a mess around buddy without blurting out all you feelings. try to hang out with her without messing around kinda like a psuedo date, if she acts weird or self concious it may show that she isn't into the idea of being more than friends with benifits. maybe be more gentle or caring when ya'll mess around or call her just to chat. just do whatever you feel like doing to subtly show her that you care a little more about her and see how she reacts before you tell her.


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: AbFab]
    #1595088 - 05/30/03 11:41 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)


i dream of a world without any form of sex, a world where the truth and real feelings would never be tainted by stupid physical needs and desire.


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: fIsh in my head]
    #1595152 - 05/31/03 12:06 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

fuck her in the butt. thats my suggestion


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: Zwieback0]
    #1598116 - 06/01/03 02:03 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)


shaddup


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: fIsh in my head]
    #1598125 - 06/01/03 02:06 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: ]
    #1602109 - 06/02/03 06:50 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)


shame on me. sorry for my lack of everything


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Re: WhaT TO Do [Re: HidingInPlainSight]
    #1617036 - 06/07/03 07:20 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

heres an update fellas....

well i found out i was falling for the pussy.. and realized now that i just wanna mess around and am going to have a fucking good time doing it!

but listent to this.. i've been on vacation for 2 weeks.. and she IM's me and says.. HeY!... after some small conversation she says.. "when are you coming back.. i really miss you alot".. i just decided to act like i didnt hear the i really miss you alot part. then she says it again. so i think now she likes me for more than a mess around buddy.. maybe like instead of me thinking i like her and then finding out i like the action.. she went from just liking the action to realizing that she likes me.. lol

weird huh?


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