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How to confess your feelings to someone?
    #14561112 - 06/04/11 05:52 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

How do you confes your 100% true feelings to someone?  I want to through email since were not in the same town right now but i feel like im afraid to. Should i just do it?    Also part of it is i want to apologize for being so confusing cause ive also been going through a lot of changes myself in life, every day actually.  :laugh:

:cheers:

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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14561175 - 06/04/11 06:08 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Good, bad, or indifferent, honesty is the best policy. I would advise against the email and make the actual phone call.  Ask the other person not to say anything until you're finished, and let it all out.


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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: Scarab74]
    #14561188 - 06/04/11 06:12 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Sounds like whatever you say might overwhelm the other party.  Can "confess[ing] your 100% true feelings for someone" result in anything but disappointment?

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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: Me_Roy]
    #14563223 - 06/05/11 04:17 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

Me_Roy is correct, absolutly and utterly no good comes of it.

What possible good can come of a speech to say a simple sentance like "I love you", or "I dont love you" or "I could see myself falling in love with you"

Having to explain yourself is pathetic.


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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: Fleadh]
    #14563230 - 06/05/11 04:22 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

ease off of the "idea" of you speaking your feelings as a "confession". just say it, kinda a matter of fact, and dont show the other person you feel shitty (or confused0 about your own decision. its ok to (after you get comfortable with the other person) to say youre a bit confused... but stand firm and secure about your feelings, dont doubt/or secound guess if its the right feeling or thing to say :cheers:


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Edited by lifeinallday (06/05/11 04:23 AM)

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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: lifeinallday]
    #14563277 - 06/05/11 04:58 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

If you're shy send them a text or call them or something, but definitely let the person know how you feel because if things do work out then you'll be like the happiest person in the world :smile: you never know until you try

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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: TigerShark]
    #14567762 - 06/06/11 02:03 AM (12 years, 8 months ago)

It depends on the feelings I geuss, do you love this person, hate them, want to fuck them?  I tend to want to pour my heart out to people in certain situations, and if people don't like it, I know they're not the kind of people I want in my life. 

I get the feeling that some people go their whole lives in their own head, going through the motions, and never really making an effort to connect with another person, and for some reason they want everyone else to be like that too.

I don't believe in absolutes as far as humans are concerned, so I dunno if she'll ever get you 100%, but that's not to say you shouldn't try.  Don't let self-consciousness and fear ruin this life you have been given.

Don't be over-apologetic, I have been guilty of this myself, but it can be a bit of a turn-off I find

Edited by moonrockmushy (06/06/11 02:06 AM)

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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14569383 - 06/06/11 01:17 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
How do you confes your 100% true feelings to someone?  I want to through email since were not in the same town right now but i feel like im afraid to. Should i just do it?    Also part of it is i want to apologize for being so confusing cause ive also been going through a lot of changes myself in life, every day actually.  :laugh:

:cheers:




It might be hard to tell this person how you feel without coming off as creepy.

Not that it's a bad idea, I just think you should keep it concise.

You are probably less likely to scare her off if you say things like:

"I really enjoy your company"

"I would like to spend more time with you"

"I would really like to have a closer relationship with you"

Instead of "OMG I am so desperately in love w u!!!!!!!"

Most importantly though, if she doesn't respond the way you are hoping just let it go!
If you were subtle, and sincere, and let it go when she said no, she might think about it later and change her mind. If you come off as creepy this will NEVER happen.


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Re: How to confess your feelings to someone? [Re: Heffy]
    #14569521 - 06/06/11 01:46 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

I would not let the words "I love you" out of your mouth until you are in a confortable long term relationship.  That is a little intense. You can say "I really like you a lot."  Things like that.

When you do this you need to be prepared for a whole range of reactions from getting your bones jumped, to the other person being totally confused or appalled by it. 

Finally, do it IN PERSON!!!


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