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AsAboveSoBelow
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BDSM
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i think I want to experiment with this a bit.. ive thought about it for awhile but wasn't sure if i'd like it or not. this girl on okcupid sent me a message saying she wanted to "beat me up" with whips and things, and then she'd let me fuck her afterwards
Regular sex gets so dull after awhile.. its like I need some kind of stimuli like weed to even enjoy myself anymore. I like the teasing aspect of bdsm where you're held back until she demands that you fuck her
i havent seen many bdsm posts here. anyone do it before ?
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memes
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Not so much, but I'd probably be open to it, given teh invitation from my girl.
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koraks
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Wiccan_Seeker is into it, me as well, and some others.
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SillyMe
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Re: BDSM [Re: koraks]
#14890374 - 08/08/11 01:36 PM (12 years, 5 months ago) |
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I enjoy it but I'm a sub so beating some guy wouldn't do a darn thing for me although I am probably capable of it if requested. For me, the act of it, as a sub, has as much to do with trust and it does sexual pleasure - and the trust allows me to more fully enjoy the pleasure. That and I like the feel of leather and being restrained.
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bdsm gets the
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brerfox
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im into light bdsm. dont think id enjoy the rough stuff. but i always say try anything once. if you dont like it dont do it again.
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MattyBong
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Honestly, I get totally turned on being beaten, whipped, spanked by a hot dominatrix.
Doesnt even need to be a dom. Just any woman that I am initially attracted to.
Be safe tho. Have a safety word. And make sure you trust her. Wouldnt wanna be yelling the safety word and her continuing.....well, maybe. I dont think I'd mind it. LOL
But yeah. Totally fucking awesome.
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PsychoKinesiS
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I'm into some sick perverted shit. I also like heavy bondage and gags.
The only problem with this is you really have to trust someone. It only takes one psycho and you're done...
I've heard total sensory deprivation can make you hallucinate like psychedelics.
The first rave I ever went to had a dom in the side room electrocuting his sub girl during the entire rave and then he continued afterwords in a basement at an afterparty.
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TigerShark
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Quote:
brerfox said: i always say try anything once. if you dont like it dont do it again.
This. I'd definitely give it a try if my boyfriend was into it.
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PorcupinesRevenge
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I think some light bdsm could be fun, never tried it though. I think I'd be sub, cause it seems like you'd need a forcefull personality to be dom.
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PsychoKinesiS said: The first rave I ever went to had a dom in the side room electrocuting his sub girl during the entire rave and then he continued afterwords in a basement at an afterparty.
Did she like it?
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PsychoKinesiS
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Yes. She kept moaning like she was having an orgasm every time he did it all night. She was nuts.
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PeterPanda209
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I enjoy light bondage, ie hang cuffs, soft bed restraints... Discipline is great in roll play, I enjoy it and it brings out the rest in me Choking, spanking, face slapping. Nothing too brutal just light play and it makes for good passion
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jebre
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its awesome. im not rly one for getting whipped, or tied down but just plain hurting eachother during sex i enjoy very much. imo try it and if u dont like it dont do it again simple as tht u got nothing to lose, u cud only gain stds and tht wud happen whether ur being kinky or not
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Re: BDSM [Re: jebre]
#14912113 - 08/12/11 04:17 PM (12 years, 5 months ago) |
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Id try it, but haven't had any freaky partners.
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ifoundwaldo


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My current girl is way into it. (She's the sub.) I have to admit it's pretty fun. Whipping, choking, spanking, hot wax, you name it.
Trust is paramount though. I don't think I'd do it with some random girl.
And regular sex is usually good enough for me. I just know that being a little rougher with her turns her on even more.
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I am much more of a sadist. I dont like recieving pain but I do get off choking girls and restraining them. IM A MONSTER!
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millzy


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i'm far from vanilla, but do not fall into the conventional bdsm category. i have my fair share of kinks but am not into the whole leather and chains thing. i say try it out and see if you like it. you don't have to do it again if you don't and you can always tell her to stop.
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PeterPanda209
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Re: BDSM [Re: millzy]
#14919579 - 08/14/11 07:28 AM (12 years, 5 months ago) |
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Agreed^ it can't hurt... Unless you want it to
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Beanhead
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Haven't done much else but slight bondage and roleplaying but oh does it add to the fun . Haven't met many girls whom want to though; perhaps I haven't been looking enough . Start working out again if you feel that your libido has been dulled; cut back on the weed smoking.
I'd say start experimenting but if you really want to go deep into BDSM then find someone who you can trust.
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