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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14604856 - 06/13/11 07:32 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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The quicker you get her out of your life, the sooner you will heal.
Fuck that depressing shit, either man up and kick her ass out and find someone better, or deal with this hurt for the time being.
You're hurting yourself at this point.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: NewWavePeace]
#14604858 - 06/13/11 07:32 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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NewWavePeace said: She made a bad move and fucked up. Don't let her use you like some toy, bro. Kick her ass to the curb..
Once she realizes that she made a huge mistake, she'll come crawling back to you.. and that's when you kick her in the face and tell that wench to get the fuck off your property.
Fuck that bitch,
you deserve better
Hell man. She wont even be able to crawl back. Im getting the first plane ticket the fuck out of here for a few months. I am only in this area because I was so in love that I was willing to sacrifice a lot to come down here so we could live together. I really love her that much man. First cut hopefully is the deepest, because this is going to fucking hurt.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: MadSeasonAbove]
#14604860 - 06/13/11 07:33 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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MadSeasonAbove said: The quicker you get her out of your life, the sooner you will heal.
Fuck that depressing shit, either man up and kick her ass out and find someone better, or deal with this hurt for the time being.
You're hurting yourself at this point.
I hate to admit it but I think you are right. I need to start thinking with my head and stop thinking with my heart so much. Despite everything I still love her but I can't continue this, because if she used me once.. She will use me again, I see no reason why she would just change.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14604870 - 06/13/11 07:37 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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How it played out....lol, well, lets see....
we had been dating 2 years at this point
I was 20, she left me for my good friend. I did a ton of coke, self loathing, after his car broke down for good she calls me back up, I shamelessly took her back after all her "Im Sorrys".....Wasted another 2 years of being paranoid and jealous and not trusting a single word she said. She ended up fucking another buddy while I was out of town for 3 days, and they are still together, with a child, no car or jobs and are basically losers.
All in all, I wasted 4 years with this kunt....Now you can understand my concern...
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14604887 - 06/13/11 07:46 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'll guarantee that she doesnt know what love actually is, she certainly cant show it if she's willing to fuck around on you after a year in a relationship
as for the one I ditched, went on a road trip, she insisted on coming along, so I thought ok, one night she wants to go dancing, I figure OK let's do it, get to the bar, danced a little, drank a little, go piss and she's dancing with some dude, no problem, a little later she's hanging out with 4 guys, I walk over there in time to hear her say "oh, he's not my boyfriend" and told her it's time to go... a few months in a relationship, a few months of dating, her dropping hints about marriage and shit... way too soon for that, anyway the guys tried starting some shit when I gave her the choice of be in the truck when I leave or stay, didnt make a difference to me, they followed me out talking shit, I got out the door and one of them grabbed me, I slammed him and told them to stay the fuck out of shit that doesnt concern them, I walked to my truck and drove off, went to the hotel and got my shit and left hers there, drove back home and got a good night's sleep.
women that fuck around arent worth the trouble, even if the one you're with hasnt actually fucked the guy she's still in the process of cheating, based on your original post, I'm pretty sure she already has, the comment about 'just some girl you used to fuck' says she's looking for the next guy to sponge off of
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#14604929 - 06/13/11 08:01 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah man, that is fucked up that she won't fess up. I know what you mean about being a romantic sucker, I have been like that in the past. I sometimes lie, and can understand that others do too when it comes to certain things, but I would never take it that far and have a hard time understanding how someone could claim to care for you, and still act like that I mean, how low can you get? Honestly its pathetic, and you should feel bad for her, your integrity will give you a chance at finding real love and happiness, where she will probably fuck up everything good she ever gets in life.
I think it is important that you accept the situation for what it is, and move on. I would say to forgive her, but she would have to show some sort of remorse for that to even make sense. You sound like you have some good things going in your life, and she would only bring drama and misery if you were to let her stay.
Hope you haven't caved in already!
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: NewWavePeace]
#14605211 - 06/13/11 09:43 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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NewWavePeace said: She made a bad move and fucked up. Don't let her use you like some toy, bro. Kick her ass to the curb..
Once she realizes that she made a huge mistake, she'll come crawling back to you.. and that's when you kick her in the face and tell that wench to get the fuck off your property.
Fuck that bitch,
you deserve better
Wise words said here, heed them well OP. good luck
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14605429 - 06/13/11 10:36 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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shLong said: How it played out....lol, well, lets see....
we had been dating 2 years at this point
I was 20, she left me for my good friend. I did a ton of coke, self loathing, after his car broke down for good she calls me back up, I shamelessly took her back after all her "Im Sorrys".....Wasted another 2 years of being paranoid and jealous and not trusting a single word she said. She ended up fucking another buddy while I was out of town for 3 days, and they are still together, with a child, no car or jobs and are basically losers.
All in all, I wasted 4 years with this kunt....Now you can understand my concern...
Damn dude. Its crazy what love can make us do. I'm naturally not a jealous, paranoid or mistrustful person... But after all this I am becoming this. Those 3 words sum up how I have been feeling since seeing that message. Its no way to carry on a relationship. Dude they sound perfect for each other!
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#14605443 - 06/13/11 10:39 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said: I'll guarantee that she doesnt know what love actually is, she certainly cant show it if she's willing to fuck around on you after a year in a relationship
as for the one I ditched, went on a road trip, she insisted on coming along, so I thought ok, one night she wants to go dancing, I figure OK let's do it, get to the bar, danced a little, drank a little, go piss and she's dancing with some dude, no problem, a little later she's hanging out with 4 guys, I walk over there in time to hear her say "oh, he's not my boyfriend" and told her it's time to go... a few months in a relationship, a few months of dating, her dropping hints about marriage and shit... way too soon for that, anyway the guys tried starting some shit when I gave her the choice of be in the truck when I leave or stay, didnt make a difference to me, they followed me out talking shit, I got out the door and one of them grabbed me, I slammed him and told them to stay the fuck out of shit that doesnt concern them, I walked to my truck and drove off, went to the hotel and got my shit and left hers there, drove back home and got a good night's sleep.
women that fuck around arent worth the trouble, even if the one you're with hasnt actually fucked the guy she's still in the process of cheating, based on your original post, I'm pretty sure she already has, the comment about 'just some girl you used to fuck' says she's looking for the next guy to sponge off of
Wow man. I can't believe she would act that way right in your presence. That is so disrespectful, but at least you got to see it first hand and not have any uncertainty or mystery about the whole situation!
I agree man, she was in the process.. I made her stop all contact with him, but I'm sure she would still be seeing him on a regular basis if I didn't actually find that message. Its a blessing I found the letter when I did and not have to continue on being paranoid and uncertain about it all.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14605448 - 06/13/11 10:41 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Were replying to this thread for your assistance...most of us have been there before, "blinded by the light", take 2 steps left and you'll see what we mean...Give it some time, but you'll look back on her and say "good riddance"
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shLong



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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14605455 - 06/13/11 10:42 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I wasted ages 17-22 with this chick...You have any idea how shitty that makes me feel....
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14605460 - 06/13/11 10:43 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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moonrockmushy said: Yeah man, that is fucked up that she won't fess up. I know what you mean about being a romantic sucker, I have been like that in the past. I sometimes lie, and can understand that others do too when it comes to certain things, but I would never take it that far and have a hard time understanding how someone could claim to care for you, and still act like that I mean, how low can you get? Honestly its pathetic, and you should feel bad for her, your integrity will give you a chance at finding real love and happiness, where she will probably fuck up everything good she ever gets in life.
I think it is important that you accept the situation for what it is, and move on. I would say to forgive her, but she would have to show some sort of remorse for that to even make sense. You sound like you have some good things going in your life, and she would only bring drama and misery if you were to let her stay.
Hope you haven't caved in already! 
Thanks for the words man. I love her to death and feel sad knowing that she is bound for a shitty life if she doesn't straighten up fast. She has no financial security in any sense and needs to get her own two fucking feet on the floor. I forgive her. She is lost and confused and is going to realize eventually that she IS ruining every good aspect of her life by living deceitfully. I hope the best for her. I really need to muster up the courage to finally accept the change.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14605470 - 06/13/11 10:44 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yea dude, that is definitely way too long to be pushed around. I just cant wait for this mental misery of heartbreak wont stick with me for too long, because despite everything I DO love her more than anything in the world, and thats what makes it so fucking hard
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14605474 - 06/13/11 10:45 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You already know what you need to do, it's your choice from here. Do it wisely....and be very selfish if need be (after all, she is!)
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14605479 - 06/13/11 10:47 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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shLong said: You already know what you need to do, it's your choice from here. Do it wisely....and be very selfish if need be (after all, she is!)
Doing it wisely is another thing I've been thinking about. I really want to leave it on the best note imaginable.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14605502 - 06/13/11 10:53 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sometime though, bro...You need to be an ass to get the point across. Otherwise she'll just start crying and be all "Im so sorry, itll never happen again, i dont know what i was thinking" and then you'll loosen up and cave in.
women are clever animals, beware!
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14605539 - 06/13/11 11:00 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dude, honestly though. I can't see her even getting to the point of ACKNOWLEDGING that she even did any wrong.
99% sure she will never be able to do it.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14605560 - 06/13/11 11:03 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said: Dude, honestly though. I can't see her even getting to the point of ACKNOWLEDGING that she even did any wrong.
99% sure she will never be able to do it.
You may love her but she isn't long term material. You don't deserve or need a girl like that. Cut your losses before it gets too hard.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14605573 - 06/13/11 11:06 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said: Dude, honestly though. I can't see her even getting to the point of ACKNOWLEDGING that she even did any wrong.
99% sure she will never be able to do it.
i don't see how her acknowledgment of her failures of a person will change anything. i know it would make you feel better, but in the long run what good will it do? none, imo. the quicker you distance yourself from this girl the better off you will be.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: nglsnv]
#14605742 - 06/13/11 11:38 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Report back tomorrow after the deed is done for a high five, k?
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