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bonnahoo
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Is this logical, considering false accusations?
#14539242 - 05/31/11 04:40 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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If you are being accused of doing something you didn't do and there was no way you could prove your innocence, is it justifiable to do the thing you are being accused of doing as long as you are paying the price or serving the time for it anyways?
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539276 - 05/31/11 05:04 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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i suppose, but if you beleive in karma you could be paying for a past sin (or mis doing, wat eva you wanna call it) so maybe actuly doing the crime might just add extra bad karma to your name....
i think its up to you to decide what is right and wrong for yourself.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Wooden Spoon]
#14539280 - 05/31/11 05:06 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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if you could tell what your being acused of that would help because, i mean if your being accused of murder by no means actuly do it, but if its movies piracy well its a differnt story you see...
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539283 - 05/31/11 05:09 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anything is justifiable if you want it bad enough. You've been a bad boy (or want to be, badly).
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Wooden Spoon]
#14539286 - 05/31/11 05:10 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oh I'm not actually being accused of anything... I'm just saying, in theory. I've often pondered this thought. How would I react? Getting falsely accused is probably the one thing that would really ever set me off.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539296 - 05/31/11 05:17 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Actually... I lied. Ok my ex is going around talking shit, telling people I'm a fucking asshole and saying I never did anything for her, blah blah blah... Part of me wants to be this fucking asshole that all of her friends now think I am, but the other part of me doesn't know if I'm capable. I am probably the nicest person you could ever meet. But this pisses me off so much,I really want to go to her apt and take back all the shit I let her borrow, including my old computer rig (the only comp she has ATM), among other things. I just feel like I would feel bad about it after I did it, but then again I really don't know. She's so fucking horrible.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539299 - 05/31/11 05:20 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You aren't an asshole or non-asshole, you're just some guy. Your actions are what will signify to yourself whether you are "an asshole" or not. I don't think this is really about what others think, this is a self-image issue.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#14539313 - 05/31/11 05:27 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hmm.. yes I suppose. I mean it confuses me. It makes me wonder, does she really believe that, was I really an asshole to her, or is she trying to get pity? No one else has ever called me an asshole or a horrible person, and I never thought I was, but after being with this person for 2 years and then for her to say I'm an asshole... well, she knows me better than others I guess, right? IDK... i just don't know if I am doing something wrong or if I am being falsely accused out of her own selfishness.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539411 - 05/31/11 06:04 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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bonnahoo said: If you are being accused of doing something you didn't do and there was no way you could prove your innocence, is it justifiable to do the thing you are being accused of doing as long as you are paying the price or serving the time for it anyways?
It's your duty to do it.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539416 - 05/31/11 06:06 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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bonnahoo said: Actually... I lied. Ok my ex is going around talking shit, telling people I'm a fucking asshole and saying I never did anything for her, blah blah blah... Part of me wants to be this fucking asshole that all of her friends now think I am, but the other part of me doesn't know if I'm capable. I am probably the nicest person you could ever meet. But this pisses me off so much,I really want to go to her apt and take back all the shit I let her borrow, including my old computer rig (the only comp she has ATM), among other things. I just feel like I would feel bad about it after I did it, but then again I really don't know. She's so fucking horrible.
No I'm the nicest person you could ever meet.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Icelander]
#14539451 - 05/31/11 06:22 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Icelander said:
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bonnahoo said: Actually... I lied. Ok my ex is going around talking shit, telling people I'm a fucking asshole and saying I never did anything for her, blah blah blah... Part of me wants to be this fucking asshole that all of her friends now think I am, but the other part of me doesn't know if I'm capable. I am probably the nicest person you could ever meet. But this pisses me off so much,I really want to go to her apt and take back all the shit I let her borrow, including my old computer rig (the only comp she has ATM), among other things. I just feel like I would feel bad about it after I did it, but then again I really don't know. She's so fucking horrible.
No I'm the nicest person you could ever meet.
Oh yeah!? I'll fight you for it with presents, hugs, and rainbows!
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539476 - 05/31/11 06:31 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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OK, you start.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14539483 - 05/31/11 06:33 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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that sounds a lot more like an emotional response than a logical one..reminds me more of Donald Black's theory of law ..a sociological phenomenon describing reasons why people (who wouldn't under normal circumstances) feel compelled to turn to the dark side so to speak due to sociological pressures.. may hint at the truth behind the psychology of prison inmates, etc.. worth looking into if your interested
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Icelander]
#14539487 - 05/31/11 06:35 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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its all about creating and not fearing
if you dont like and/or fear whats going on and how your image is to others than you have to face it
if you dont care than just think positive..
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you don;t have to be an ass on purpose, if she is your ex i dont see whats wrong with getting your shit back, dont go out of your way to be a dick to her though....
be the bigger person and get on with your life rather than being as pathetic as she seems to be being spreading rumors
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: bonnahoo]
#14543409 - 05/31/11 11:25 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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bonnahoo said: If you are being accused of doing something you didn't do and there was no way you could prove your innocence, is it justifiable to do the thing you are being accused of doing as long as you are paying the price or serving the time for it anyways?
Silly human, morality is for morons!
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: 4896744]
#14543434 - 05/31/11 11:31 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yes, as you quoted in your sig,
"Morality is the herd-instinct in the individual." -Nietzsche
It's all just a game we play because evolution has given us the urge to preserve our social structures. There is safety (for the species) in numbers.
That isn't to say that true compassion and caring for another human being can't exist, but it is very hard to sift that out from the herd instincts. When I realize deeply that another person is just like me at heart, another experiencer of life, I tend to want what is best for them. Other times I do nice things for people just to preserve friendships because those friendships aid me in some way.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#14543701 - 06/01/11 12:18 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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She's so fucking horrible.
And you choose to be in a relationship with her!
You probably don't need the stuff she has, but if there's something you want I recommend you get it soon, and get on with life. In my experience, most people believe the things they hear until they hear other things, then they pick the things that make them feel the best. Most people aren't/weren't your friends... why give a fuck what they think? In the future, maybe don't have relationships with horrible people. That's what I call karma.
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#14544492 - 06/01/11 06:14 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oweyervishice said: Yes, as you quoted in your sig,
"Morality is the herd-instinct in the individual." -Nietzsche
It's all just a game we play because evolution has given us the urge to preserve our social structures. There is safety (for the species) in numbers.
That isn't to say that true compassion and caring for another human being can't exist, but it is very hard to sift that out from the herd instincts. When I realize deeply that another person is just like me at heart, another experiencer of life, I tend to want what is best for them. Other times I do nice things for people just to preserve friendships because those friendships aid me in some way.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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Re: Is this logical, considering false accusations? [Re: Rahz]
#14544496 - 06/01/11 06:15 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Rahz said:
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She's so fucking horrible.
And you choose to be in a relationship with her!
You probably don't need the stuff she has, but if there's something you want I recommend you get it soon, and get on with life. In my experience, most people believe the things they hear until they hear other things, then they pick the things that make them feel the best. Most people aren't/weren't your friends... why give a fuck what they think? In the future, maybe don't have relationships with horrible people. That's what I call karma.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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