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imafuckup
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insane fucking mom
#14517257 - 05/26/11 07:34 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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so me and my boyfriend live together and in about a month were going to have to move back in with our parents again. it sucks really, but at the moment it happens to be our only option since our lease is up by the end of june. and we are now going some what broke.  anyways, i get a call from my mom today screaming at me about how i better start cleaning up my act and get a fucking job (since i got laid off from stupid fuck la fitness) if i want to move back in. and she said i have to stop all my drug using, which really pisses me off right now because i have been chilling out alot to get me on the right track again. i mean shit, i dont even fucking smoke weed anymore. (clean for like a month now). she bitches at me constantly giving me hell every single day, yet my 14 year old sister smokes weed everyday, drinks, and is addicted to cigarettes and my parents dont even give two shits about what she does! okay i know this is a long post guys and im sorry, but id like to have some opinions on this, and yeah my mom tells me she hates everyday. theres like a whole story on this but it would take too damn long to explain.
ps: im a lil barred out right now, lol took it after the bitch screamed at me. but dammnit, i dont know what to do and how to handle this shit after i move back in, since shes gonna nagg my ass all fucking day even though im gonna be cleaning her entire fucking house. ugh. the bullshit.
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517278 - 05/26/11 07:37 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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The least you can do is keep the drug use out of her home while you live there.
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imafuckup
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: pmb]
#14517354 - 05/26/11 07:53 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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pmb said: The least you can do is keep the drug use out of her home while you live there.
i am planning on doing that.. except what i dont get is why my little sister is allowed to smoke in the house in her room and drink and leave the house when she pleases and take my sisters car out to go wherever with her friends. my parents dont say shit about that, and she was on probation too. wtf. eh, and shes 15 now not 14, hehe i forgot.
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517366 - 05/26/11 07:56 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Maybe your parents feel guilty about something they have done to your sister so they just let her do whatever.
I have a friend whos parents have a few kids and i've heard them say one of their kids is a fuck up so they don't give a shit what he does because he won't amount to anything so they used to only punish the more capable kids because they knew they had more of a chance of making something of their life.
Fucked up I know but it does happen.
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup] 1
#14517402 - 05/26/11 08:02 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Id rather be homeless then move back in with my mom. There is no way i cant tolerate her hypocritical, opiate abusing, Xanax popping, mood swinging psychotic bitching at any cost! I often thank the good lord for giving me such a wonderful lady who always helps me in life, and allows me the option to move elseware need be.
Good luck. Right now said mother is sending my step brother to rehab for smoking weed with occasionally drinking I dont know how you people put up with these types of nut jobs. Thank god I dont tolerate it anymore
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517412 - 05/26/11 08:04 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Petty problems. Nobody else really cares when there are real people suffering in the world. Mountains of dumb, overcome or become by allowing them to poison you.
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All of that sounds reasonable to me. 
The best you can do is get a job ASAP, then move back out. At least you have parents that will let you fall back on them.
As for your sister, maybe talk to your parents about her and express your concerns calmly?
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517433 - 05/26/11 08:09 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, she is probably a lot harder on you because you are older and because you've had more problems with drugs (that she knows about) than your sister has. Your sister's 15; she's got a lot of time to clean up her act.
It's tough, but it's similar around here. I just try to be civil when I can and ignore her when I can't.
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imafuckup
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yeah my little sister has problems, im definately trying to help her get on the right path. she has a 21 yr old boyfriend for goodness sakes! its disgusting. im not the oldest though, i have a 21 yr old sister who is the favorite of my mom. ugh so many things to explain. my mom hates andd resents me since, ah, she had me with the guy she really hates. im the middle child, i get treated like shit and damn its getting me mad. basically she blames me for every problems she gets in her life. we had this one incident where my stepdad got pissed off at me for wanting to take myy little sister to the movies, and he got mad at said im not taking his daughter anywhere and that i had to stay home too. i was like fine im going running (he was ok with that). and i went to my cuzns house and my little sister left with my older sister. he got in a rage for no reason, went to my cuzns house, grabbed me by my neck and dragged me by my hair and almost killed my ass. i did nothing wrong. i was bleeding my aunt and her neighbors called the cops witnessing it and he went to jail for a week. an my mom blamed me saying im always ruining her fucking life. like wtf is that shit about? how was that even myy fault? point blank she really hates me. and the only reason i can move back in is cuz she wants me to pay rent .. andd my older sister doesnt pay jack shit.
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imafuckup
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CarnivalBarker said: All of that sounds reasonable to me. 
The best you can do is get a job ASAP, then move back out. At least you have parents that will let you fall back on them.
As for your sister, maybe talk to your parents about her and express your concerns calmly?
its somewhat reasonable. and i know i will be moving back out asap. and ive tried talking to her she listens to me:) and is TRYING but its cuz m parents dont give a shit about what she does.
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517556 - 05/26/11 08:32 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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That's a pretty shitty situation. Hope you're able to get your own place again soon and don't have to stay there too long....good luck
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517559 - 05/26/11 08:33 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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bear it as long as you can, then run the fuck away. i know she's yer moms and all, but jesus. nobody needs a mom like that.
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Delicious Apes said: Petty problems. Nobody else really cares when there are real people suffering in the world. Mountains of dumb, overcome or become by allowing them to poison you.
This. Some people are just nasty people. I had a drunk step dad slam my head into a door frame and cut the whole back of my head open, and a mom who's gotten piss drunk and repeatedly sucker punched me in the face. Obviously, I'd never live with them again. They're miserable fucks. I'd say don't even move in there, do whatever you have to do, start dealing, get some shitty job, get some roommates... there's always SOMETHING. Good luck!
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Damn, my heart goes out to you. When I was with my ex, my mom would put me down 24/7 and go through my texts until I moved in with my ex. Just get a job asap, save up, and get out. Hope everything works out. ^_^
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517856 - 05/26/11 09:31 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You should be all like, "It's my body Mom, Gaaaawd!" and then if she gives you any shit, be like, "Whatever - I do what I want!"

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imagine if your daughter had moved out, got fired, and asked to move into your house with her bf....
if I was you I'd be glad my mom was letting me move back in...and you should get a job...
that sucks that you have a shitty relationship though...just more reason to get a job and get the fuck out
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517898 - 05/26/11 09:35 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Moms are fucking crazy.
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imafuckup
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: TYL3R]
#14517951 - 05/26/11 09:44 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah im going to do whatever it takes to move back out. get a crap job and everything. uhh, my bf isnt moving in with us, hes going back with his family too. but i cant move in with them, because he has little brothers and sisters, and i dont know i just think that would be disrespectful. plus i hate having to be a burden to other people honestly. and geez, im just in a messed up situation
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517976 - 05/26/11 09:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Keep your chin up.
If your step-dad is abusive then his legs need to be broke.
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Re: insane fucking mom [Re: imafuckup]
#14517983 - 05/26/11 09:48 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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How old are you ?
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