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XUL
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Just saw my ex's PICTURE!
#15463413 - 12/04/11 10:10 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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All it takes is a fucking picture and my heart starts racing and I feel like I am going to have a heart attack.
I was browsing on facebook and some girl left a news feed that said she loved mac and cheese which is my ex's favorite food. I was like.. who the fuck is this bitch even? I dont know her. And so I click on her profile and look at her pictures. And there they are, tons of pictures of this mystery girl and my ex.
Instantly my heart rate spikes and I feel like im on the edge.
This is crazy.
And even worse I am supposed to see a girl from my ex's hometown where she now lives.
I cant run. I cant hide.
FUCKING EX! HOE
...at least I have the shroomery. My sacred place where nobody can find me.
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Edited by XUL (12/04/11 10:11 AM)
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XUL
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: XUL]
#15463430 - 12/04/11 10:14 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Damn, its been like 5 minutes and I still have shallow breathing and nervousness. I am like having a fucking panic attack about it.
What a hoe she was.
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: XUL]
#15463448 - 12/04/11 10:18 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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darn, dude, sounds like shes got a hold of you
you need to calm down dude, its not worth it
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XUL
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15463471 - 12/04/11 10:25 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: darn, dude, sounds like shes got a hold of you
you need to calm down dude, its not worth it
Its been about a year and a half. She did have a hold of me. Maybe she still has a claw stuck in me. Damn succubus's
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the_drummer
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15463478 - 12/04/11 10:27 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bitches ain't shit. You've only got so long on this earth. Move on. Time to bust out the booze, forget about this chick and get weird
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fngbronco
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: the_drummer] 1
#15464035 - 12/04/11 12:33 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Go loft something heavy. I found out my ex wife may have cancer (it's not, but they're unsure what it is), and though I feel bad for her, I don't have to deal with it.
She's your ex man, incompatible, no longer necessary, not an item, get over her man. Get under some heavy weights, maybe even a really slutty dirty chick. The anxiety shit you need to breathe through, you know that as I'm sure this isn't your first time with it. Seriously though, you gotta move on, cut the emotional attachment. You're in like, stage 5 clinger mode, it's been 1-1/2 years. Get you a good chick, that is opposite of your ex and I can almost guarantee you'll be happier than ever.
-------------------- I challenge you to challenge yourself more! When you feel complacent and ready to hang it up, challenge yourself to get over it! If you fail, don't look at it as you didn't succeed, look at it as you would a rock face you're trying to climb. Stand back, wayyyy back, and look at it and plot another path. If you can't find one, shuffle down the way a little, a little change of scenery or a view from a different angle may give you the insight you need. Anything I state is relayed information from a friend of a friend and should be viewed as completely fictitious. I do not partake in any illegal or grey-area-of-the-law activities, but do have lots of friends who may or may not. -fngbronco Pill Divider Agar Tek
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I_was_the_walrus
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: XUL]
#15467418 - 12/04/11 11:38 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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At least you dont live 1 block down the road from your ex. I had to completely change up by transit in and out of the area just to avoid bumping into her. She still doesnt know where I live, and I intend to keep it that way.
Anyhow, I had a similar thing happen to me. I was checking out a friends facebook and saw a few pictures of her at a bar gig. We went to school together growing up, so we have the same groups of friends. She looks pretty good as far as I can see, but some friends are telling me shes letting the drugs get the best of her.
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All We Perceive
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: XUL]
#15467424 - 12/04/11 11:42 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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Haha the same thing happens when I see my ex in person randomly. My heartbeat increases times a million and I feel instant fight or flight mode. Unfortunately, there's really nothing I can do about it seems as I see her utterly randomly on super sporadic occasions. Oh well.
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withoutawire
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Meh I've been there man. Shows you that the love was real.
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CarnivalBarker
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Facebook causes more problems with women than it's worth. I just checked mine and this real cute girl from one of my classes messaged me saying that she wants to study with me for exams. Of course I told her I would and gave her my number even though I've been fucking this other girl every day for the past month. Now what if me and this new girl end up really hitting it off? It's just going to make shit more complicated. This girl is a lot hotter than the girl I'm seeing now.
edit: sorry I vented in your thread, but it seemed related.
Edited by CarnivalBarker (12/04/11 11:55 PM)
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Lynnch
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I have dreams about crushes that crushed me. Its fucking killer, my own mind is against me. All I want to do is move on but my dreams just keep the fantasy going. Then I wake up and feel lost all over again. Ah well, that is a good point, be thankful you experience strong emotions and have things happen to you in life that you actually care about.
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fngbronco
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Quote:
withoutawire said: Meh I've been there man. Shows you that the love was real.
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All We Perceive said: Haha the same thing happens when I see my ex in person randomly. My heartbeat increases times a million and I feel instant fight or flight mode. Unfortunately, there's really nothing I can do about it....
Even if you truly do/did care about them, you gotta get over it. Imagine you had the car of your dreams, and had to get rid of it. Every time you see that car you're gonna yearn for it, but you gotta let it go and find another one lol. Women are like objects (I'm only joking nobody take that seriously). Relationships and significant others are objects though. Sometimes we gotta find a better one, or downgrade til we can get a better one, the biggest thing to take from it though is learning where you want to improve yourself. The only person in your life yor truly need to please is you, now due to our self serving capitalism, we like making others happy cuz it makes us happy. At the end of the day though, giving a homeless dude a grand and not having a bed to sleep on leaves one in the dumps.
-------------------- I challenge you to challenge yourself more! When you feel complacent and ready to hang it up, challenge yourself to get over it! If you fail, don't look at it as you didn't succeed, look at it as you would a rock face you're trying to climb. Stand back, wayyyy back, and look at it and plot another path. If you can't find one, shuffle down the way a little, a little change of scenery or a view from a different angle may give you the insight you need. Anything I state is relayed information from a friend of a friend and should be viewed as completely fictitious. I do not partake in any illegal or grey-area-of-the-law activities, but do have lots of friends who may or may not. -fngbronco Pill Divider Agar Tek
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: fngbronco]
#15467580 - 12/05/11 12:34 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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fngbronco said: Go loft something heavy. I found out my ex wife may have cancer (it's not, but they're unsure what it is), and though I feel bad for her, I don't have to deal with it.
She's your ex man, incompatible, no longer necessary, not an item, get over her man. Get under some heavy weights, maybe even a really slutty dirty chick. The anxiety shit you need to breathe through, you know that as I'm sure this isn't your first time with it. Seriously though, you gotta move on, cut the emotional attachment. You're in like, stage 5 clinger mode, it's been 1-1/2 years. Get you a good chick, that is opposite of your ex and I can almost guarantee you'll be happier than ever.
yeah...i didn't realize it had been that long...thats kinda shitty you're not over her after that long, get over it dude
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withoutawire
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: fngbronco]
#15467607 - 12/05/11 12:41 AM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm over my ex-gf, but that doesn't mean I won't feel regret when I see her looking good on facebook. It's still instilled it me, but I don't want to be with her.
i also threw it away on a drug addiction, so that's probably what I am feeling.
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countchocula420



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i have too dude
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Anonymous #2
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I hate that feeling of seeing someone and feeling intense in your body cause of how youve felt about them. Hope u can calm urself down op and stay safe.
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All We Perceive
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: fngbronco]
#15469374 - 12/05/11 12:29 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am completely over her and have zero interest in getting back together with her, or ever seeing her again for that matter. She is an emotional vampire and all in all, a terrible person. I think that's why I feel these things when I see her.
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Re: Just saw my ex's PICTURE! [Re: XUL]
#15470276 - 12/05/11 03:55 PM (12 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'll tell you exactly what I told my cousin when he was still being whiny about his ex gf.
You need to get the fuck over it, and let her go. Just erase her from your life and your mind. Cherish the good times you had, but look forward to making new memories with a new girl. Just stop being a pussy by letting some bitch who isnt even in your life control it.
When me and my ex broke up while is was in high school, I became severely depressed, and wanted to go on a killing spree. time went on, and I started to come to my senses and just let her go on. Then I met my current girlfriend, who takes wonderful care of me, and loves me very much. I just didnt give up hope, and I didnt go looking for a new girlfriend, she just came to me.
Like they say, there's plenty more girls out there for you to discover, and once you find one that enjoys spending time with you, you won't even be able to remember your ex girls' name.
Don't mean to sound like a dick about it, but sometimes us humans need someone else to beat it into our brains. Hope you find a new chick that totally rocks your world
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