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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545326 - 06/01/11 11:31 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I used to say "my bad" quite a bit, until I realized how god damn annoying it sounded
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545332 - 06/01/11 11:33 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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no need to apologize buddy, you've done me no harm
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545459 - 06/01/11 12:10 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I really dislike it when people are overly apologetic. One sorry is all that's needed. No need to drive it in the ground, it only makes things worse. I was just talking to a friend and she apologizes about everything that is in no way her fault. Me: "Well my car is in the shop again" Her: "im soooo sorry!"
I apologize for things that ARE my fault...not for things that arent. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people apologize for things that arent their fault. I also tend to bow like a Japanese person when I apologize.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545488 - 06/01/11 12:20 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
MisterMuscaria said: I really dislike it when people are overly apologetic. One sorry is all that's needed. No need to drive it in the ground, it only makes things worse. I was just talking to a friend and she apologizes about everything that is in no way her fault. Me: "Well my car is in the shop again" Her: "im soooo sorry!"
I apologize for things that ARE my fault...not for things that arent. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people apologize for things that arent their fault. I also tend to bow like a Japanese person when I apologize.
It's called empathy.
We probably shouldn't hang out.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545496 - 06/01/11 12:22 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ive got a very male brain. I tend to lack empathy to a fault. I didnt even feel empathy as a child I had to learn which situations I was supposed to be empathetic in and fake it. Im pretty high on the autistic spectrum compared to normal people though, i do not feel this is my fault. I cannot tell how people are feeling by facial expressions or tone of voice. The only way I can determine someone's mood is if they tell me. To me when someone can tell my mood by just looking at me I think they are telepathic or something and wonder how they can do it.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545509 - 06/01/11 12:25 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm the complete opposite. I tend to empathize to a fault. To the point where the issues of someone I've never met can leave me emotionally devistated.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545520 - 06/01/11 12:26 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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One of the things I loved about tripping is it made me feel empathic for about 8 hours until it wore off.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545536 - 06/01/11 12:32 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Really? That's pretty interesting. I wonder if autism has something to do with 5-HT2A.
I can also get overly empathetic on a trip, but it usually just depends on where my mind runs off to. Usually I try to keep it from getting there because I don't find 8 hours of weeping to be a whole lot of fun. That's actually the reason I stay away from shrooms. I have a lot more control on acid, and I can very effectively keep myself from getting there.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545544 - 06/01/11 12:34 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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On 2c-B I felt so empathetic I was telling people humanity was fucked and that people were starving in Africa so we could live a life of excess luxury that we dont need. i even wanted to martyr myself at one point.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545571 - 06/01/11 12:41 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hahaha, must have been quite a scene.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545579 - 06/01/11 12:44 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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wiccan, no worries. I've been pretty apologetic without reason too. My father was emotionally abusive and my mother is bipolar and has borderline personality disorder as well so feeling guilty when I wasn't has been common for me and got to a point where I always felt it was my fault. Thankfully through psychedelics I've come to realize that is not the case. I even tried to kill myself a few times when I was younger since I honestly felt that I was such a burden that I was ruining everyone's lives.
Fuck that noise. I apologize when I actually did something now.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545592 - 06/01/11 12:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I guess to me it seems pointless some of the stuff some people feel sorry for themselves over.
Even with autistics or people with aspergers (who have an entirely male-esque non-empathetic brain) they really feel for anyone theyve felts has been done an injustice and will go out of their way to make it right.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545596 - 06/01/11 12:49 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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A lot of people theorize that empathy is taught/learned, not something you naturally have but I kinda call bullshit. My mother and father and siblings lack is to a large degree
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: bbl337]
#14545603 - 06/01/11 12:52 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Theyre probably just higher on the autistic spectrum than you are.
One one end you have people who are entirely empathetic on the other end you have people who are entirely ruled by logic and there are people everywhere in between.
A lack of empathy is neither good nor evil and not a negative personality trait by any means, it just is. They cant help it.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545620 - 06/01/11 12:55 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Eh, I think there are more factors to empathy than a scale. Narcissism, what you value, etc often come into play
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545628 - 06/01/11 12:58 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thankyou for including STAL
the rest of you ingrates could learn something
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