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i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick
#14610554 - 06/14/11 06:01 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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how do i solve this problem?
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610560 - 06/14/11 06:05 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Accept it, join the club and mellow out. The only way out is in.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610564 - 06/14/11 06:07 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Start loathing others.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14610575 - 06/14/11 06:10 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: Accept it, join the club and mellow out. The only way out is in.
what does accepting a character flaw actually mean?
i don't like it...but i'm just supposed to say "ok...that's me"?
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610577 - 06/14/11 06:11 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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pretty much....you cant help it. Too many people are given grief about being self loathing pretentious pricks when really they should be taught to accept it.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse] 2
#14610579 - 06/14/11 06:11 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You could go into denial, but that would be one more thing to hate about yourself.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610581 - 06/14/11 06:12 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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curious mouse said: how do i solve this problem?
suicide.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610583 - 06/14/11 06:13 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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curious mouse said:
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MisterMuscaria said: Accept it, join the club and mellow out. The only way out is in.
what does accepting a character flaw actually mean?
i don't like it...but i'm just supposed to say "ok...that's me"?
purty much
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14610584 - 06/14/11 06:13 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: pretty much....you cant help it. Too many people are given grief about being self loathing pretentious pricks when really they should be taught to accept it.
part of me wants to think that i can help it....and your line of thinking is denying responsibility to one's self
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610586 - 06/14/11 06:13 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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curious mouse said:
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MisterMuscaria said: Accept it, join the club and mellow out. The only way out is in.
what does accepting a character flaw actually mean?
i don't like it...but i'm just supposed to say "ok...that's me"?
its only a flaw if other people (you love and respect) tell you it is. your only flaw here is a lack of self confidence. if you dont love yourself how can you expect others to love you?
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: Icelander]
#14610588 - 06/14/11 06:14 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Icelander said:
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curious mouse said: how do i solve this problem?
suicide.
for me or for everyone else who "taught" me to feel this way?
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610590 - 06/14/11 06:14 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Im guessing if you werent such a pretentious prick you wouldnt loathe yourself so much. Thenagain if you accept that you are a pretentious prick and will always be a pretentious prick you dont have to loathe yourself either but you can take joy in making others miserable. This grief is caused by feeling guilty about being a pretentious prick more than it is about actually being a pretentious prick.
Somewhere deep inside you is a voice telling you that how you are behaving is somehow wrong. You can either listen to that voice or kill it with fire. the choice is yours. Both solutions will lead you to feel less self loathing in the end. one through fulfillment of your values the other through destroying the values altogether.
Some find it easy to control their thoughts...for the rest of us we can just change our values.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14610596 - 06/14/11 06:17 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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is feeling guilty of being said prick not a natural feeling? i mean....i'm obviously a lesser gene in the pool.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610619 - 06/14/11 06:24 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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well apparently it's not a problem to be solved. but to just be thought of in a different light.
great.
thanks shroomery for being so pragmatic.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610620 - 06/14/11 06:24 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ive offered you two solutions, not just one.
Im a self infatuated pretentious prick and I love my life.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14610628 - 06/14/11 06:27 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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listening to the voice does not solve the problem either.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse] 1
#14610633 - 06/14/11 06:31 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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curious mouse said: is feeling guilty of being said prick not a natural feeling? i mean....i'm obviously a lesser gene in the pool.
i went through some of that guilt too for a while until i really decided people are useless and idiots. helped me overcome my guilt.
for me it's the anger. just being a prick is easy but when one wants to bitch slap the idiot and cant due to out litigious society that becomes an issue. i mean just two hands slapped over some dumb cunts ears could kill him too. whats the sound of two hands slapping? agonizing fucking death? wailing? hmmm.
well get some skin bitch quit yer crying is what i think. or become a PC pussified man like most of the cunts out there.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14610647 - 06/14/11 06:38 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: Im guessing if you werent such a pretentious prick you wouldnt loathe yourself so much. Thenagain if you accept that you are a pretentious prick and will always be a pretentious prick you dont have to loathe yourself either but you can take joy in making others miserable. This grief is caused by feeling guilty about being a pretentious prick more than it is about actually being a pretentious prick.
Somewhere deep inside you is a voice telling you that how you are behaving is somehow wrong. You can either listen to that voice or kill it with fire. the choice is yours. Both solutions will lead you to feel less self loathing in the end. one through fulfillment of your values the other through destroying the values altogether.
Some find it easy to control their thoughts...for the rest of us we can just change our values.
 very insightful there.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610703 - 06/14/11 07:13 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Act different.
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Re: i'm a self-loathing pretentious prick [Re: curious mouse]
#14610765 - 06/14/11 07:52 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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curious mouse said:
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Icelander said:
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curious mouse said: how do i solve this problem?
suicide.
for me or for everyone else who "taught" me to feel this way?
For you silly boy. they're doing just fine.
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