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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14579579 - 06/08/11 12:35 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You know what you have to do. While it will hurt REALLY bad, it is the only thing you can do. Because if she cared so little about you then and so little about you now, she doesn't really care for you and isn't the one for you. Let some other guy mess up his life with her.
Just don't make the mistake of being blinded by your love for her that you do something you will regret 10 years later when you lose way more.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Asante]
#14579915 - 06/08/11 01:50 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wiccan_Seeker said: The One.. wouldnt do that to you. And would you (prepare to) cheat on the person you consider The One?
No
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14579997 - 06/08/11 02:10 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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IamMatt said: That happened to a friend of mine he caught his girlfriend cheating on him and the broke up and he was still on the lease so he had to stay for 3 more months while she constantly brought guys home and shit.
F.U.C.K. T.H.A.T. S.H.I.T!
Lol got that right. I'd rather live in the streets.
What a horrible situation.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Humility]
#14580843 - 06/08/11 05:03 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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That place woulda stank to high heaven from all the pussy I woulda brought home. I would have made sure all the bitches I brought home were screamers too.
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zaq.xsw0
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: joe666]
#14586135 - 06/09/11 03:20 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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God I feel so confused. She has been trying to convince me that she never fucked him and that "used just to fuck" was meant to say that she did not want to end up being someone who befriended her with the sole intention of getting into her pants.
I am still with her and so confused. Thinking about messaging the guy and asking but things might get ugly. I told her she had to delete him from her contacts and never see him again.
It is fucking hard to just end a relationship that you have invested so much in to emotionally!
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14586144 - 06/09/11 03:21 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dude, she's playing you like a new guitar, bro.
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY TO INTERPRET THAT LETTER.
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zaq.xsw0
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14586202 - 06/09/11 03:34 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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ifoundwaldo said: Dude, she's playing you like a new guitar, bro.
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY TO INTERPRET THAT LETTER.
My mind wants to believe otherwise so badly. Do you think contacting the dude would be a good idea? Only problem is i don't see a reason why he WOULD tell me if he had.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14586216 - 06/09/11 03:36 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said:
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ifoundwaldo said: Dude, she's playing you like a new guitar, bro.
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY TO INTERPRET THAT LETTER.
My mind wants to believe otherwise so badly. Do you think contacting the dude would be a good idea? Only problem is i don't see a reason why he WOULD tell me if he had.
He's almost 100% going to lie to you too. And this will just stir up more drama in the whole situation.
It's your call though. If you think it will somehow bring you closure. I don't see how it will though.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14586236 - 06/09/11 03:39 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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ifoundwaldo said:
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zaq.xsw0 said:
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ifoundwaldo said: Dude, she's playing you like a new guitar, bro.
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY TO INTERPRET THAT LETTER.
My mind wants to believe otherwise so badly. Do you think contacting the dude would be a good idea? Only problem is i don't see a reason why he WOULD tell me if he had.
He's almost 100% going to lie to you too. And this will just stir up more drama in the whole situation.
It's your call though. If you think it will somehow bring you closure. I don't see how it will though.
You are right. He has absolutely no reason to be honest.
I just want to know the truth. I'm blinded by love man.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14586266 - 06/09/11 03:45 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Don't feel bad, dude. I wasted three years. She didn't cheat on me, but we stayed in the relationship, because it was comfortable.
Just forget it and move on. Life goes on.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14586311 - 06/09/11 03:55 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sorry for the double post, but she has already contacted the guy to tell him you might try to message him, and she has told him what to say to you. You are best getting out of the relationship now, because it will hurt much worse a year from now and so on.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Sundrop]
#14586315 - 06/09/11 03:55 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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drewo said: Just forget it and move on. Life goes on.
nothing else is necessary. carry on.
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zaq.xsw0
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: nglsnv]
#14589145 - 06/10/11 06:01 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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God such a huge change is so difficult to even contemplate. And actually going through with it... Thats a whole other story
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14589233 - 06/10/11 07:15 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said: God such a huge change is so difficult to even contemplate. And actually going through with it... Thats a whole other story 
Dude if you don't break up with her and get her the fuck out you're going to be her bitch for the next 20 years
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#14591051 - 06/10/11 03:02 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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yea it's been a few days now, and sounds like your not going to man up and actually do it. it needs to be done, or just submit to being her bitch for the rest of your life.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: pouihi]
#14591429 - 06/10/11 04:36 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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she fuckin someone else brah
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Cloud9]
#14594614 - 06/11/11 06:30 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I haven't taken the step yet, I'm sill dazed & confused and don't know what to believe or what is best for me..
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moonrockmushy
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14594746 - 06/11/11 07:11 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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My only question is, if she fell for him why is she still with you? I mean, it kinda sounds like she is living in your place, maybe she can't support herself? On the other hand maybe she really does like you, but then why would she lie? I see it a 1% chance that she is telling the truth, but if she is she sounds like kinda a headcase anyway, I mean who would talk like that to a 'friend'?
o and post the whole letter maybe, pics would be great too
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14599871 - 06/12/11 08:35 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I am going to put it all on the table tonight. Tell her I know she has cheated on me, and either she has the respect to admit it or to move out tonight. I'll see how I feel from there, the first step is her ADMITTING her mistakes and if she isn't willing to I am not wasting another second on her.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14599881 - 06/12/11 08:39 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said: I am going to put it all on the table tonight. Tell her I know she has cheated on me, and either she has the respect to admit it or to move out tonight. I'll see how I feel from there, the first step is her ADMITTING her mistakes and if she isn't willing to I am not wasting another second on her.
Hm. So if she admits she was lying to you for a LONG time, who is to say she will not do so in the future?
I'm all for second chances, but a compulsive liar is a compulsive liar. (And a slut is a slut.)
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