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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #14783106 - 07/17/11 07:10 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

haha that's funny about the virgin thing. my  fiance thought he hit jackpot when he found out i was one. yes, i was.... :blush: not because i'm fugly or some sh*t, i'm weird and cute! hah! i had plenty of chances, but they all felt wrong pretty much so i never went through it.

it's hard to find a virgin after age 14 nowadays, so don't feel bad. haha

but that whore seems annoying. wish i was there to say "nah, you don't want that. gross" i have a pretty good sense of who's a slut and who's actually ok. i've been told many times by friends who are guys and my fiance that i'm pretty rare. i just tell them they're looking at youngins is all. and that they aren't going to find them where they're looking already.

i honestly do believe that if it's going to happen, it will eventually crash into you.

but i do agree that it's harder for an introvert male to find a counterpart. most girls want .... the jerk showoff i've found out. but i think quiet ones are so adorable.  :awesome: and i know there's a bunch of other girls who think so. but most guys like the shy ones, because they seem innocent i guess and it's the whole vulnerability and the good girl fantasy blah blah.....


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: pachoo] * 1
    #14783165 - 07/17/11 07:24 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

also fbi:
i'm sorry to hear that is happening to you. maybe you should back off for a little bit and focus on yourself. meditate or even just do what makes you happy. don't try so hard, even though i know how hard it is.

and honestly i wouldn't worry about her saying you're mean. unless you feel like you actually were. then maybe at the time you were pretty harsh.... >.> if you didn't mean to, tell her. then give her some time, and after a bit she doesn't accept it. then go back to focusing on yourself.

it's crappy to try a relationship when you're feeling crappy. and it just won't work out.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: pachoo]
    #14783181 - 07/17/11 07:27 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Most girls I meet tend to be jaded and make themselves completely unapproachable or they tend to be more like the whore I spoke of above. All the good AND cute ones who were actually easy to talk to I remember from when I was young now are in long term relationships, married, kids, pregnant, etc.

Every now and then I meet ones who are easy for me to vibe with...usually taken, slutty or not what Im attracted to physically but yah it might all line up again someday. The fact that I havent had a girlfriend in 7 years is so discouraging for me that I dont even bother trying to ask anyone out anymore.

I actually do know a cute one who is easy to talk to and seemed VERY interested in me but she would not return my last call when I left a message. I dont want to be overly persistent ya know? Basically i told her Id be in her part of town for work next (this upcoming) week. Maybe she was just waiting for me to call tomorrow? I dunno, she's kinda shy too. I told her about how I had a admired her in highschool and she admitted to the feeling being mutual. Ill try to call again tomorrow after work and leave it at that.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: pachoo]
    #14783204 - 07/17/11 07:31 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

I have been coming on pretty hard, I think I will back off just a bit to see how she reacts and to give myself some space.  I really just need a way to check myself when I get into fucked up moods like last night or else I can't contain it and I end up blurting out all those negative feelings.  It isn't fair to her and its kind of embarrassing to me.  I just don't know how to deal ya know? 

PS thanks for your input pachoo...


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #14783215 - 07/17/11 07:33 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

A-4 call her or text her again.  I would go for the text especially if she's shy.  Less pressure...


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: fbi365]
    #14783227 - 07/17/11 07:37 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

She's admitted to me before that she's VERY shy about phones. When I did call her once she said "awww you made my day!" and was very cutesy about the whole thing. Wont call me back for the life of me though and when she wont I tend to assume she's not interested.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #14783247 - 07/17/11 07:40 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

my girl says "aww you made my day" when I do or say nice things to her. :feelsgoodman:


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: fbi365]
    #14783384 - 07/17/11 08:13 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

buddhism really helps quite a bit with those seemingly unmanageable emotions.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: dummy] * 1
    #14783839 - 07/17/11 09:44 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Awww gooo! that's so sweet. def. text her, i bet something will happen with her. teehee! if she doesn't reply, don't throw it out the window. sometimes i even pretend they didn't even reply and send another one continuing on after.... but of course i talk to myself alot too. haha


fbi: how long have you two been seeing each other? or are you two actually really close and know how to comfort each other? because if you do, i'd also suggest trusting her to tell you if you're starting to be a dick. i do that with my fiance. well, actually he does it more with me. you know, female hormones and whatnot. kind of extreme. haha but it really only works if you two are really close.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: pachoo] * 1
    #14783844 - 07/17/11 09:45 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

oh and no problem on the input. i do it often. :laugh: even if no one wants it.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: pachoo]
    #14783920 - 07/17/11 09:59 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

I guess we have been seeing each other for about three weeks now. So it is still really new.  We first hooked up on the fourth of July :highfive:  Usually I would just bottle it up, but I feel like I can be honest with her and she made me promise that I would tell her if anything is ever wrong.  So I do.  I think that is a good thing.  She is the first girl in a while I feel like I can express my feelings to.  Its good.  We are hanging out in a minute :super:

I think I could probably ask her to tell me when I am acting stupidly.  She would be okay with that.  I hope.


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: fbi365] * 1
    #14784115 - 07/17/11 10:37 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

:cheers:  :goodluck:


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Re: Anti social ppl - how do u take relationships? [Re: pachoo]
    #14784263 - 07/17/11 11:08 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Honestly, I'm not shy but when it comes to relationships it just never works.

I've never had a serious relationship. Honestly, I've kind of accepted that I'm going to be forever alone and I kind of like it.


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