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Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend
    #15236352 - 10/16/11 10:26 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

This was prompted by a joke I made about going to Vegas this year for my 21st b day and going to strip clubs with my buddies.

My girlfriend doesn't think I should go to strip clubs or even WANT to go to strip clubs because "she should be enough for me".

She's usually not this controlling and angsty so it made me wonder if maybe she has a point.


I've only been to one strip club and didn't really enjoy the experience, but I still argue with her about it as a matter of principle.

Is going to a strip club considered cheating?

Would your girlfriends care if you went to a strip club?

EDIT: So, it turns out she is on the rag.  I suspected as much.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15236354 - 10/16/11 10:27 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

fuck that bitch, shes just being controlling and jealous. end of story


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight] * 1
    #15236355 - 10/16/11 10:27 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

She's just insecure.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: gzuf]
    #15236363 - 10/16/11 10:29 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

do you look at porn? do you consider that cheating?... its no differnt, your just admiring the female body. she looks at guys the same way its in our blood.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: gzuf]
    #15236364 - 10/16/11 10:29 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I consider a strip club kind of like porn, and she doesn't care about porn.

It's fun to watch, but it's not like I have emotional attachment to strippers or even take them seriously :shrug:


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15236416 - 10/16/11 10:44 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

That's ridicules, what kind of logic could someone use as to how its "inappropriate" for there significant other to visit a strip club?

Don't let her run your program man. Is she usually controlling?


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: 2Cents]
    #15236453 - 10/16/11 10:52 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

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2Cents said:
That's ridicules, what kind of logic could someone use as to how its "inappropriate" for there significant other to visit a strip club?

Don't let her run your program man. Is she usually controlling?




shes usually not controlling at all.  Actually she's an amazing, extremely sexy and open minded girlfriend.  Almost perfect.

in fact even though she's not really into psychoactives, she smokes weed with me sometimes and I've gotten her to roll with me at a rave twice over the years.  she even wants to take acid with me :awesome:

Thats why I thought maybe she had a point. But I think it has more to do with her self-esteem than anything.  Maybe she's just on her period


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: 2Cents]
    #15236458 - 10/16/11 10:53 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

My girlfriend would be PISSED if I went to one without her.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: Gill]
    #15236465 - 10/16/11 10:54 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

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My girlfriend would be PISSED if I went to one without her.



What would be her reasoning?

Maybe theres just a percentage of girls who don't approve of strip clubs because they're not a screen like porn


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15236471 - 10/16/11 10:55 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Beause "I wanna go too! And see some titties! And get a lap dance!" her words just now.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: gzuf]
    #15236487 - 10/16/11 10:58 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

for the most part, nothing happens in strip clubs that's that much of a big deal...

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She's just insecure.




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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: evildee125]
    #15236564 - 10/16/11 11:18 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Strip clubs suck anyways.  Been once, I'll never go again.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #15236585 - 10/16/11 11:25 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I've only been to one as well, it wasn't that great.

But I think a really classy joint in Vegas is worth a shot before writing off the experience.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #15236589 - 10/16/11 11:26 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Strip clubs are fun.
I get to get drunk with friends, turn down hot strippers who offer me dances, meet new people with good drugs and smoke tasty nugz :grin:
I rarely go though.

It probably depends on the strip club you're going to.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15236593 - 10/16/11 11:27 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Treat her concerns seriously, but let her know that you're still attracted to her and just want to go for the experience.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: evildee125]
    #15236603 - 10/16/11 11:32 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I used to be a bouncer in a strip joint. I always had the most problems with the women that went in there. Wives, GF's and what not. They always had a great time, just ended up getting too wild. Only had one angry wife show up once. That was entertaining.


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15236626 - 10/16/11 11:40 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Go together

fuck afterwards.

problem solved.

yeah its kind of shady to go on your own.

porn has no chance of physical imteraction its different.

she is not being controlling, she is letting you know what is and isnt acceptable in order for you to keep her.

its called boundries, got any?


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: Shins]
    #15236633 - 10/16/11 11:43 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I feel you man, and she's awesome in almost every other way. 

I'd be going with my guy friends though, not alone


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15237930 - 10/17/11 10:59 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

me and my husband went to a strip club the other night..we always go together. mostly because he thinks they are nasty anyway and i am good for a laugh after a couple of strong drinks...i yelled "it smells like tuna!" thinking i was whispering lol but it did, we have fun. even if he went on his own the only thing that would piss me off is if he tipped the strippers and didn't spend that money on me getting drunk...selfish maybe but what are you gonna do...most girls i think dont like strip clubs because its a place where women are you know, taking there cloths off,they think that if you see another girl naked your going to cheat or do some comparison thing. also those women want money from anyone who walks in the door so they are going to pretend to like you and come on to you which can make a girl get the claws out and go apeshit. she might also be uncomfortable with the fact that you are going with your guy friends,it could be that she thinks after many rounds and a good buzz someone gets you a happy birthday lapdance or whatever and you do something dumb whilst drunk. she may just have trust issues...IMO but what do i know i just have a vagina.:awejeez:


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Re: Me going to strip clubs bothers my girlfriend [Re: NWlight]
    #15237948 - 10/17/11 11:04 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Most woman I know realize that the chances of a guy getting laid are MUCH greater at a normal club, compared to a strip club.  Explain to your gf its all a ploy to get your money.


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