|
Cyclohexylamine
Turn on, Tune in, Drop out


Registered: 09/08/10
Posts: 14,327
|
Re: GF wants to be punished, help me out! [Re: automan]
#14519952 - 05/27/11 09:19 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
automan said: Don't use that rope. It cuts into the skin. Use a sheer scarf.
Buy ties from a sex shop. They are designed not to cut. Or buy soft rope from a store
-------------------- Yes this is tymo - I just changed my name Have you ever had a dream that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to awake from that dream? How would you know the difference between that dream world and the real world? There is NOTHING better than feeling that warm dissociative fuzz creeping up your body from IM K Something abut that anaesthetic rush... Qualitative Research Chemical Effects and Experiences The Wonderful World of Methoxetamine The 3-Meo-PCP Chapters, Part One
|
koraks
Registered: 06/02/03
Posts: 26,691
|
Re: GF wants to be punished, help me out! [Re: automan]
#14522031 - 05/27/11 04:28 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
automan said: Don't use that rope.
Depends on who gets tied up and what her/his pain tolerance level and desires are. Hemp rope is used a lot for bondage. Be wary of burn marks though, so prevent too much rapid friction of the rope against the skin.
There are various kinds of nylon too, that range from very soft and supple to rigid and hard. Whatever rocks your boat. Cotton is also available, but I find the sensitivity to water and its lack of durability significant drawbacks.
|
Lennyk
D-O-L-E Dole


Registered: 04/22/08
Posts: 2,385
Loc: Near the Ground
Last seen: 12 years, 7 months
|
Re: GF wants to be punished, help me out! [Re: koraks]
#14522779 - 05/27/11 06:58 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
|
|
Don't tie with scarfs and such, find a comfortable enough rope that has big enough braids that secure-but will not cut off circulation. Using things like a scarf seem like a better choice because they seem 'more comfortable' or easier to tie-but the knots quickly can become too tight and will have to be cut to avoid problems.
There are special cutters for bondage stuff to buy that won't cut into the skin (flattened edge) but very good and sharp to break people free if someone is having a freak out or is beginning to have some sort of pain that needs to be addressed ASAP.
Be careful with BDSM. A lot of people enjoying choking, but the bigger risk for most people is not immediate death from asphyxiation. Cardiac arrest can occur after a session-even in healthy people. Slapping can cause much damage. Don't slap someone unless you support their face with your other hand to prevent excessive neck strain. Also do not strike in a manner to put them at risk of their teeth getting chipped off another, or hitting them hard enough (which doesn't take much) to cause eye damage from the impact.
BDSM is fun, it is mental experience that takes more trust than normal sex-and is a rewarding bond to create. Do not be dumb and fuck each other up though.
-------------------- Stealth Lighting Cubensis benefits beyond cluster headaches Mush Extract! (You can even use Vinegar!) Flame your needle in style with a sexy mini butane torch ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ What happens in the Romper Room, stays in the Romper Room. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ All posts are written by the sex deprived helper monkey Curious George.
|
automan
blasted chipmunk


Registered: 09/18/03
Posts: 8,272
|
Re: GF wants to be punished, help me out! [Re: Lennyk]
#14522912 - 05/27/11 07:28 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
|
|
I've used scarves and nylon rope, both just fine. The rope posted above is too course. I always make a butterfly knot so it cant self tighten.
-------------------- No, no, you're not thinking, you're just being logical. ~ Niels Bohr
|
indica


Registered: 08/17/05
Posts: 18,905
|
Re: GF wants to be punished, help me out! [Re: automan]
#14563938 - 06/05/11 10:06 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
|
|
get a rope book and learn your ropework. ashleys book of knots is good as it has different hogties and whatnot.
get creative with a length of rope, you'd be amazed at the different things you can do with a 6' length. I have a spliced piece of rope hanging on my bedroom door that has come in handy a few times.
choking is
|
Happy Hobo
Stranger

Registered: 06/02/11
Posts: 5
Last seen: 12 years, 8 months
|
Re: GF wants to be punished, help me out! [Re: memes]
#14654847 - 06/22/11 03:40 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
meams said: Piledriver.
This!!
|
|