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greys
OTD Sergeant at Arms



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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: automan]
#15280147 - 10/26/11 08:19 AM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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automan said:
Youth is definitely wasted on the young
You ain't kiddin.
I will say this....at that age I didn't worry about every single interaction with a girl turning into something one way or the other. If it worked out great, and if it didn't that was ok too. I wasn't looking for marriage, long time relationship or kids at that point. If a girl was playing me versus another guy or refusing sex after a reasonable waiting period...on to the next episode and no regrets.
wtf is wrong with the young fellas these days?  It aint rocket science.
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pwnasaurus
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: greys]
#15281858 - 10/26/11 04:22 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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What isn't rocket science? That everyone has different needs and doesn't think/feel the same way as you? You're right, that's probably why different young people seek different things, much the same way different old people think different things.
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: pwnasaurus]
#15287614 - 10/27/11 06:33 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck..
Girl A just got back with her ex.
And R is seeming to grow cold and distant. She won't even respond to my texts now. I think its either another guy, or she's feeling guilty because she probably told her future-BF who's coming back for her in March that she wouldn't mess around with other guys.
I'm hanging out with her tomorrow though. What can I do before she's a lost cause? Anyway for me to make her crazy for me? Or how to get in her pants before this all goes downhill?
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automan
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#15288002 - 10/27/11 07:45 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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Honestly, just treat her like any normal person. Dont fawn over her or try to manipulate her. The FWB thing isnt gonna happen. Just be her friend again
-------------------- No, no, you're not thinking, you're just being logical. ~ Niels Bohr
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: automan]
#15288432 - 10/27/11 09:12 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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Good idea. Plenty of other fish in the sea, I s'pose.
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greys
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: pwnasaurus]
#15289702 - 10/28/11 06:24 AM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: What isn't rocket science? That everyone has different needs and doesn't think/feel the same way as you? You're right, that's probably why different young people seek different things, much the same way different old people think different things.
no it isnt rocket science. If you make things more complicated than they have to be, then you've asked for dissatisfaction and suffering.
There's no reason to sit and analyze/agonize over choices and decisions young girls make...half the time they don't know why they make certain decisions so why fuss over it. At 20-25 yrs of age its crazy too much emphasis on any one girl. duh.
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fbi365
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: greys]
#15291786 - 10/28/11 04:37 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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greysRDbest said:
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pwnasaurus said: What isn't rocket science? That everyone has different needs and doesn't think/feel the same way as you? You're right, that's probably why different young people seek different things, much the same way different old people think different things.
no it isnt rocket science. If you make things more complicated than they have to be, then you've asked for dissatisfaction and suffering.
There's no reason to sit and analyze/agonize over choices and decisions young girls make...half the time they don't know why they make certain decisions so why fuss over it. At 20-25 yrs of age its crazy too much emphasis on any one girl. duh.
True, very true. But easier said than done. My brain doesn't have an off switch. Does yours? If so, perhaps you'd like to share with us exactly how you do that...
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automan
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: fbi365]
#15293541 - 10/28/11 11:24 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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Drugs
-------------------- No, no, you're not thinking, you're just being logical. ~ Niels Bohr
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Re: Friends with benefits situation... [Re: automan]
#15301582 - 10/30/11 09:43 PM (12 years, 3 months ago) |
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^ Yes.
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