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zaq.xsw0
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: pouihi]
#14578513 - 06/08/11 07:15 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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That is so true. Thanks for all the kind words. I need to start life on a fresh page and never regret.
It just amazes me how in love and invested I was with her and she was OK with herself while going out with this other guy.
Makes me sick.
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zaq.xsw0
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: memes]
#14578518 - 06/08/11 07:16 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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meams said:
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zaq.xsw0 said: But fuck. Everything I worked for and believed in for a year.. Just gone.
Dont think about it like that.
Think "Thank god this happened. I could've wasted 3 years! Maybe even 5 years!"
Yea dude that is very true. Good thing I am getting out while I am now
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Doc_T]
#14578525 - 06/08/11 07:18 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You could have married her and had kids 
Things could always actually be a lot worst, that's the type of thought you need to have.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14578527 - 06/08/11 07:18 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said: It just amazes me how in love and invested I was with her and she was OK with herself while going out with this other guy.
Makes me sick.
Yeah it'll make you rage too. Dont overthink it. You'll be stuck dwelling on it for the time being, but that'll pass. Try to surround yourself with people and shit. Keep yourself distracted.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14578529 - 06/08/11 07:20 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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She's fucking someone else bro.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14578534 - 06/08/11 07:21 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I wasted 5 years (17-22) with the same results. yeah man, be happy it's only 1 year and not 5 of the most prime years of your life...
You'll be hurting for a while, but you'll look back and be thankful for this sooner or later, trust me there
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: mongo lloyd]
#14578537 - 06/08/11 07:21 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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mongo lloyd said: She's fucking someone else bro.
Already beat ya
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14578538 - 06/08/11 07:22 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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mongo lloyd said: She's fucking someone else bro.
Already beat ya 
I know
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: mongo lloyd]
#14578547 - 06/08/11 07:26 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I just don't get why people have to cheat.
If you're not happy with someone isn't it just simpler to break up and go screwing around whoever you want??
I really don't get these people.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14578735 - 06/08/11 08:49 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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She's fucking someone else bro.
This used to be a meme in one of our forums, Remember SA!
Well, I don't know if they did have intercourse but this:
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I realized I care so much about you
this effectively signals the end of your relationship. If they had or were planning a casual shag, who the fuck cares. But this makes what they did or didnt do irrelevant. She fell in love with someone else and that means that you've been #2.
Sorry man, seems its over. You can work around a shallow shag, but once deep feelings are focussed on another, the relationship generally can't be salvaged.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Asante]
#14578828 - 06/08/11 09:23 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You can interpret that letter in every way you can imagine, but one thing is for sure, she fucked him
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Asante]
#14578850 - 06/08/11 09:31 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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She's fucking someone else bro.
This used to be a meme in one of our forums, Remember SA!
Well, I don't know if they did have intercourse but this:
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I realized I care so much about you
this effectively signals the end of your relationship. If they had or were planning a casual shag, who the fuck cares. But this makes what they did or didnt do irrelevant. She fell in love with someone else and that means that you've been #2.
Sorry man, seems its over. You can work around a shallow shag, but once deep feelings are focussed on another, the relationship generally can't be salvaged.
She keeps on saying she means care in a friend way. I want to believe it so bad but I got to stay strong and move on.
Dude I agree. I would much rather this have been a shallow shag with a possibility of redemption..
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Patlal]
#14578853 - 06/08/11 09:32 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Patlal said: You can interpret that letter in every way you can imagine, but one thing is for sure, she fucked him
Yea dude sadly I can't see a way around it
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14578907 - 06/08/11 09:44 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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zaq.xsw0 said: So I found this message that my girlfriend of a year had sent to another guy. She met him 3 weeks ago and began hanging out with him quite a bit.
Here are a few highlights from the letter:
"I fell for you hard and I didn’t expect that at all and I feel dumb even saying it. The reason I got upset was because I didn’t want to get hurt. I realized I care so much about you and I don’t know for sure how you feel about me. I didn’t want to end up to be some girl you used just to fuck, and I realize now I was being irrational."
This tells you she liked him. A lot.
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zaq.xsw0 said: "I am so fucking sorry for how I treated you. You don’t know how terrible I have felt since I said those things to you. I never meant to make you feel like shit, I never meant to put you down, and I have never meant to make you feel less than amazing"
In the course of developing a relationship with him, she screwed up and did something dumb.
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zaq.xsw0 said: she says that at one point in our relationship she was unhappy with us, and never actually had sex with him. She says "falling for him" was in a friendship sense.
See above. She screwed up, now she's looking for a fallback. The fallback is you. If the cheating relationship had taken off, she would be gone, but it hasn't, so she's trying to stay.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: badchad]
#14578957 - 06/08/11 10:02 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Get the fuck out. The bitch is playing you. Like the dude above me said. She had something behind your back, if it worked out she would still be behind your back or you would be gone. Something clearly happened,she doesn't have this person anymore and is now falling back on you. Fuck the bitch.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: Racinette]
#14578965 - 06/08/11 10:03 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14579086 - 06/08/11 10:37 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I fucking knew what the song would be before i clicked the video. haha.
Suck though dude. Good luck moving on. Like everyone said, at least it wasn't 3-5 years with a kid and a house or just being on a lease with her where you can't move out. That happened to a friend of mine he caught his girlfriend cheating on him and the broke up and he was still on the lease so he had to stay for 3 more months while she constantly brought guys home and shit.
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: IamMatt] 1
#14579118 - 06/08/11 10:45 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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IamMatt said: That happened to a friend of mine he caught his girlfriend cheating on him and the broke up and he was still on the lease so he had to stay for 3 more months while she constantly brought guys home and shit.
F.U.C.K. T.H.A.T. S.H.I.T!
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: shLong]
#14579271 - 06/08/11 11:22 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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shLong said:
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IamMatt said: That happened to a friend of mine he caught his girlfriend cheating on him and the broke up and he was still on the lease so he had to stay for 3 more months while she constantly brought guys home and shit.
F.U.C.K. T.H.A.T. S.H.I.T!
Happened to me, except she didnt cheat on me, we just had a bad breakup. booooooo for common leases
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Re: is there ANY way this letter could be interpreted differently? [Re: zaq.xsw0]
#14579512 - 06/08/11 12:20 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I realized I care so much about you and I don’t know for sure how you feel about me. I didn’t want to end up to be some girl you used just to fuck
Well pardon me, I don't mean to aggrevate your hurt but.. Thats a really really low thing she's been doing, and now she's flat out lying about it, I feel.
The One.. wouldnt do that to you. And would you (prepare to) cheat on the person you consider The One?
Loneliness can be worse when together but both not really there, know what I'm saying?
But YOU must make YOUR decision. We are a helpful bunch here, but through the internet. This is a choice of the heart and YOU must make it either way, we can just offer opinion here.
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