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I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know?
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14544826 - 06/01/11 08:32 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14544829 - 06/01/11 08:33 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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What about you?
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Beanhead]
#14544839 - 06/01/11 08:36 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thanks 
Its all in the second poll question though, thanks for the quick intervention 
In earnerst, I get apologetic often, but not problematically anymore. It used to be a problem, but it was because my self esteem was in the pits.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: koraks] 1
#14544855 - 06/01/11 08:41 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You guys are going to get polled like there's no fucking tomorrow. And I'm not going to apologize for none of that shit!
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
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i apologize all the time. sometimes a little too much i think. it's just a natural response, and alot of the time i apologize for something that doesn't really warrant an apology in the first place, but it's just common curtacy i guess.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Dosile Kouki]
#14544892 - 06/01/11 08:55 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well, apologizing can serve as a way to show regretful empathy with someone. Ecample: "I'm sorry for the ban man, but you were being a douche."
I bow like I'm Japanese, doesnt mean my self esteem is low (anymore) just that I have littlke reservations in showing humility when I feel its due.
I have a bigger problem with people who pathologically never apologize. They use your computer, the blasted thing practically friggin ejects it harddrive, blue screen of death, and they go "ah, badly configured mate." FUCK. OFF.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
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4) Post with the intention of causing intelligent discussion. This means having actual content in your post. Any original post who's sole purpose is to receive comments about a posted video or link must contain at the least, a description of the video or link. If you make a thread with just a video and no description or anything explaining it, expect it to be locked.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14544909 - 06/01/11 09:02 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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yeah i guess some people out there are just anal beads. it's a feeling of superiority i think. like: "why should i apologize to this underling". makes them feel superior. but who cares. i don't worry about people who have chips on their shoulders. if thats the way they want to live their life then best of luck to them, they can do it on their own.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14544910 - 06/01/11 09:03 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wiccan_Seeker said: I have a bigger problem with people who pathologically never apologize. They use your computer, the blasted thing practically friggin ejects it harddrive, blue screen of death, and they go "ah, badly configured mate." FUCK. OFF.
I resent that remark and expect you to apologize.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14544925 - 06/01/11 09:10 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wiccan_Seeker said: Well, apologizing can serve as a way to show regretful empathy with someone. Ecample: "I'm sorry for the man man, but you were being a douche."
I bow like I'm Japanese, doesnt mean my self esteem is low (anymore) just that I have littlke reservations in showing humility when I feel its due.
I have a bigger problem with people who pathologically never apologize. They use your computer, the blasted thing practically friggin ejects it harddrive, blue screen of death, and they go "ah, badly configured mate." FUCK. OFF.
so what your saying is you're a good person
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14544953 - 06/01/11 09:20 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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it's all how and when you apologize. if you really feel sorry for something than by all means apologize, but if you just blurt it out cause you're nervous and insecure and did something mildly wrong, that's unnecessary.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: g00ru]
#14544969 - 06/01/11 09:26 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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i piss people off sometimes because i have a rule that i will not apologize unless im actually sorry i consider it tantamount to a lie to apologize just to pad a situation if i wasn't prepared for the consequences then i should have kept my mouth shut
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Micawber]
#14544975 - 06/01/11 09:28 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Micawber said: i piss people off sometimes because i have a rule that i will not apologize unless im actually sorry i consider it tantamount to a lie
Same, and I'm never actually sorry.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: ROFL_my_ WAFFLE] 1
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OK, you are NOT getting behind my computer
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545172 - 06/01/11 10:47 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Are you going to apologize for the nekkid dude in your avatar?
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: SheikCorp]
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: SheikCorp]
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SheikCorp said: Are you going to apologize for the nekkid dude in your avatar?
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: ROFL_my_ WAFFLE]
#14545313 - 06/01/11 11:28 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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SheikCorp said: Are you going to apologize for the nekkid dude in your avatar?
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545326 - 06/01/11 11:31 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I used to say "my bad" quite a bit, until I realized how god damn annoying it sounded
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545332 - 06/01/11 11:33 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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no need to apologize buddy, you've done me no harm
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545459 - 06/01/11 12:10 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I really dislike it when people are overly apologetic. One sorry is all that's needed. No need to drive it in the ground, it only makes things worse. I was just talking to a friend and she apologizes about everything that is in no way her fault. Me: "Well my car is in the shop again" Her: "im soooo sorry!"
I apologize for things that ARE my fault...not for things that arent. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people apologize for things that arent their fault. I also tend to bow like a Japanese person when I apologize.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545488 - 06/01/11 12:20 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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MisterMuscaria said: I really dislike it when people are overly apologetic. One sorry is all that's needed. No need to drive it in the ground, it only makes things worse. I was just talking to a friend and she apologizes about everything that is in no way her fault. Me: "Well my car is in the shop again" Her: "im soooo sorry!"
I apologize for things that ARE my fault...not for things that arent. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people apologize for things that arent their fault. I also tend to bow like a Japanese person when I apologize.
It's called empathy.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545496 - 06/01/11 12:22 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ive got a very male brain. I tend to lack empathy to a fault. I didnt even feel empathy as a child I had to learn which situations I was supposed to be empathetic in and fake it. Im pretty high on the autistic spectrum compared to normal people though, i do not feel this is my fault. I cannot tell how people are feeling by facial expressions or tone of voice. The only way I can determine someone's mood is if they tell me. To me when someone can tell my mood by just looking at me I think they are telepathic or something and wonder how they can do it.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545509 - 06/01/11 12:25 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm the complete opposite. I tend to empathize to a fault. To the point where the issues of someone I've never met can leave me emotionally devistated.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545520 - 06/01/11 12:26 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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One of the things I loved about tripping is it made me feel empathic for about 8 hours until it wore off.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
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Really? That's pretty interesting. I wonder if autism has something to do with 5-HT2A.
I can also get overly empathetic on a trip, but it usually just depends on where my mind runs off to. Usually I try to keep it from getting there because I don't find 8 hours of weeping to be a whole lot of fun. That's actually the reason I stay away from shrooms. I have a lot more control on acid, and I can very effectively keep myself from getting there.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545544 - 06/01/11 12:34 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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On 2c-B I felt so empathetic I was telling people humanity was fucked and that people were starving in Africa so we could live a life of excess luxury that we dont need. i even wanted to martyr myself at one point.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545571 - 06/01/11 12:41 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hahaha, must have been quite a scene.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545579 - 06/01/11 12:44 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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wiccan, no worries. I've been pretty apologetic without reason too. My father was emotionally abusive and my mother is bipolar and has borderline personality disorder as well so feeling guilty when I wasn't has been common for me and got to a point where I always felt it was my fault. Thankfully through psychedelics I've come to realize that is not the case. I even tried to kill myself a few times when I was younger since I honestly felt that I was such a burden that I was ruining everyone's lives.
Fuck that noise. I apologize when I actually did something now.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: BothHands]
#14545592 - 06/01/11 12:47 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I guess to me it seems pointless some of the stuff some people feel sorry for themselves over.
Even with autistics or people with aspergers (who have an entirely male-esque non-empathetic brain) they really feel for anyone theyve felts has been done an injustice and will go out of their way to make it right.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545596 - 06/01/11 12:49 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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A lot of people theorize that empathy is taught/learned, not something you naturally have but I kinda call bullshit. My mother and father and siblings lack is to a large degree
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: bbl337]
#14545603 - 06/01/11 12:52 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Theyre probably just higher on the autistic spectrum than you are.
One one end you have people who are entirely empathetic on the other end you have people who are entirely ruled by logic and there are people everywhere in between.
A lack of empathy is neither good nor evil and not a negative personality trait by any means, it just is. They cant help it.
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#14545620 - 06/01/11 12:55 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Eh, I think there are more factors to empathy than a scale. Narcissism, what you value, etc often come into play
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Re: I'm really sorry guys but sometimes I just get apologetic you know? [Re: Asante]
#14545628 - 06/01/11 12:58 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thankyou for including STAL
the rest of you ingrates could learn something
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