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Sophistic Radiance
Free sVs!


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I seriously can't wait to get started on my summer. I wanna go to the redwoods and just chill all day, bring a picnic basket and a few really good friends...
Just what the doctor ordered, man.
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Yacub
Psychedelic Redneck



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Re: wanting to please everybody [Re: Le_Canard]
#14516577 - 05/26/11 05:25 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
ToiletDuk said: I used to be like that, but I learned it's an impossible task and some will try to take advantage of you. It's hard to learn to say no when you're like that that, but it can be done and it's get easier to do.
Pretty much sums it up.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: wanting to please everybody [Re: Yacub]
#14516642 - 05/26/11 05:37 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm not exactly a pushover, I know how to shut somebody down when they're trying to take me for a ride. I'm mostly just talking about the introspective experience.
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j0nnyb0y05
IBelieveInBelivin



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I dont like to "please" everybody, but I dont like the fact that I care about what everyone thinks of me....
I just can't just let my shield down for some reason, its pretty annoying and interfering with my happiness I believe.
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Patlal
You ask too many questions


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Re: wanting to please everybody [Re: j0nnyb0y05]
#14516917 - 05/26/11 06:32 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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OP can you share some of that thing you have?
Thats what I need...
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: wanting to please everybody [Re: Patlal]
#14518546 - 05/26/11 11:31 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Man, I'm starting to think about it and I actually CAN recall a lot of times people got pissy with me just because I chose not to be as generous as usual. I feel like a chump.
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Luc1d
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In order to please me you must perform odd sexual favors. Well what ya waitin for?
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: wanting to please everybody [Re: Luc1d]
#14518669 - 05/26/11 11:48 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Would you like me to put a skittle in your belly button with my tongue, sir?
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Luc1d
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Put it in my bum
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rational


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Yeah, I feel like that a lot of the time, it's fucking annoying. Everything in moderation
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Humility
Working on it



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Re: wanting to please everybody [Re: rational]
#14518716 - 05/26/11 11:56 PM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Mooji - Don't try to love EVERYBODY.
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Edited by Humility (05/26/11 11:57 PM)
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Drewwyann
Slayer of ticks



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Tchan,
You can't please everyone, the only person who you can please is yourself in the end. It depends on what culture you are apart of, or what culture surrounds you. If you are with understanding, caring people then being a nice guy gets you pretty far. If you are in a place where people are self-centered and walk on people that are selfless, than you aren't helping anyone out by being nice. Sometimes the best conversations I have with people are the ones that are abrasive to what I believe.
You have to be a mix of good and evil otherwise you will get walked on, and you will be too vulnerable to the wills of others I believe.
Don't care what people think, otherwise you aren't being true to yourself and speak your mind more unfiltered.
Woo!
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