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OfflineAnthony917
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cant get over past relationships
    #14584444 - 06/09/11 09:32 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

So I'm really struggling with relationships right now...for good reason I suppose.

My ex girlfriend died. The one before that, who I was with for 3 years, got knocked up by an old HS friend after the relationship came crashing down. It was a mess, and left me in a really odd headspace for a long time. During this time I managed to heavily abuse weed/alcohol/mdma/shrooms and I think that might be a contributing factor to my current problem.

Part of me feels like since I never talked about what happened/shared my feelings with anyone, & instead did a bunch of drugs, that I buried the feelings deep into my subconscious, and that is reflected in my personality.

I frequently dream about my ex (the one who got pregnant), and most of the time we are together, and happy, and sometimes we have sex :lol: but I wake up with this horrible feeling of dread. At first I'm happy, until i realize what I was just dreaming about, and then it just makes me feel like shit.

Anyway, I've been single for almost 2 years and it's starting to feel :foreveralone:

except, I can't bring myself to accept starting another relationship. Idk if it's worth it. You always get hurt in the end it seems...
Plus, my standards (which aren't too high) can never seem to be met. All the cute girls I meet seem really shallow. I want to find a chick who will smoke/do shrooms with me but they're tough to come by..


anyway, idk...do you guys think relationships are worth it?


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Re: cant get over past relationships [Re: Anthony917]
    #14585176 - 06/09/11 11:56 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Well most relationships do just end in pain, unless ofcourse you are the one that cheats on her or you guys stay together forever (and in both situations can still be depressing). I have always questioned this myself, what should I do? It sounds like you just want a gf to have fun with and not be lonely, but you are afraid of the problems that come with having a relationship.
Well I'm not really helping because I see no exact answer, everyone is different.
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Re: cant get over past relationships [Re: Anthony917]
    #14587411 - 06/09/11 08:08 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

not all relationshhips end in pain. That's not true.

I have seen couples last until the end. Some happy, some not so happy. I worked with a 70 year old woman who said she was married to her true love until he died on valentines day.

I wouldn't give up with love if I were you. Take the chance and I bet you eventually find someone great to live out your days with.

as far as not being able to find a cool chick. Remember there are millions of women. tthe people you meet where you live now are different than the people from other states or countries. There is so muchvariety out there. You just have to find it.


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Re: cant get over past relationships [Re: XUL]
    #14587917 - 06/09/11 09:46 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

It is definitely not true that all relationships end in heartache and pain. I believe thinking holds a lot more power then people give credit, what you think is what you get and if you go about life thinking love ends then love will always end for you. From my experiences love is one of the most important, essential feelings that ever was and ever will be. Explore all opportunities Anthony, learn to let go and just move on.

From my experiences, shrooms can be helpful in taking that next step of letting go; go into a trip with the mindset of getting deep within that subconscious and actually use the shrooms to your advantage.

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Re: cant get over past relationships [Re: don_vedo]
    #14590000 - 06/10/11 11:08 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Relationships now adays are influenced by so many factors.

I wouldn't suggest having a social group and having a relationship with someone in that group.

I have yet to see a successful case where a relationship like that has worked.

I would suggest being in a relationship with someone, but not sharing it with anyone, just keeping it to yourself.

other than that, I agree. If my current and I broke up, I would have a difficult time accepting that most women your going to be meeting have 5 or more friends and influences in their life which will alter our relationship in unexpected ways.

I think i would probally go to a third world country and meet a nice traditional girl, then jar open her mind with philosophy and drugs, through persuasive talking. Like go to Thailand or Cuba or Mexico or China.

Either that or head over to a european country, girls are much cooler from over there.

Well atleast I have heard.

good luck


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Re: cant get over past relationships [Re: Anthony917]
    #14596139 - 06/11/11 01:41 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

The reason you get hurt is because you have certain expectations of what "love" is supposed to be. Love is unconditional, there's no expectations. What I mean by expectations is, you expect them to smile, understand, sympathize, etc, but love is just love, it's not all those "things."

You need to undo your current description of what you think love is. Undo what you have been conditioned to think about love. A good book is Take Me To Truth, Undoing the Ego by Nouk sanchez and Tomas Vieira. The 4th chapter talks about love relationships. I suggest you read it.

I'm really tired, got only 6 hrs of sleep, otherwise I'd go into a little more detail. I might update later after work or something. Maybe tomorrow when I get more sleep.

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Re: cant get over past relationships [Re: occollegeboi]
    #14602892 - 06/12/11 08:18 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Don't worry, things get better.

When my first boyfriend dumped me I literally thought my world was ending and I would never get over him.  It was like that for a while, and then I met a new employee at my work one day. 

I basically forgot my ex even existed lol you just have to meet the right person. And don't worry, there are plenty of us weed and shroom girls out there, you just have to look in the right places haha

best of luck :grin:

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