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Patlal
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: nice1]
#15661057 - 01/13/12 02:08 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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nice1 said: How does a landlord become unemployed anyway?
You made a thread a few months back boasting about how easy it is to be a landlord making money off debt lol
Ido have that money coming in.
The bills are in too.
Whats left is just enough to make me live. If I had a job it would be a whole different story.
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nice1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Patlal]
#15661418 - 01/13/12 03:29 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah I know what you mean. It does def make you a lot more confident when you out working all day :p get on the case bro. Keep ringing, applying.
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: nice1]
#15661500 - 01/13/12 03:59 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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nice1 said:
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Patlal said:
Am I just delusional here?
Yes. If they are that shallow its a big red flag anyway.
If a girl wants a job and money out of you instead of love and affection then what good are they anyway?
love and affection doesnt fill the belly, a woman desires someone that she doesnt have to support
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Shins
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: nice1] 1
#15661505 - 01/13/12 04:02 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Money does not inflate your penis, or give you a bigger capacity for love and intimacy.
if you need money, youre making up for lack of character.
my advice is learn to be happy and confident in who you are even if youre broke.
if you have real character its easy.
money is an illusion.
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Shins]
#15661536 - 01/13/12 04:14 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shins said: Money does not inflate your penis, or give you a bigger capacity for love and intimacy.
if you need money, youre making up for lack of character.
my advice is learn to be happy and confident in who you are even if youre broke.
if you have real character its easy.
money is an illusion.
ok, so where will this first date be if here's no money? let's say it survives the first date and makes it to the moving in together, will you be living at her mom's, your mom's or in a cardboard box out by the dumpsters at the local restaurant because you'll need to find some way to eat, what about kids, getting off the bus and living in a stolen tent should help them make friends
money is only an illusion to the delusional
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Patlal
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#15661550 - 01/13/12 04:18 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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Shins said: Money does not inflate your penis, or give you a bigger capacity for love and intimacy.
if you need money, youre making up for lack of character.
my advice is learn to be happy and confident in who you are even if youre broke.
if you have real character its easy.
money is an illusion.
ok, so where will this first date be if here's no money? let's say it survives the first date and makes it to the moving in together, will you be living at her mom's, your mom's or in a cardboard box out by the dumpsters at the local restaurant because you'll need to find some way to eat, what about kids, getting off the bus and living in a stolen tent should help them make friends
money is only an illusion to the delusional
I have money for a few dates...
Its the rest I can't afford lol
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Patlal]
#15661560 - 01/13/12 04:21 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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you can afford a box at the dumpster
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Patlal
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#15661567 - 01/13/12 04:22 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said: you can afford a box at the dumpster
The rats will defend it to death...
I learned the hard way
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teamkiller
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#15661576 - 01/13/12 04:24 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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hey kind of related, i have a job and i never cash my paychecks so i have a decent amount of money, but i still don't know how to get a girlfriend.
how do i do this.
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Patlal
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: teamkiller]
#15661590 - 01/13/12 04:27 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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teamkiller said: hey kind of related, i have a job and i never cash my paychecks so i have a decent amount of money, but i still don't know how to get a girlfriend.
how do i do this.
First of all, cash your fucking paychecks in case your employer decides to go bankrupt or worst, you pass the 6 months before the check is void.
As for girls, its somewhat easy, but you need to not be shy at all and keep the conversation going. I don't really know what I do, but it seems to work I guess. I don't get a new girl every week, but I'm not forever alone either. Average would be the word
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teamkiller
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Patlal]
#15661655 - 01/13/12 04:42 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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i can converse with strangers and aquiantences, but it never progresses beyond that. When i suggest doing things another time nothing ever comes of it.
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Patlal
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: teamkiller]
#15661690 - 01/13/12 04:50 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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teamkiller said: i can converse with strangers and aquiantences, but it never progresses beyond that. When i suggest doing things another time nothing ever comes of it.
Did you ever ask directly?
Like: I would love to go out with you sometime.
Something like that. Be direct.
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: teamkiller]
#15661698 - 01/13/12 04:52 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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teamkiller said: hey kind of related, i have a job and i never cash my paychecks so i have a decent amount of money, but i still don't know how to get a girlfriend.
how do i do this.
have you tried leaving the house?
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teamkiller
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#15661726 - 01/13/12 05:01 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Did you ever ask directly?
Like: I would love to go out with you sometime.
yes. often they say yes, and then never respond again to texts or calls.
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have you tried leaving the house?
no.
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nice1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#15663972 - 01/14/12 04:56 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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nice1 said:
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Patlal said:
Am I just delusional here?
Yes. If they are that shallow its a big red flag anyway.
If a girl wants a job and money out of you instead of love and affection then what good are they anyway?
love and affection doesnt fill the belly, a woman desires someone that she doesnt have to support
Maybe its just an American thing then.
No girl I've ever just met has been worried about supporting me. You just either like each other or not.
I've been out before and bought women drinks and shit and they just use you for it. I've been out and had women buy me drinks all night, pasy for the taxi and still fucked them
You just have this weird bi-polar way of looking at things as if everything is either one way or the other. A women is a human being - capable of being different in every aspect the same as any other human. They are not just a type of person that will only talk to someone if they have money
Besides all of that OP has stable income from being a landlord that pays for his food and accomodation
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nice1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: teamkiller]
#15663984 - 01/14/12 05:08 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Would have to meet you in person to figure out exactly what is.
Probably the circumstance in which you are meeting them. You need to swim through the circles people create because people have a barrier up to strangers.
Like find a good work mate who will introduce you to his circle of friends and so on and so on. If you have no circles or work then join clubs, do community work or any thing where groups of people get together. It takes time to build trust with someone new. TBH the only places I find people drop the barriers somewhat are at festivals and things like that where many people go to be much more open to meeting strangers.
A random dude in a coffee shop is a bit Most people require some trust to be built and some knowledge of your character first. The only way I could see that happening is if the same person keeps coming in and you have a connection. If you both have a connection then they will be happy for you to invite them out. You can see this in their body language and how keen they are to talk to you.
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Morphogenesis
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: nice1]
#15663993 - 01/14/12 05:12 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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The trick to reel in female companionship is to be busy.
Have things going on: meet-ups with friends, concerts, lectures to attend, movies to see, family to visit, gyms to attend, parties, etc.
Even volunteering at tons of different humanitarian places will attract more snatch than you know what to do with, trust me.
When you seem busy you seem important. And it's all about status to those mother fuckers, I don't care how "different" or "special" they are.
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nice1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Morphogenesis]
#15664002 - 01/14/12 05:17 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Is it all about status for you?
Do you check a girls finances and status before deciding if you like them as a person?
You really think all females are like that? Must be a sad world to of imagined for yourself.
I know some women like status but not all. Nothing is absolute, theres always an exception. At least half the women out there dislike status because they are not all the same person.
When you meet someone that you click with all those preconcieved notions go out the window. The oxytocin kicks in and you both act more similar to each other to make it work.
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Morphogenesis
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: nice1]
#15664009 - 01/14/12 05:21 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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nice1 said: Is it all about status for you?
Do you check a girls finances and status before deciding if you like them as a person?
You really think all females are like that? Must be a sad world to of imagined for yourself.
I know some women like status but not all. Nothing is absolute, theres always an exception. At least half the women out there dislike status because they are not all the same person.
There are numerous scientific studies that demonstrate a man's penis fills with blood when he views pornography. It's an involuntary response.
Similarly, when female homo sapiens sniff out that you're one cool mother fucker, the panties go down.
It's not really an opinion. Disbelief in pheromones won't impact their effectiveness either.
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nice1
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Re: Ever since I'm unemployed, I seem to have lost my confidence to get a girlfriend. [Re: Morphogenesis]
#15664014 - 01/14/12 05:25 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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I know plenty of women who didn't fit in at school and completely rebel at the idea of status in social circles because they know first hand the concept is bullshit.
So it is an opinion because its not an absolute. Yeah status will win with some women but its not the only factor or a essential one. Every person is different.
Status alone would only win a woman who had status alone as their top priority.
Most people don't have priorities when they meet someone and if they do it usually goes out the window if you feel you like them anyway. Attraction is complex and you can like or dislike a person for a whole variety of reasons.
If it was all status then the majority of this planet would be single and never get laid. Not everything is "black and white".
Also status itself is completely subjective. World status? Group status? I know it has an effect for some people but your making a mistake to say all women are X.
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