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First Date?
    #14910787 - 08/12/11 01:11 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

So I just met this super cute woman the other day. Struck up a conversation with her and all seemed to go well. I decided to just go for it and ask her if she wanted to meet up for coffee sometime. She was down.

Today I finished work early. Decided to go for a hike and thought I'd ask the girl I met if she'd like to go with me. She was into it. So i'm meeting up with her in a couple of hours to take a little hike in the mountains.

Is this a date (I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to women and dating)?


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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14910803 - 08/12/11 01:15 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

no its not a date. thats called hiking. however, it seems odd a woman who doesnt know you at all would be willing to go into the woods alone with you, but it seems even odder for you to ask someone you dont know to go into the woods with you. <shrug>.  a date is going to dinner or movie and paying for it since you asked her out, otherwise youre just "hanging out"


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Re: First Date? [Re: nobodyspecial]
    #14910818 - 08/12/11 01:19 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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no its not a date. thats called hiking. however, it seems odd a woman who doesnt know you at all would be willing to go into the woods alone with you, but it seems even odder for you to ask someone you dont know to go into the woods with you. <shrug>.  a date is going to dinner or movie and paying for it since you asked her out, otherwise youre just "hanging out"




i put out good vibes :psychsplit:


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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14910821 - 08/12/11 01:19 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

If it was me, I would think of it as a date. But don't worry too much about it. Just go and have a good time. :cool:


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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14910823 - 08/12/11 01:20 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

Who cares what it is?

Just go forth and be impeccable and harvest whatever outcome crops up


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Re: First Date? [Re: propensity]
    #14910824 - 08/12/11 01:21 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

good advice, gents. i'm stoked :grin:


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Re: First Date? [Re: propensity]
    #14910828 - 08/12/11 01:22 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

What would you do differently if it were a date? Either way, your goal is fun.


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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14910835 - 08/12/11 01:24 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

Its a mini date.  Its just like going out for coffee.  A chance for some conversation.  As long as you are clear with your intentions it will have the same effect as a date.  Its a good idea too.  Because this will prevent you from dropping a bunch of cash on a big date just to find out that the girl is a sociopath.


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Re: First Date? [Re: DirtMcgirt]
    #14910846 - 08/12/11 01:27 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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Its a mini date.  Its just like going out for coffee.  A chance for some conversation.  As long as you are clear with your intentions it will have the same effect as a date.  Its a good idea too.  Because this will prevent you from dropping a bunch of cash on a big date just to find out that the girl is a sociopath.




This is true.

Consider this a recon mission. Good luck out there, soldier. :salute:


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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14910856 - 08/12/11 01:29 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

At the end of the hike ask her if shes hungry and take her somewhere close by you haven't to before to eat. Have a deep personal conversation where she does most of the talking. Try to pay for the meal but if she wants to pay anything let her. Make a vague comment about how you'd love to do something again sometime, get her number. Measure her reaction. Wait a few days, ask her if she wants to go a movie. Then improv.


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Re: First Date? [Re: nobodyspecial] * 4
    #14910877 - 08/12/11 01:33 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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however, it seems odd a woman who doesnt know you at all would be willing to go into the woods alone with you






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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia]
    #14910956 - 08/12/11 01:52 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

DON'T DO IT!!! She'll ruin your life.

Probably.





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Re: First Date? [Re: numonkei]
    #14911083 - 08/12/11 02:16 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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DON'T DO IT!!! She'll ruin your life.

Probably.





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maybe, but it's cool :cool:


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Re: First Date? [Re: gerryjarcia] * 1
    #14911118 - 08/12/11 02:24 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

sounds like a great way to get to know someone!


have fun bro


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Re: First Date? [Re: P-O]
    #14911131 - 08/12/11 02:29 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

OP- just don't bullshit her.

If you get nervous, just tell her you're nervous and try to make it into a joke.

Just speak what's on your mind, and if she has a problem with what you're saying then she can GTFO.

Be confident in every aspect of your being.


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Re: First Date? [Re: ButteredToast]
    #14911142 - 08/12/11 02:33 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

Bring condoms :bigyesnod: shes dtf


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Re: First Date? [Re: DirtMcgirt]
    #14911311 - 08/12/11 03:14 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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Its a mini date.  Its just like going out for coffee.  A chance for some conversation.  As long as you are clear with your intentions it will have the same effect as a date.  Its a good idea too.  Because this will prevent you from dropping a bunch of cash on a big date just to find out that the girl is a sociopath.




I always like to do something casual for a first time hanging out with a girl anyway, call it a mini-date or a pre-date or whatever. Just getting coffee or going for a walk is a lot less stressful then going out to eat at a nice restaurant and worrying about every little thing you do. :stoned:


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Re: First Date? [Re: zergroz]
    #14911319 - 08/12/11 03:17 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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Bring condoms :bigyesnod: shes dtf




yea especially if shes willing to go with you into some woods with only being eachother. she must trust to already to a pretty damn good extent.


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Re: First Date? [Re: Greendreams]
    #14911323 - 08/12/11 03:17 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

Get to the top of the mountain and ask her if you can dry smash her shitbox.


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Re: First Date? [Re: mongo lloyd]
    #14911383 - 08/12/11 03:33 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

I've done hikes as a first date, and the couple of times I did they turned out to be awkward disasters.

Being alone in the woods is the last thing you want to do with a complete stranger. First dates, in my opinion, are usually better if they take place in public, with entertainment like live music, a movie, or with friends at a bar. Hell, cooking at home with a bottle of wine and some tunes will work as well.

Maybe it's because being in the woods makes me want to get naked and dance to Shpongle, but hiking solo with a new lady ain't gravy, dog. Unless by hiking you mean one of those paved trails on a 1/2 mile loop.


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