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Powdered_Toastman



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What to say to someone when they say...
#14579355 - 06/08/11 11:41 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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"i am just scared because i honestly dont want to live sometimes, and my mindset is getting stronger on what i think, i dont want to live and see this world deteriorate and crumble in its own bullshit. i just dont like people they sicken me, i sicken myself"
this worry's me as this comes from a close friend of mine, and i usually have something to say to people, but i feel she needs great insight or something, can anyone help me out on what to say to her?
-------------------- "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." You are God and I am You
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xFrockx


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Remind her that her experiences do not tell the whole story, and that the more she believes in a negative perception of the world the more she will notice negative things and filter out positive ones.
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Powdered_Toastman



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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14579423 - 06/08/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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xFrockx said: Remind her that her experiences do not tell the whole story, and that the more she believes in a negative perception of the world the more she will notice negative things and filter out positive ones.
thank you
-------------------- "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." You are God and I am You
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14579424 - 06/08/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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xFrockx said: Remind her that her experiences do not tell the whole story, and that the more she believes in a negative perception of the world the more she will notice negative things and filter out positive ones.
I agree, just marvel at the human experiment makes me want to stick around to see what will happen next !!!
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Icelander
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Quote:
Powdered_Toastman said: "i am just scared because i honestly dont want to live sometimes, and my mindset is getting stronger on what i think, i dont want to live and see this world deteriorate and crumble in its own bullshit. i just dont like people they sicken me, i sicken myself"
this worry's me as this comes from a close friend of mine, and i usually have something to say to people, but i feel she needs great insight or something, can anyone help me out on what to say to her?
Maybe she's right. Ever think about that? That maybe things are better for some people when they don't continue here. It's not like you're not going to die anyway at some point. If you're not having fun why stay at the party? Most do because people tell them they're a party pooper if they want to leave early.
Just be her friend and listen.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: Icelander]
#14579588 - 06/08/11 12:37 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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"If you're not having fun why stay at the party?"
Yeah and if you're not having fun at the party why not kill yourself?
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14579598 - 06/08/11 12:39 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yes that's what I was saying metaphorically. You have a problem with that?
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: Icelander]
#14579616 - 06/08/11 12:42 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oh someone just got defensive. You mad bro?
Why not go to a different party, or maybe leave the parties and find some peace and quiet?
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14579620 - 06/08/11 12:43 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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No I'm just asking if you have a problem with suicide.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: Icelander]
#14579625 - 06/08/11 12:44 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I have no problem with suicide, I just see no reason for it.
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14579646 - 06/08/11 12:49 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I can see good (imo) reasons why some would want it. So if they want it then why not.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: Icelander]
#14579672 - 06/08/11 12:54 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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That's the thing about the reasons, they are only good in terms of opinion. There's no objective reason to kill oneself. I couldn't do it unless I did find a reason to do so. I actually don't mind if my death is complete agony, so that I can have a chance to experience that. Even losing myself to Alzheimer's would be something to experience. I'm not one to be above anything.
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx] 2
#14579695 - 06/08/11 12:58 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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xFrockx said: That's the thing about the reasons, they are only good in terms of opinion. There's no objective reason to kill oneself. I couldn't do it unless I did find a reason to do so. I actually don't mind if my death is complete agony, so that I can have a chance to experience that. Even losing myself to Alzheimer's would be something to experience. I'm not one to be above anything.
I have a feeling your opinion on that would change once the "complete agony" kicks in.
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: 4896744]
#14579714 - 06/08/11 01:04 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe. Really though, if I was experiencing a lot of pain there would be other things I wouldn't have to worry about. Like finding pain medication. We all bear our cross.
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx] 2
#14579731 - 06/08/11 01:07 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I actually don't mind if my death is complete agony,
 
I'm sure you don't mind when you feel fine sitting and jacking off on your computer. I sincerely hope you get your wish.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: Icelander]
#14579921 - 06/08/11 01:52 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wish? I never said I wished it.
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14580695 - 06/08/11 04:32 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm wishing it for you. I mean since you won't mind.I want you to have all the experiences your little heart desires.
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: Icelander]
#14580731 - 06/08/11 04:40 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Do you have a name for your helium tank? Like Ol' Bessie or the Iron Lung? So when you're there at the end you can have a friend to die with?
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14580740 - 06/08/11 04:41 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I call it "ol fuck up frock"
But really why would you want someone else around to distract you at such a golden moment?
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Re: What to say to someone when they say... [Re: xFrockx]
#14580756 - 06/08/11 04:45 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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xFrockx said: Oh someone just got defensive. You mad bro?
Why not go to a different party, or maybe leave the parties and find some peace and quiet?
Why should it be your business? You stay at your own party.
Fuck, people, stop trying to control others minds. If they leave, will they ruin your party? Is that it?
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