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pwnasaurus
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Registered: 07/16/08
Posts: 12,317
Loc: Canada
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Anonymous said: She loves me, but she is unable to take even part blame for anything. Thus making everything my fault. I have noplace to go. I am ever angrier today. I am about to go crazy. She took today off, and didn't even tell me it was so she could have lunch with her friends. So I waited to eat wit her and I got so hungry I got a migraine.
I know it's very, very hard today. Tomorrow's going to be hard too - and so is the next day. Eventually though, if you work at it, you can get your life back.
You CAN get a job. You CAN get out of debt. You gotta take it one day at a time. It isn't going to be easy, but you need to start doing it for yourself. You can do it, you can man.
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lillFish
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Registered: 01/18/09
Posts: 1,347
Loc: Recliner
Last seen: 1 month, 11 days
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Re: I'm Crying and Dying [Re: pwnasaurus]
#14736832 - 07/08/11 03:18 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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fuck, that is a hard place to be. The thing that is going to drag you under is thinking about the future too much. You MUST take things one day at a time or you will never survive mentally. Your wife is probably tired of having a husband that doesn't bring anything to the table. You can do it! Just go apply for jobs but try your best to keep the stress off of her, clean the house and do something worthwhile.. go out and exercise and when you get a job, work hard and things will be alright!
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millzy


Registered: 05/12/10
Posts: 12,409
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Re: I'm Crying and Dying [Re: lillFish]
#14740027 - 07/09/11 08:29 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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i was thrown out of a foreign country with 5 bucks to my name after supporting my ex wife for 4 years in 2010. i'm still recovering from it. i'm in school, living with my emotionally abusive parents trying to claw my way out of this cosmic tarpit. that being said, i think you need to put your emotions aside and see if she is willing to sit down with a neutral party for you to work things out and stay together. i know running away seems like the plan. it's a lot of justifiable hurt mixed together with a lot of pride. don't throw this away if you have anything to do with it. you love this woman. the least you can do is try to work things out. it may be to both of your benefit. i wish i had the same chance with my marriage. i was madly in love.
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