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Anonymous #1
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Clingy GF
#14527652 - 05/28/11 06:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is mostly a rant but I do want to fix this.
My gf is way clingy. She always wants to hangout and it's more than I can take. I need a fucking break. If I don't say I'm going to see her that night, she throws a fit and often cries. I see her so often that I don't have as good of a time with her as I used to.
If I want to hangout with friends without her, by myself, with my family, she takes it as I don't want to be around her rather than me just wanting to hangout with other people. It's like I can't have a life!
Now for the first time I am very reluctant to see her, actually dreading it. She is very sick and got work covered and needs some lovin. I would love to but I've been pestered and annoyed so much that I don't even want to take care of my fucking girl.
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Charles
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Ok, first off, how old are you both?
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Joolz


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Re: Clingy GF [Re: Charles]
#14527748 - 05/28/11 07:06 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You need to communicate with her some way that you just need space. Try to get her to understand that it isn't her, you just have guy friends and family you want to hang out with alone. I know that its different chillin' with my friends when I have a girl around than when I don't.
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Cherk
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your unna tell her you need space and she gonna freak hahaha
sounds like bigger differences surfacing in todos los dias situations
THAT"S THE WAY SHIT WORKS SON
you should just fall madly in love with her
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Re: Clingy GF [Re: Cherk]
#14528243 - 05/28/11 08:56 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
cherokee said:
you should just fall madly in love with her
You should never stay with someone because you feel you have to. You can also not force love. Forcing love only causes pain.
You're better either convincing her to give you more space or leaving her than sticking around and being unhappy. Its one life, and if I were you, I would not waste it being unhappy.
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Cherk
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lots of people marry ugly nasty people and live their lives out
its all about commitment dawg
SHIT STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND MARRY HER
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Joolz


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Re: Clingy GF [Re: Cherk]
#14528388 - 05/28/11 09:45 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Okay, so, because somebody chose a shitty marriage and rode it out to the end, everybody should? Bad logic.
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Re: Clingy GF [Re: Joolz]
#14528419 - 05/28/11 10:03 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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right more people should date people they don't like
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