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pfxtc
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mom issues
#14552566 - 06/02/11 08:07 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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so my mom ruins every relationship she gets into, they last a couple of years sure but she acts 100% different with them, and then they move in together, and it dissembles within 6 months almost every time, or if not, then they both go on hating eachother. the guy she's with now is a good guy and one of the calmest people i've ever met, but last time i saw them he ended up pushing her down because he was so mad. i don't know why. mom tells me a story but I have to take it with a huge grain of salt, and obviously its not ok for him to touch her but she has her way with pushing buttons...
i want them both to go to therapy, they have WAY too much invested into eachother, you can't even distinguish their belongings to one or the other...
how can i tell this to them without them never talking to me again?
-------------------- koods said: Young male going by the name "Bassfreak" entered Worcester General complaining of a sharp pain in his buttock region after attending EDM event. Attending physician considered a possible diagnosis of acute rave anus, but upon further investigation it was determined there was nothing cute about patient's anus. Life-long trip report
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Me_Roy
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Re: mom issues [Re: pfxtc]
#14552583 - 06/02/11 08:13 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wait until you're all sitting around the dinner table and let 'er rip.
Talk about how YOU feel (I'm afraid that you're pushing one another away; I want you two to stay together) instead of making accusations.
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pfxtc
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Re: mom issues [Re: Me_Roy]
#14552599 - 06/02/11 08:18 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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i don't live with them, i only visit a couple times a year.
-------------------- koods said: Young male going by the name "Bassfreak" entered Worcester General complaining of a sharp pain in his buttock region after attending EDM event. Attending physician considered a possible diagnosis of acute rave anus, but upon further investigation it was determined there was nothing cute about patient's anus. Life-long trip report
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Re: mom issues [Re: pfxtc]
#14552757 - 06/02/11 09:00 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Me_Roy said: Wait until you're all sitting around the dinner table and let 'er rip.
Talk about how YOU feel (I'm afraid that you're pushing one another away; I want you two to stay together) instead of making accusations.
this its good advice but dont hope for too much
how do i know-ima child of 2 divorces
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pfxtc
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well like I said, I dont live with them, it doesnt affect me whatsoever other then makes my time @ home awkward.
-------------------- koods said: Young male going by the name "Bassfreak" entered Worcester General complaining of a sharp pain in his buttock region after attending EDM event. Attending physician considered a possible diagnosis of acute rave anus, but upon further investigation it was determined there was nothing cute about patient's anus. Life-long trip report
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