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InvisibleHairyNipple
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Crappy friend
    #1561654 - 05/19/03 11:25 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

My friend i have known for 2 years, i met him in college, he and I have smoked out alot together. He is the only one I have told that I am growing, it was an excited blurt that came from my mouth, i wish i never told him, but i did. Just recently when we were getting stoned he asked me "hey, is your mom for terrorism???" I was quite offended, naturally, because I am middle eastern, this shit offends me, and i am sensitive to it.

Mind you he is a shit talker, he talks shit on me all the time, i dont however, because i find talking shit pointless and I dont come back at him. He is a daily smoker, seems to be addiceted, has used meth and crack in the past, i think this + the weed has made him a negative person who gives off bad vibes, yet, he is one of my only friends.
I told my mom about what he said recently, because it bugged me, and I knew that someone should not cross the line. When he came over today, he got chewed out by my mom about what he said. It was awkward because my mom asked him questions, and he totally denied what he said, it was very arrogant of him, and he said i made it up and then called me wierd. He left promptly and empty handed without the book he came to pick up. He said before he left said "dont call me". An hour later i called him anyway, and he said "dont fucking call me".

I need advice, what should i do, should i be worried about his big mouth, he knows quite a few people, and he slangs weed. I wish i never told him about it.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: HairyNipple]
    #1561723 - 05/19/03 11:50 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

Fuck him. Get new friends. He sounds like a jerk.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: HairyNipple]
    #1561742 - 05/19/03 11:57 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

odd you told your mom. he should be making this thread about you.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: ]
    #1562137 - 05/20/03 02:53 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

I kinda agree with that. People say things(espeially stoned) they don't mean. I know when I am stoned or even sober I crack jokes but don't sound like I am joking. I am pretty sure he wasn't going to expect you to say "yes, my mom supports terrorism".

Understand that having somebodies parents get in your face about something is extremely stressful. Double that up cause you are the reason it happened. I would have said you were lying as well just to get the hell out of there.

Maybe you should find friends who don't push your buttons.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: HairyNipple]
    #1562168 - 05/20/03 03:16 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

If he slangs weed, he probably won't rat on you for the simple reason you got dirt on him, it's a mutual fear for the both of you to get busted, so I would assume you both should be keeping your mouths shut.

He is mad because your mom came down on him for something he could barely remember, and that pissed him off.
I would think if he is a decent person, he wont be angry for too long.


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    #1562211 - 05/20/03 03:33 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)



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    #1562212 - 05/20/03 03:34 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)



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Re: Crappy friend [Re: SBTlauien]
    #1562236 - 05/20/03 03:41 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

Next post will be from his mom.....


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: HairyNipple]
    #1562289 - 05/20/03 04:29 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

he's using you for drugs and support of his negative behavior


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InvisibleHairyNipple
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Re: Crappy friend [Re: Strumpling]
    #1562624 - 05/20/03 11:59 AM (13 years, 6 months ago)

I agree with all of your statements. He does push my buttons quite often, to the point where he brings my high down. I could not have said anything, but he was being such an asshole all the time that I didnt know where to turn. Think i should call him, or give it a few weeks? + I dont like people bagging on my mom like that.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: HairyNipple]
    #1563234 - 05/20/03 04:39 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

I would forget about this guy - he'll come back when he needs somewhere to get stoned.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: Strumpling]
    #1563299 - 05/20/03 05:12 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

Try to talk to him later so you'll be on good terms and say your sorry. Even if he stays mad he wont tell the cops about the pot, which sounds like your main worry. As long as he knows you're suffering he wont do anything else, weither it be from guilt or from legal issues. If one doesn't bother you he might go to the next...


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: HairyNipple]
    #1565561 - 05/21/03 01:27 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: Crappy friend [Re: ]
    #1565575 - 05/21/03 01:32 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Don't tell anyone you are doing anything illegal, ever.

Wait a few weeks and then call him. If he continues to push your buttons drop him like a bad habit.




Mr Mushrooms summed it up perfectly there.

Never ever tell anyone about growing. The most id be worried about is him stealing the grow, or telling someone else who would steal the grow. Doesnt sound like the person would go to the cops. He kinda sounds like the type of punk kids i try to avoid.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: baraka]
    #1566067 - 05/21/03 03:23 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

hmmmmm
so are grow projects with 2 ppl not a very good idea?


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: ]
    #1566976 - 05/21/03 09:00 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

I don't see why you should have to appologize. Then again, my friends often talk shit when they're stoned, one of them jokingly said "I'm a pretty racist guy..." then looked over at my asian friend "except to the chinks." it was one of those moments where everyone just froze. The guy who said this is honest to god one of the nicest people I know. Trust me, the drugs do the talking. I think in our heads we all think terribile things pretty often, but only accidentally express them when stoned or for a few other select reasons.

If I were you, I'd probably wait about a week, then give him a call, and if he's still a jerk, ditch him.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: jarby]
    #1567342 - 05/21/03 10:46 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

Wow, you and your friends lack a healthy sense of humour if you got offended by that.


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Re: Crappy friend [Re: sir tripsalot]
    #1567470 - 05/21/03 11:22 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

thats just it, when i am high my sense of humor soars  :smile:  .  I cant recall the last time he's ever said a joke.  thats why i had to take him seriously.


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InvisibleHairyNipple
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Re: Crappy friend [Re: SBTlauien]
    #1569179 - 05/22/03 02:42 PM (13 years, 6 months ago)

i know, i regret my emotions, but i dont smoke him out, he smokes me out...for free


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