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ArmFromTheAbyss
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Pathological Liars
#1502315 - 04/28/03 09:04 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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So there's this girl, S. I really feel a connection with her, I can remember the first time I set eyes on her. I knew there was something about her, and that she's exactly my type. Yeah, I know, heard that a million times before.
So we get to talking and I find out how easy it is for me to talk to her, a connection. We agree on so many things and have shit in common. Etc.
Same old story, she had a boyfriend. Until recently. She took me aside and told me about it. She also started with the lies. I'm chums with her friend, aka chum. She starts saying how chum is obsessed over me and was trying to set me up with her. A while later I talked it out with chum and found she honestly didn't like me.
But that's just the begining of lies, I've found out so many instances of lying. At times, there appears to be no reason at all behind the lies. I can always figure out that she is lying (I'm perceptive i guess) but never why she's doing it. Chum sees it too.
So today I was talking to her. We start talking about her ex, and I handled it really well. She starts up with the lies. She was saying how chum was in love with S's ex. Later on I go to the chum and talk to her about it. She denies it, and says S was the one talkin bout dat shit. Oh haha, she was also tellin me how she's bi and kissed chum that nite.
I'm starting to think that if I go for it I'll just put myself through shit. But, of course I have conflicting feelings cuz I am really attracted to this girl, and not just physically.
Any of you have experiences with pathological liars or how to deal with them? Or why they are that way?
Sorry this post was so long.
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Stay away. Stay faaaaaaaaaar away.
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Re: Pathological Liars [Re: I_Fart_Blue]
#1502681 - 04/28/03 10:23 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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I am NOT a LIAR
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bert
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If you feel the need to date a pathological liar, you should examine yourself first. Why do you feel a need to subject yourself to pain? Sounds like you have some issues of your own.
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Re: Pathological Liars [Re: bert]
#1504257 - 04/29/03 12:04 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Does she only lie with regards to 'chum' or does she lie about other things too?
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ArmFromTheAbyss
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Re: Pathological Liars [Re: Edame]
#1504649 - 04/29/03 01:51 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Does she only lie with regards to 'chum' or does she lie about other things too?
Other things.
I might confront her about it. Or say something next time I can catch her in the act. I'll take a buffer day/s and see how it goes.
I'm just curious if anybody here has delt with chicks like this, and can elaborate on their experiences.
Oh well, there's a billion+ women out there. And a good deal are probably better than this one...
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bert
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A fairly good female friend of mine is a pathological liar. She is very nice most of the time and cheerful, but there is clearly something 'not right' with her. She will lie about anything for no reason at all. I'd suggest you move on, difficult as that may be. Good luck.
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