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Appreciating compliments.
#14606764 - 06/13/11 02:53 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I just started seeing this lady last week. We went out for dinner once and yesterday we hung out with her friends.
I haven't given her a single compliment, not even really hinting at how good she looks and she is all over me.
With a lot of other girls, when i give them compliments ("You look great." or something.) It's like they freak out and get turned off. WTF!?
Why can't you girls just accept a true compliment, what the hell's wrong with you?
Is it because it makes us look weak or something?
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: thoughts]
#14606793 - 06/13/11 02:57 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/14430216#14430216
Mabe they're like me but since women can't control their emotion the just get pissed at it.
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Most women like compliments, They dont usually just throw on some clothes and rock bed head all day like guys do. So when you tell them they look nice,- It re affirms their effort to looking cute so you can go out.
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Elaboate more.
As good as you might look there's always going to be somebody that thinks you're ugly.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: thoughts]
#14606894 - 06/13/11 03:14 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Women don't make sense, haven't you learned anything!
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"Yo yo just here to spread my clit and show ya'll what a wonderful and free being we are all inside lets take the acid and turn inside into the outside come on over baby lets smell the roses ohh ohh come on we're about to get lit show my undies to your baby I'll hug it down three times go around frown come on we aint a nice clown kiss me upside down down down come on sorry if you cant handle my wokeness come on lets take her panties off write shroomery on my asshole and taste it lick it make if feel like we was 1978 come on baby lets do the locamotion"-Twig dude
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Distorted Vision said: Humans are too complex to always make sense, haven't you learned anything! 
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: TTT] 1
#14606954 - 06/13/11 03:24 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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haha, ofcourse a woman did that.
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Distorted Vision said: Women don't make sense, haven't you learned anything! 
There actually was a guy who did figure women out. He died laughing before he could tell anybody.
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hahaha.
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"Yo yo just here to spread my clit and show ya'll what a wonderful and free being we are all inside lets take the acid and turn inside into the outside come on over baby lets smell the roses ohh ohh come on we're about to get lit show my undies to your baby I'll hug it down three times go around frown come on we aint a nice clown kiss me upside down down down come on sorry if you cant handle my wokeness come on lets take her panties off write shroomery on my asshole and taste it lick it make if feel like we was 1978 come on baby lets do the locamotion"-Twig dude
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Is complex just a fancy word for crazy?
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: thoughts]
#14612395 - 06/14/11 02:01 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Pretty much. Same goes with "unique" or "original". If shes the type that thinks shes all intellectually quirky, shes most likely a crazy idiot.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: thoughts] 1
#14612466 - 06/14/11 02:16 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Steer clear of women that can't take a compliment. I find that it means that, at some level, they don't feel they are worthy of that compliment. They have deep rooted self esteem issues that aren't going away any time soon.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: automan]
#14613071 - 06/14/11 04:23 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sure, some people can't take compliments because they are insecure, but if insecurity was a sign of not being a worthy partner, this planet would be a lonely place.
On the other hand, some women hear that they are gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, hot, cute, fuckable, bangin, a bombshell etc all the time and probably just get tired of hearing it.
If she is okay with you not complimenting her then so what? It just makes it easier for you. Why do you feel the need to give women compliments all the time especially when they don't give a fuck when you do?
If you are with someone who likes and appreciates those things then compliment away, but if not, what's the point?
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Distorted Vision said: haha, ofcourse a woman did that. 

How mature.
No seriously. Everyone does similar things, people make similar mistakes and some people never learn from them.
I'm told I don't accept compliments well but thats because I just kind of see them as someone stating their opinion. It doesn't always make me feel anything unless its a compliment from a person a hold in high regard. In that case, I would thank them because it was truly flattering.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: TTT]
#14618213 - 06/15/11 03:44 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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TTT said:
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Distorted Vision said: haha, ofcourse a woman did that. 

How mature.
No seriously. Everyone does similar things, people make similar mistakes and some people never learn from them.
I'm told I don't accept compliments well but thats because I just kind of see them as someone stating their opinion. It doesn't always make me feel anything unless its a compliment from a person a hold in high regard. In that case, I would thank them because it was truly flattering.
 Yeah, I feel that's how it is too. But it's just terrible to only be flattered by people you're interested in.(or hold in high regard ) When you get a compliment from someone you're not interested in, this is when you're like... whatta weirdo! But it shouldn't be this way, everyone is just human damnit!
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TTT said:
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Distorted Vision said: haha, ofcourse a woman did that. 

How mature.
No seriously. Everyone does similar things, people make similar mistakes and some people never learn from them.
I'm told I don't accept compliments well but thats because I just kind of see them as someone stating their opinion. It doesn't always make me feel anything unless its a compliment from a person a hold in high regard. In that case, I would thank them because it was truly flattering.
 Yeah, I feel that's how it is too. But it's just terrible to only be flattered by people you're interested in.(or hold in high regard ) When you get a compliment from someone you're not interested in, this is when you're like... whatta weirdo! But it shouldn't be this way, everyone is just human damnit! 
I like how you assume I would think someone is weird for complimenting me. I literally think nothing of it. It means nothing to me. Thats just my opinion, just like the person who may be complimenting on whatever is stating their opinion. It doesn't make me feel better, it doesn't make me feel pretty or special, it just is. Its cool if you think so, I think so, too, but not everyone does; thats how I see it.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: TTT]
#14620404 - 06/16/11 12:16 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I meant I think that. (and a lot of girls I know, like callin people creepsters) Sorry for not making it clear.
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I hate compliments, Usually means they are trying to get something from ya-
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622920 - 06/16/11 02:10 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You idiots. You can't just give a girl a compliment!
She has to show signs that she is into you before you drop that bomb, especially in a social situation.
Damn man, you guys are clueless.
LOL
Jokes jokes.
Who cares man, just have fun, forget the compliment crap.
Or learn to read the body language.
I pitty a foo!
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: AlphaFalfa]
#14622950 - 06/16/11 02:14 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I always tell them they A) Can suck a dick, and ride a stick well- Even if they cant- LOL
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: 2jew4u]
#14623099 - 06/16/11 02:44 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I think that a confident woman would be able to say "thank you". Don't just compliment her looks think of something more, creative.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: Dest]
#14623140 - 06/16/11 02:52 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dest said: I think that a confident woman would be able to say "thank you". Don't just compliment her looks think of something more, creative.
The holds true some of the time. You guys don't seem to realize how often some women get complimented. Saying thank you feels like bullshit after awhile. Thats why depending on who said it I may not even respond.
I agree, compliment something that you would want to be complimented on as a person. Personality, interests, traits, vocabulary, etc. That is a compliment that would hold meaning to me and a person who felt the urge to compliment one of those things is *likely* to deserve my respect for looking past physical appearances.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: TTT] 1
#14625630 - 06/16/11 10:35 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah but to be honest, I usually compliment to get respect I compliment to show that I'm interested in her sexually. I think a lot of guys will agree with this, I can't stick my dick in your college degree.
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So show me your genitals LOL
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Distorted Vision said: Yeah but to be honest, I usually compliment to get respect I compliment to show that I'm interested in her sexually. I think a lot of guys will agree with this, I can't stick my dick in your college degree.
Which is precisely why I hate compliments. They mean nothing 90% of the time and so I treat the people who say them like they mean nothing cause they will never get to touch this. 
If I respect you, you are slicker than to make your advances so known. If we're friends and you begin complimenting me out of sudden interest in me, I'll either say thank you or kindly ask to cut down on the compliments because it makes me uncomfortable because I can see just whats going on.
Even still, a guy would have a better chance with me if he complimented something other than my looks. I know I think I'm pretty and I understand that some males will find me attractive, too. I really don't need it reaffirmed and it doesn't mean much outside of stating a personal preference when someone does it.
I don't have many females friends at all so I can't say how much coverage this has for my gender as a whole....to generalize.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: TTT]
#14627565 - 06/17/11 11:02 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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TTT said: Which is precisely why I hate compliments. They mean nothing 90% of the time and so I treat the people who say them like they mean nothing cause they will never get to touch this. 
Oh TTT..
In all seriousness though, i almost always appreciate your insight on thangs.
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Re: Appreciating compliments. [Re: thoughts]
#14627765 - 06/17/11 11:49 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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