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aeonblue
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Its official
#1538671 - 05/11/03 07:55 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have been officially dumped by my girlfriend. She left Friday night, never came back and I finally got ahold of her at work Sunday. I had no idea where she was the whole time and I was so worried. And after finding her this morning, I have found out that we "aren't working out". This she told me on the phone while she was at work. Since she was one of the few things I have left to look forward too, I am left with very little. I have been trying to make a positive change in my life lately and this is trying to break me. She already has a place to move to so she doens't have to worry about that but now I get all the rent and utilities. This has brought me lower than when I had to leave college because of my depression. And now I am worried about me. Lately things have been on a downward shift. Any positive thoughts sent my way will be felt and greatly appreciated cause I really need some now. Now I am gonna put on Mudvayne and think about my life and what place I have in this world. Oh, and Happy Mothers Day.
-------------------- The trouble with our times is that the future is not what it used to be. Paul Valery www.dailygrail.com
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FreakQlibrium
Son of Uncle Meat
Registered: 06/06/02
Posts: 19,058
Loc: Toronto Canada
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1538679 - 05/11/03 08:00 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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^^^^ <=========Positive NRG sent in your direction
-------------------- "Being crazier than a shithouse rat is not sufficient grounds for banishment"
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Chemical_Smile
Making Love WithMy Ego
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1538778 - 05/11/03 09:38 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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It always gets better eventualy, trust me, I have lots of experience as a depressed single guy.
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Stymee
From here to reality.
Registered: 03/31/02
Posts: 671
Loc: Seattle, WA
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1538791 - 05/11/03 09:47 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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The best advice I can give here is to try to get her out of your mind. Getting dumped is bad, but dragging yourself though the mud and beating yourself up is worse.
We all get dumped, and it's never easy. Spend a couple days listening to the Cure then put together a plan for meeting a new girl.
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SuperSpun
Not quite surewhat happened
Registered: 03/10/03
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Loc: India
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Re: Its official [Re: Stymee]
#1538801 - 05/11/03 09:58 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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What you gotta do is start a new hobbie or something that keeps you busy. In my opinion, the best thing to do would be to get a membership to a gym and start working out like crazy. Even if you don't stick with it, it will give you something to do to get your mind off that dumb bitch. And also it will help with depression(working out hardcore makes you feel great). But trust me dude, in a month or two this won't even be a thing. It gets better. I'm tellin you from experience. And you know what...........it's her loss man. She is the one that fucked up by leaving you. You sound fucking cool to me man. It will only get better from here. I promise.
-------------------- Not quite sure what happened
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BlowMiNose
Some rise, Somefall, Some climb
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Re: Its official [Re: SuperSpun]
#1539503 - 05/11/03 05:15 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, its her loss. Fuck her man. It just wasn't meant to be ya know? I agree with the gym thing, or any other hobby that interests you. Also go hit up some clubs/bars...whatever you wanna do, and start mackin on the ladies! You're a single man now! Time to party right?
-------------------- ***--- Have You Opened Your Third eye?! ---*** :::disclaimer:::this stuff was done in my dreams
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BitchCakes
The captain ofouter space
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Girlfriends come and go but you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life. Work on making yourself happy for a while and screw everyone else.
Youve got plenty of positive thoughts coming your way!
-------------------- -I'm a dork-
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Strumpling
Neuronaut
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1539541 - 05/11/03 05:30 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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phew thankfully you're finally FREE!! whew man we were scared this bitch would suck you into a full-time relationship at such an early age.... You'll realize how lucky you are in a few years
-------------------- Insert an "I think" mentally in front of eveything I say that seems sketchy, because I certainly don't KNOW much. Also; feel free to yell at me. In addition: SHPONGLE
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SBTlauien
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Post deleted by Administrator [Re: aeonblue]
#1539715 - 05/11/03 07:01 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Strumpling
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Re: Its official [Re: SBTlauien]
#1539879 - 05/11/03 08:45 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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yeah you should realize soon that she's not as special as you may have thought as much as that hurts to admit
-------------------- Insert an "I think" mentally in front of eveything I say that seems sketchy, because I certainly don't KNOW much. Also; feel free to yell at me. In addition: SHPONGLE
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silversoul7
Chill the FuckOut!
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1540161 - 05/11/03 10:18 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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We've all been there. I know enough about your situation to know that there's nothing I can tell you to make you feel better. It just takes time. It helps if you have a close friend you can turn to, tho--someone who you don't mind seeing you cry. Hang in there, man! It gets better eventually. If it's any difference to you, I'll rate you 5 shrooms.
-------------------- "It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong."--Voltaire
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aeonblue
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Thanks for all of the positive remarks. They have helped me a lot. As far as getting my mind off of things, I have been playing my guitar more than I have in the last 4 years. Wrote many songs over the weekend. I know that I will get over this in time but after that shit happens, I kind of take it pretty hard. We were together for about a year and a half. I guess this will give me some free time to finally get to reading the enormous amount of books on the kaballah that I have. I think I found another part time job that will help out with my rent so that seems to be ok. Thanks again everyone. Besides, I will put some casings and cakes on her side of the bed now......
-------------------- The trouble with our times is that the future is not what it used to be. Paul Valery www.dailygrail.com
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Strumpling
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1544070 - 05/13/03 01:27 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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-------------------- Insert an "I think" mentally in front of eveything I say that seems sketchy, because I certainly don't KNOW much. Also; feel free to yell at me. In addition: SHPONGLE
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Sheepish
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Re: Its official [Re: aeonblue]
#1544430 - 05/13/03 06:50 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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I am downloading some Tool bootlegs which I'm sure would help you feel better I'm serious though, cause in bad times, good music really helps.
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SBTlauien
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#1547419 - 05/14/03 04:31 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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aeonblue
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Re: Its official [Re: SBTlauien]
#1555905 - 05/17/03 08:53 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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For the second time, its official- I no longer feel bad and this is why===========> salvation
-------------------- The trouble with our times is that the future is not what it used to be. Paul Valery www.dailygrail.com
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