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gerryjarcia
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First Date?
#14910787 - 08/12/11 11:11 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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So I just met this super cute woman the other day. Struck up a conversation with her and all seemed to go well. I decided to just go for it and ask her if she wanted to meet up for coffee sometime. She was down.
Today I finished work early. Decided to go for a hike and thought I'd ask the girl I met if she'd like to go with me. She was into it. So i'm meeting up with her in a couple of hours to take a little hike in the mountains.
Is this a date (I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to women and dating)?
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nobodyspecial
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no its not a date. thats called hiking. however, it seems odd a woman who doesnt know you at all would be willing to go into the woods alone with you, but it seems even odder for you to ask someone you dont know to go into the woods with you. <shrug>. a date is going to dinner or movie and paying for it since you asked her out, otherwise youre just "hanging out"
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gerryjarcia
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nobodyspecial said: no its not a date. thats called hiking. however, it seems odd a woman who doesnt know you at all would be willing to go into the woods alone with you, but it seems even odder for you to ask someone you dont know to go into the woods with you. <shrug>. a date is going to dinner or movie and paying for it since you asked her out, otherwise youre just "hanging out"
i put out good vibes
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If it was me, I would think of it as a date. But don't worry too much about it. Just go and have a good time.
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Who cares what it is?
Just go forth and be impeccable and harvest whatever outcome crops up
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gerryjarcia
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good advice, gents. i'm stoked
-------------------- "We are all intoxicated. We were born into an insane asylum, a world crazy-making. We believe what we see and hear. The real myth is the myth of sanity, of rationality: it's a disease that is eating away at the earth. All the poisons flow from our denial. We deny madness, we forget our crimes, we dismember the corpse, we imprison our children. We need poison to poison the poison, to remember the sacred nature of intoxication, the green body of the young god." ~ Dale Pendell
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What would you do differently if it were a date? Either way, your goal is fun.
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DirtMcgirt
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Its a mini date. Its just like going out for coffee. A chance for some conversation. As long as you are clear with your intentions it will have the same effect as a date. Its a good idea too. Because this will prevent you from dropping a bunch of cash on a big date just to find out that the girl is a sociopath.
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DirtMcgirt said: Its a mini date. Its just like going out for coffee. A chance for some conversation. As long as you are clear with your intentions it will have the same effect as a date. Its a good idea too. Because this will prevent you from dropping a bunch of cash on a big date just to find out that the girl is a sociopath.
This is true.
Consider this a recon mission. Good luck out there, soldier.
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At the end of the hike ask her if shes hungry and take her somewhere close by you haven't to before to eat. Have a deep personal conversation where she does most of the talking. Try to pay for the meal but if she wants to pay anything let her. Make a vague comment about how you'd love to do something again sometime, get her number. Measure her reaction. Wait a few days, ask her if she wants to go a movie. Then improv.
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nobodyspecial said: however, it seems odd a woman who doesnt know you at all would be willing to go into the woods alone with you
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DON'T DO IT!!! She'll ruin your life.
Probably.
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gerryjarcia
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Re: First Date? [Re: numonkei]
#14911083 - 08/12/11 12:16 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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numonkei said: DON'T DO IT!!! She'll ruin your life.
Probably.
~Monk
maybe, but it's cool
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sounds like a great way to get to know someone!
have fun bro
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Re: First Date? [Re: P-O]
#14911131 - 08/12/11 12:29 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP- just don't bullshit her.
If you get nervous, just tell her you're nervous and try to make it into a joke.
Just speak what's on your mind, and if she has a problem with what you're saying then she can GTFO.
Be confident in every aspect of your being.
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zergroz
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Bring condoms shes dtf
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Re: First Date? *DELETED* [Re: DirtMcgirt]
#14911311 - 08/12/11 01:14 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: First Date? [Re: zergroz]
#14911319 - 08/12/11 01:17 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zergroz said: Bring condoms shes dtf
yea especially if shes willing to go with you into some woods with only being eachother. she must trust to already to a pretty damn good extent.
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Get to the top of the mountain and ask her if you can dry smash her shitbox.
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I've done hikes as a first date, and the couple of times I did they turned out to be awkward disasters.
Being alone in the woods is the last thing you want to do with a complete stranger. First dates, in my opinion, are usually better if they take place in public, with entertainment like live music, a movie, or with friends at a bar. Hell, cooking at home with a bottle of wine and some tunes will work as well.
Maybe it's because being in the woods makes me want to get naked and dance to Shpongle, but hiking solo with a new lady ain't gravy, dog. Unless by hiking you mean one of those paved trails on a 1/2 mile loop.
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