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INTJs and INTPs
    #15019499 - 09/02/11 07:51 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I know a lot of shroomerites are INTP's and INTJ's, so how has this affected you in getting ladies/relationships in general?

Here's a thread for the folks who don't know what it is or who want to take the test:
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/7070812#7070812


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: tito123]
    #15021436 - 09/03/11 06:51 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I'm INTJ(100:38:62:11) and can't seem to get any ladies at all.
But of course there could be countless other factors outside your personality at play, so who knows what's to blame?


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: Mr Stainez]
    #15026090 - 09/04/11 01:29 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

INTP

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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: tito123]
    #15029834 - 09/04/11 08:23 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

i find most girls i meet to be boring and lose interest fast


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: nglsnv]
    #15029983 - 09/04/11 09:07 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Sorry i'm neither.
ENTJ is what i got. interesting test. was pretty spot on for me.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: brerfox]
    #15030048 - 09/04/11 09:18 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

INTJ/INFJ here

Love is unconditional and untill that is returned I won't even bother. I have stupid expectations though; i'd rather find someone who I can connect with then to just waste time looking at a pretty face... I guess it's moreso the cognitive abilities and heigtened sense of emotion i'm looking for, it'd be nice to find someone who understands you.

Also I haven't met any who are as crazy as me :crazy2:

How has it affected relationships in general?
I can experience my emotions a bit too vividly at times and overanalyze anything... I try too hard, put in too much effort whilst expecting nothing back. I guess I take the love concept a bit too seriously... Perhaps it was because i'm still young.

i've had a few relationships but nothing too serious, i'll get back to you in a few years :lol:


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: Beanhead]
    #15084313 - 09/15/11 07:34 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I'm an INTP. I hesitate to say that personality distinction influences my interpersonal relationships much though.

However, so far as relationships in general have gone for me. They tend to be very short. I get bored quickly and drop it or find a way to sabotage it. I have ended most of my relationships following the first or second full-coitus sexual encounter.
With one notable exception of course. I'm currently in a relationship which is going on two years, an absolutely unprecedented experience for me.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: tito123]
    #15084406 - 09/15/11 07:59 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

INTP here.  Of course the introverted part doesn't help with first meeting girls, but thankfully there is a beautiful substance called alcohol.  Also, I have definitely become a lot less introverted over time with some effort which helps as well.

As to other stuff, the only real "problem" I would say it causes is that I tend to ignore emotional bs as I prefer to look at things logically, which can make me look like a dick sometimes.  But with that too, it just takes a little effort to remember that some people take certain things a lot more seriously than I do, and get very different reactions than I would from some situations.

Other than that I feel that I am always fiercely loyal in my relationships (both with friends and gf) but also not the most forgiving person once you cross certain lines.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: hailtothethief]
    #15084488 - 09/15/11 08:18 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I recently retook the test, i am an ISFP Now, and it will probably change again. I am living a very different life than i used to and have changed more in the past few months than i did from age 12-19.

I used to be INTJ. And before now, i could barely talk to women, let alone approach one in any other way then acquaintances, i asked a girl out once in 5th grade and once in 8th grade both times they were cunts about it for no reason and it scarred me.

However i have recently changed much as i have said, and even asked one for coffee having only talked to her once before, and we sat down and talked for an hour ^^ over all it went fine.


But yeah, when i would have tested as an INTJ, could not talk to women at all.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: Adolin]
    #15093557 - 09/17/11 08:58 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I'm an INTJ and don't have problems getting girls if I put my mind to it but Iv been in a committed relationship for a few years so I guess its hard to say.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: 2Cents] * 2
    #15093590 - 09/17/11 09:08 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I'm an INFP and I've learned that I really need to keep my intense emotions, ideals and fantasies/dreams/hopes at bay. That's not to say I don't share them - I do - but not to the extreme of what I feel - at times they are consuming and cloud my vision.

I'm also way to driven to meet the needs of others and then am often left feeling like my needs aren't met. I can easily set myself up to be taken for granted. I'm aware enough to know that that is MY issue though.

Being an INFP also gave me the ability to stay in a bad relationship for wayyyyy too long.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: SillyMe]
    #15098656 - 09/18/11 10:27 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

I'm an IN_J

I don't really get the diff between T and F but they both come up equally.  I think I'm a thinker when it comes to 99% of stuff, but I feel like I'm a feeler when it comes to.. people  :lol:

I know I'm attractive and can get women easily, but like some here have already said.. sometimes you just know too fast that the girl isn't worth your time.  So if you're still left with thoughts of wanting to fuck her you just feel, shallow.  But really there is nothing shallow about wanting to have sex.. society has just made us think that it's shallow.  Women usually boggle my mind with some of the decisions they make... but then again so does everybody.

Sometimes I think the world makes too much sense for a second, and that's when I lose all control.  Life is such a trip.  I'll never fully understand women.. but again I'm not sure if I'll ever fully understand anybody

If I ever do meet the right woman though.......  :boobs:


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: extreme] * 1
    #15100428 - 09/19/11 11:22 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

INTP.

I just don't care about relationships. I have my own life and career to build. :shrug:

With people, I only try if they seem wortwhile which I can usually determine quickly. I watch people. If I'm being extroverted you're either talking about something of interest to me or I feel superior to you. If I'm quiet, its out of respect.

People who get this right off the bat generally get a long with me better. People who lack patience or depth to see this I usually don't get a long with anyway so I don't even bother trying to be friends with them (I'm still friendly) unless it directly benefits me or someone I care about. Besides, I usually have to try to lower my standards to talk to most people if I'm trying to actually pursue friendships. I don't settle, therefore I don't search. If I want to be friends with you, chances are you are like me and thus we will get together anyway because similar people seek each other. When it comes down to me talking about what I'm into or my beliefs, most people think I'm an insensitive, souless asshole. I try not to say anything I can't back up with a study(ies). That same tendency tends to make me quiet if I don't feel like I have something legit to say. Hence why I tend to talk more if people are stupider than I. Its usually to correct misinformation or catch them up in their own fallacies.

Those who matter don't mind how quiet I tend to be or how I watch social situations rather than try to be the epicenter. They like that I'm like that and see it because they tend to be similar. It saves me time. Just like I seek out the quiet introverts, test them and then usually be friend them if I feel they're on my level or higher.


There is a difference between Thinking and Feeling , btw, though the test isn't like law. There is always variables.


Edited by TTT (09/19/11 11:37 AM)


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: TTT]
    #15100480 - 09/19/11 11:33 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

It's bad to do hard drugs, so I don't do those.
I'm banned from the pub so I need someone to post up a link here to make with the test taking.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: Tri High]
    #15100488 - 09/19/11 11:35 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Search Myers Briggs test.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: TTT]
    #15100516 - 09/19/11 11:43 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Seems INTP is for me, from what I see.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: Tri High]
    #15100539 - 09/19/11 11:49 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Why do intuitive introverts like tripping so much?

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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: extreme]
    #15100551 - 09/19/11 11:53 AM (12 years, 4 months ago)

One guess: Perhaps because introverted individuals spend a lot of time thinking about things from an internal stand point anyway. Delving into layers of uncomfortable feelings in pursuit of what makes most sense isn't uncommon. There is more comfort in being a lone and trying to rationalize things out instead of going off how things make you feel so things like tripping aren't as scary as they would be to someone who may get more comfort out of a group and would prefer not to "think too much about things".

For the same reasons, some people might benefit from having a very powerful, potentially traumatic experience to help these feelings stick over someone telling someone something and having them take their word as law. You know, like word of mouth meaning more than finding out for yourself.


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: TTT]
    #15100591 - 09/19/11 12:03 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Right.  :whathesaid:


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Re: INTJs and INTPs [Re: TTT]
    #15100597 - 09/19/11 12:04 PM (12 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

TTT said:
One guess: Perhaps because introverted individuals spend a lot of time thinking about things from an internal stand point anyway. Delving into layers of uncomfortable feelings in pursuit of what makes most sense isn't uncommon. There is more comfort in being a lone and trying to rationalize things out instead of going off how things make you feel so things like tripping aren't as scary as they would be to someone who may get more comfort out of a group and would prefer not to "think too much about things".

For the same reasons, some people might benefit from having a very powerful, potentially traumatic experience to help these feelings stick over someone telling someone something and having them take their word as law. You know, like word of mouth meaning more than finding out for yourself.




Sounds like a spot on explanation to me :thumbup:

I'm not afraid of what's inside my head so I've never been afraid when it comes to tripping.  Maybe a little bit of pre-trip anxiety but I think that's normal for most people.  But once your mind gets pried open and when many would want it to be over, that's when the fun just begins :smile:  I like thinking..


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