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OfflineGringoLoco
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Another Friday night by myself
    #1535908 - 05/09/03 11:57 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

*sighs* Is this my destiny for the rest of my life? I'm really lonely and sick and tired of being that way, but I can honestly see no change in this way of life for a long, long time. I really have no friends, I have people I could call but I don't really have anything in common with any of them and I just end up having a miserable time. How the hell am I supposed to meet new people? I'm sure as hell not going to go up and talk to random strangers, asking for a good time. Nobody likes me and I don't like anybody, I guess I'm just destined to be that hermit who lives next to the freeway forever.


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OfflineLyte it Up 420
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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1535912 - 05/10/03 12:00 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

yea same here, cept i dont live next to a freeway


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1535951 - 05/10/03 12:22 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Most people just aren't worth getting to know from my experience. Out of my whole high school of several thousand people, there were maybe a handful of people who were worth being friends with. How old are you? If you're still in school it shouldn't be too hard to meet people.


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OfflineWysefool
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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: bert]
    #1535962 - 05/10/03 12:28 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I think the best thing to do would be to join some clubs, that way you're meeting only people dedicated to similar interests... I'm pretty sure there would be a mycological club in your area, and if there isn't, why not try to start one?


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OfflineGringoLoco
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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: Wysefool]
    #1535979 - 05/10/03 12:38 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I'm 19 in a couple of days, no school, I really don't have anything you would call a hobby or anything. I'm not what you'd call an outgoing guy, but I just don't like to be this isolated.


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1535991 - 05/10/03 12:42 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Hmm, you should get your butt in college. It'll force you to meet a lot of new people and open up more.


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OfflineGringoLoco
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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: bert]
    #1536002 - 05/10/03 12:49 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I'm not going to school. I'm a shitty student and I have no idea what I want to do in life.


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1536013 - 05/10/03 12:57 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Still, college is the way to go. You'll need it if you ever want to be self supporting and move on with your life. I have no idea what I want to do in life. I'm a shitty student as well, but good enough to get by and buy time to form a plan. whatever you decide to do, good luck man.


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: bert]
    #1536019 - 05/10/03 12:59 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I can't afford room and board as it is. How the hell am I supposed to add tuition in there, plus the fact that the time I spend in classes isn't going torwards working and earning money...... bottom line, I'll never be able to afford it.


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1536091 - 05/10/03 01:33 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

try to get some student loans. 

Sometimes when I am in shitty mood for months,  I will do something different.  I recently got screwed by a 3 year relationship. SO the thing I did was look for a better job. cut all my hair off into a mohawk and shaved my beard.  total change, I didn't feel like myself, so I was able to got out and meet some chicks.:) The other thing is cultivate.  Finding the shroomery and learning how to cultivate gave me a reason to smile everyday.  Its really enjoyable watching the stuff you made grow. I still feel sucidal(because of relationship) everyday, but knowing that I am being productive helps out alot. :smile:

write poetry. even if you say you can't; write words down on paper. And that helps out too.

peace :smile:

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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: SBTlauien]
    #1536331 - 05/10/03 04:02 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Go to a rainbow gathering, plenty of kind people and you're sure to have a good time. if you like pot and shrooms you will find people that have stuff in comon with you. Best of all, it's free! check "welcomehome" in my sig, and start doing something with your life.


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Offlineaeonblue
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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: thestringphish]
    #1536517 - 05/10/03 07:50 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I would try looking in a local paper for some things to do. There will usually be some alternative lifestyle events going on. I live in a sparsely populated area and even here there is a workshop on shamanism today. If you live anywhere near colleges, look for some cool lectures or something. Also, learn how to play the guitar. That will take you awhile and you will get way more out of it than you put in. Maybe this helped, but either way good luck.


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: aeonblue]
    #1536567 - 05/10/03 08:59 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

im the same way too, no friends, and too sensitive and anxious to open up to anybody, and just overall in general hate people


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: SWAY]
    #1536575 - 05/10/03 09:06 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

We seem to all be in the same damn boat! Maybe we should put are problems aside for a bit and just concentrate on the Shroomerite friends that we do have and the love they bring!


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OfflineLyte it Up 420
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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: Earth_Droid]
    #1536649 - 05/10/03 10:31 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

just to let you know that welcomehome link is broken


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1536748 - 05/10/03 12:14 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Go to a show.
See some people that look intelligent or cool and go up to them. Introduce yourself. All yah really gotta do is not be afraid of putting yourself out there. I mean what's the WORST that could happen? And even if the worst does happen, there's other times, other people.

Say whatever is on your mind. Ask if there's any good patays around there. Partays also equals women.  :grin:

Stay positive. 


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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: ArmFromTheAbyss]
    #1536767 - 05/10/03 12:27 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I know the feeling I gone from haveing a girlfriend with lots of friends to know one and most of the people I do know I either have nothing in common with them or I simply dont trust them. I even moved away to go uni but found that I am surrounded by sheep and the type of people that are the total oppiste to me the kind that think if you dont like sport then your a weirdo or something I am just too far north meet any one decent.



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Re: Another Friday night by myself [Re: GringoLoco]
    #1537713 - 05/10/03 09:23 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

You could try losing the oversized signature.


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