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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Mad_Larkin] 1
#14544666 - 06/01/11 07:25 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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For real dawg. That's probably a lot more psychologically healthy. I think I really developed my imagination due to fap fantasies.
Absolutely, 100%.
When you fantasize you are making something beautiful just for yourself to enjoy, refining, sharpening your taste like a gourmet 5 star meal.
When you watch a pr0n you consume a product and often make due with a lot of elements that arent quite to your taste, diffusing/blanding your taste like McDonalds
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Mad_Larkin]
#14544690 - 06/01/11 07:36 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, lets see...I guess I've become a bit desensitized over the past 15 years of watching internet porn. But I guess developments can best be described along the lines of different themes.
Subject matter It used to be mostly mild erotica and panties, but some 8 or 10 years ago I became interested in BDSM and since then I've watched just about anything imaginable within that genre. Current favorite at the moment is self-bondage and bdsm auto-play (solo girls; look up the chimera sets if you're interested), exactly for the reason Wiccan mentions: 99% of the porn is just too fake to be convincingly arousing. I find this is different in some cases within the BDSM genre; it seems that there is a slightly more genuineness in there. Although most of it is still embarrassingly bad acting, some people seem to be quite pure; see e.g. queensnake.net for a good example of people who genuinely seem to be enjoying what they're doing. Don't go there if you have a weak stomach though.
The panties fetish never went away though, and was only enriched with a mild interest in latex. And I prefer slim brunettes with small tits. Both in real life and in porn.
Media Of course, in my early days of watching internet porn, there were no online porn videos, so we had to make do with stills. I even remember watching scans of pr0n slides ripped from an early erotica CD-ROM on an EGA monitor. In the early 2000s, videos came along and I benefited from them, moving from short clips to the longer vids offered by some sites. But recently, I got sick and tired of the bad acting mentioned above and moved mostly back to images, although I still like some of the movies I downloaded from usenet. Haven't done any downloading recently though 
Intensity Related to the subject matter and as I mentioned above, some sort of desensitization has seemed to take place, although that doesn't tell the full story. I guess there's just two sides to my sexuality: the kinky side that manifests itself in BDSM, and the vanilla side that manifests itself in a taste for mild erotica. The two alternate; at some points, I identify more with the kinky side, and sometimes I'm sick and tired of that stuff and I'm pulled towards the milder stuff with the erotica shots and panties. But I've come to believe that I will probably always be drawn between these two worlds, and that neither will ever go away. Which I don't fret over, as I actually like both sides...
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: CarnivalBarker]
#14544705 - 06/01/11 07:45 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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CarnivalBarker said: But I've gone through phases of just about everything. I was never into black chicks until I saw that girl on weeds and I went through a gnarly ebony phase.
Yeah dude, I've gone through all sorts of shit that I'm repulsed by now (not black chicks though--I like women of all colour).
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: druqs]
#14544716 - 06/01/11 07:51 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Nah, hasn't really changed.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Brugman]
#14544787 - 06/01/11 08:15 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I exclusively watch only pteradactyl porn nowadays.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: mongo lloyd]
#14544873 - 06/01/11 08:47 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Which begs the question...
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante]
#14544877 - 06/01/11 08:49 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Me'I'm the king of cyber and its a certified loser activity 
Nope, King of Cyber, definitely, and I think its an unique added way of social erotic interaction, welcome to the future bebbe! feels good mang!
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante]
#14544885 - 06/01/11 08:52 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Interesting, but I can't imagine women getting excited or even getting off of seeing my jerking my junk on some crappy webcam. Plus, I'd be WAAAAY to self-conscious for that shit. But enjoy man, all good with me.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: koraks]
#14544916 - 06/01/11 09:06 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ohnonono Cyber is so much more than just plain cam jerking, one thing I'm good (and I mean GREAT) at is talking people to climax via mike. Its a hypnotic game of grabbing attention, of flow and tempo, drawing people deeper into it, the right questions at the right time, letting them go crazy, bit of permission, bit of denial and then BAM! driving it home.
Its kind of like taking turns being a phone sex operative.
You like BDSM, yes thats my favorite angle for such hottalk, I'm usually Dom when giving and sub when receiving, it works better with the power exchange.
I once turned a random normal phone conversation with a straight friend around like that. He was fully off guard, intimidated and disaturbed going "what.. what.." And then at the summit of his confusion "naww, just pulling your leg mate" 
I just LOVE power-laden monologues.
Yes sometimes a bit like this 
Cybering is the perfect cure for selfconsciousness. Dont go for that cam shit you mentioned right away, I'm selfconscious with that too most of the time, but work up from texting, to microphone madness, to the occasional camfest.
Really, its AWESOME. I find the giving part (herding people to orgasm the scenic route) often a lot more interesting than getting my own rocks off and I usually don't fap when doing that.. 100% focus, its awesome.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante]
#14544927 - 06/01/11 09:10 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Wiccan_Seeker said: You like BDSM, yes thats my favorite angle for such hottalk, I'm usually Dom when giving and sub when receiving, it works better with the power exchange.
Oh yeah, that's one particular arena where it would work just fine! Although I prefer to play either live or solo. The visual and tangible aspects are just too important. That's the funny thing about BDSM; for many, it's about the power exchange, but I find that that isn't what attracts me to it. Sure, it's an aspect that is almost inseparable from sex, and therefore it's in there somewhere, but it's not by far the main thing in BDSM for me. Far from it. For me, it's about physical sensations and looks, not so much about the mindfuck.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: koraks]
#14544935 - 06/01/11 09:16 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Addded:
Cybering is the perfect cure for selfconsciousness. Dont go for that cam shit you mentioned right away, I'm selfconscious with that too most of the time, but work up from texting, to microphone madness, to the occasional camfest.
Really, its AWESOME. I find the giving part (herding people to orgasm the scenic route) often a lot more interesting than getting my own rocks off and I usually don't fap when doing that.. 100% focus, its awesome.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante]
#14544996 - 06/01/11 09:37 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah, I can see what you mean. It's not something I'll try very soon though, although it's hard to tell where my fetishes will take me in the end.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante]
#14545003 - 06/01/11 09:40 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Wiccan_Seeker said: Which begs the question...
I remember when I did cyber with a black girl on Habbo Hotel when I was about 14. I got banned...
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Mad_Larkin]
#14545014 - 06/01/11 09:46 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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That must have sucked. Especially since you had another 4 years ahead of you before you could join a decent online community
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: koraks]
#14545035 - 06/01/11 09:54 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hey I'm probably a decade of degeneracy ahead of you, agewise 
Kink ages, ripens and attains character like a fine wine. One dacade on, you probably would consider yourself as you are now fairly vanilla, this is the fate of most kinksters.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante] 1
#14545060 - 06/01/11 10:00 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh yeah, looking back over the past decade, I'm sure you're right. That means that my body and possibly those of a small selection of yet unknown females are going to have to live through quite a bit of abuse. With the best intentions of course, but shit, if things develop in the same direction and with the same speed over the next decade, then I better start ordering some heavy-duty wartenberg wheels, a cubic meter of candles (the verrrrrry drippy kind), a junkie's life supply of hypodermic needles, enough rope to tie up planet Earth, and a quarter of the Brazilian rain forest to extract raw latex from. Shit's going to be expensive. Oh yeah, and I'll have to confiscate the entire Tweede Maasvlakte to plant nettles on.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: koraks]
#14545102 - 06/01/11 10:24 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're gonna become that creep that takesw things way too far that scared you when you were younger 
Its all good man, thats how it works. Just dont become an extremophile who can ONLY enjoy the really hard scenes.
That is a VERY REAL danger, always keep one scoop of vanilla on your cone.
Extremophiles are never satisfied, the kink always needs to be just that bit harder. You can avoid this by staying grounded in vanilla, that way you can enjoy the whole range from a slight knowing look to the utmost extremes of BDSM.
Metaphor: if the music is on 10 all the time, your hearing declines and having it on 3 wont do a thing for you anymore.
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: Asante]
#14545206 - 06/01/11 10:58 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah, I hear what you're saying. I'm not particularly worried about that, to be honest. I still have hard limits, and while some of them have shifted somewhat over the past few years, the more fundamental ones are so deeply rooted that they will prevent me from going fully astray. But yeah, I'm a creep, at least to some people. Can't blame 'em, as you observed, if anyone would have told me ten years ago about the things I enjoy today, I probably would have become very angry with him. But then again, those traits were already there back then, and they caused massive dissonance. I'm glad that I recognized them for what they are at some point, and I feel much more balanced now that I know that they're a part of me that has always been there.
Funny isn't it, how you can trace back your preference for certain aspects of BDSM to things in your very early childhood? Playing wildly (exhibiting aspects of dominance) with girls of the same age back when I was 5 or 6, a fascination with a specific picture of a person in tight-fitting clothes in a children's book, a painting of Saint Sebastian that was scary but fascinating at the same time...I can now pinpoint (no pun intended) what fascinated me in those things, or why they stuck with me for all those years. So what are yours? What are those things you remember from your innocent days that were a forebode of the creepiness that later developed?
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: koraks]
#14545228 - 06/01/11 11:06 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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koraks said: Yeah, I hear what you're saying. I'm not particularly worried about that, to be honest. I still have hard limits, and while some of them have shifted somewhat over the past few years, the more fundamental ones are so deeply rooted that they will prevent me from going fully astray. But yeah, I'm a creep, at least to some people. Can't blame 'em, as you observed, if anyone would have told me ten years ago about the things I enjoy today, I probably would have become very angry with him. But then again, those traits were already there back then, and they caused massive dissonance. I'm glad that I recognized them for what they are at some point, and I feel much more balanced now that I know that they're a part of me that has always been there.
Funny isn't it, how you can trace back your preference for certain aspects of BDSM to things in your very early childhood? Playing wildly (exhibiting aspects of dominance) with girls of the same age back when I was 5 or 6, a fascination with a specific picture of a person in tight-fitting clothes in a children's book, a painting of Saint Sebastian that was scary but fascinating at the same time...I can now pinpoint (no pun intended) what fascinated me in those things, or why they stuck with me for all those years. So what are yours? What are those things you remember from your innocent days that were a forebode of the creepiness that later developed?
I had like the biggest crush on Uma Thurman when I was a kid (probably because of Batman and Robin. lolz).
Now I mostly like women that kind of resemble her (tall, thin, blonde/redhead, somewhat 'masculine' features).
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Re: has your porn preference changed over time? [Re: ROFL_my_ WAFFLE]
#14545243 - 06/01/11 11:10 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh yeah, good one, Uma Thurman! Or actresses (actors) in general; it's funny how they can leave an impression. Reminds me of Anno, who used to have this avatar of Audrey Tautou, and it reminds me of Franka Potente in Lola Rennt...movie stars FTW.
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