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Gibson33



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it's about having sex.
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koraks
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Anonymous said: or is most sex about degrading and humiliating either other people or yourself?
It's just you. No, really, I mean, it can be. And yes, I think that power, dominance and submission are, to some extent, pretty much always a part of human sexuality. But for some, this is more of a necessity or a craving than for others. Are you into bdsm?
Oh, and btw: there's nothing wrong with humility, degradation, submission, domination, sadism, masochism etc. if the participants are all alright with it. Give in to your feelings, it's liberating.
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Re: is it just me [Re: koraks]
#15016237 - 09/02/11 06:47 AM (12 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dont feel that way at all.
I get horny and want to do crazy shit with girls, I imagine thats the same way they feel sometimes too. Its hormones and whathaveyou. I dont want to degrade anyone, I just want to fuck the shit out of them.
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Re: is it just me [Re: ManianFH] 2
#15017128 - 09/02/11 11:40 AM (12 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quit watching so much porn. Sex is fun, often hilarious, a blissful connection between people.
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jebre
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Anonymous said: or is most sex about degrading and humiliating either other people or yourself?

for some people yes it means something difffernt for each person and each relationship
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Re: is it just me [Re: koraks]
#15017263 - 09/02/11 12:09 PM (12 years, 4 months ago) |
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koraks said:
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Anonymous said: or is most sex about degrading and humiliating either other people or yourself?
It's just you. No, really, I mean, it can be. And yes, I think that power, dominance and submission are, to some extent, pretty much always a part of human sexuality. But for some, this is more of a necessity or a craving than for others. Are you into bdsm?
Oh, and btw: there's nothing wrong with humility, degradation, submission, domination, sadism, masochism etc. if the participants are all alright with it. Give in to your feelings, it's liberating.
yes i am totally into bdsm etc. that is why i said is it only just me... but i do feel totally guilty for desiring to degrade or be degraded... and i appreciate that there can be some deeper connection with other people but i just dont feel that way at all...
nor do i feel that MOST people are looking for that deeper connection (but only to 'fuck some person' or whatever which i just cant associate with)...
i wish i could have a normal connection with people but i cant, and it just makes me feel totally alienated (given that most peoples lives revolve around sex, which i find on some base level to be degrading and abhorrent) oh well...
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koraks
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I think there's definitely a strong relationship between guilt and the complex of emotions and desires that leads to/makes bdsm. Explore the topic in your mind, and don't be afraid of the dark recesses of it. We all have our ugly sides; it's best to be aware of yours and how it works.
Btw, I'm confident that you will run into someone who shares your views, and understands your sexuality. You can't imagine how liberating that will be. Don't worry about this too much; there's people out there you will be able to connect to. But yeah, you will probably come across as weird or even creepy with all the sweet vanilla girls and boys out there. That's not because you're some force of evil, but because they usually just don't really understand how kinky people actually work. Live and let live, don't bother them with your 'weird' sexuality, but at the same time, don't let yourself be brought down because some people may consider you abnormal. The complex of feelings that you are experiencing occur frequently in people with an interest in bdsm. Perhaps it's a good idea to browse some forums on bdsm and see how this works for other people. I bet you'll recognize one or two things.
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