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skatealex2
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I give up on seeking socializing
#14510794 - 05/25/11 04:45 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I will never seek it again. When it comes it comes. When not then not. I don't give a fuck.
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realfuzzhead



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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510804 - 05/25/11 04:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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except for shroomery gatherings.
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Mello Kitty
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510805 - 05/25/11 04:48 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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i dont have any friends either
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uber_aj
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510809 - 05/25/11 04:49 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Careful, you're one step away from buying ass-hole fleshlights and peeing in a jug.
Haha, j/k, I feel you. What I'm tired of is acting like I care about meeting people that are obvious douchebags. I think I'm going to filter less of what comes out of my mouth towards idiots and shitty people.
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I_was_the_walrus
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510811 - 05/25/11 04:49 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Youre gonna end up like pris. Have fun.
go go post count!!
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: Mello Kitty]
#14510812 - 05/25/11 04:49 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I like to exchange energy with lots of people.
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android313
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510823 - 05/25/11 04:51 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
skatealex2 said: I will never seek it again. When it comes it comes. When not then not. I don't give a fuck.
lol I'm the same way
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Greenvalley
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"Choose your words as carefully as you choose your friends"
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propensity
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: Greenvalley]
#14510845 - 05/25/11 04:54 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm the same. Have been for awhile.
Marijuana and music are my best friends
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the human abstract
malaka the werewolf



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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510855 - 05/25/11 04:56 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
skatealex2 said: I will never seek it again. When it comes it comes. When not then not. I don't give a fuck.

hopefully i one day find a good path that i can meet people alone the way
most successful people go through life pretty "lonely" and the people that help them along the way are huge figures.. everyones going to hurt you in one way or another and the people that are worth it are the people that help
thats how im going to start to roll.. bc people that you think that are your friends are really enemies with secret identities
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ifoundwaldo


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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510856 - 05/25/11 04:56 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
skatealex2 said: I will never seek it again. When it comes it comes. When not then not. I don't give a fuck.


I used to come home to my video games and my TV and be like "At least you guys will always accept me and never judge."
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Mad_Larkin

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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: propensity]
#14510857 - 05/25/11 04:57 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
propensity said: Marijuana and music are my best friends 
Same.
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BargainBab
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: propensity]
#14510865 - 05/25/11 04:58 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Shitstorm stampede!
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the human abstract
malaka the werewolf



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i want to add i thought of this song right away..
1:30 is awesome.. what i need hates me. so true
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The Ecstatic
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: BargainBab]
#14510878 - 05/25/11 05:01 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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people are too stupid to be around constantly.
I have a few close friends, and people I party with, but I'm not out seeking more retards to put up with.
and yes, weed and music definitely fill my social void.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: BargainBab]
#14510883 - 05/25/11 05:03 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I was super outgoing for a while then I found out it was a pain in the ass not really worth the benefits.
I still don't want to be though, so I'm working on Phase III: having extremely high standards for friends and only hanging out with known ass-kickers I can count on and respect.
A lot of people don't like that idea because it involves raising the bar for yourself too.
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the human abstract
malaka the werewolf



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"Suppose somehow the lion hearted failed to win, who will be the villain? All the strangers voted for him
suppose somehow the lion hearted failed to smile, who would be the villain? All the strangers voted for him"
this is the end of that song.
if youre around uninteresting people this is what will happen. the stronger you are the weaker you are.
surround yourself with interesting people and you will succeed.
lack of people in your life will cause huge depression
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4runner


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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: realfuzzhead]
#14510895 - 05/25/11 05:07 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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RonaldFuckingPaul
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I don't really have any friends currently. But I could see myself being friends with some of my homies here on the shroomery.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: 4runner]
#14510909 - 05/25/11 05:10 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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At least you're married. It's cool to have friends and no wife, or a wife and no friends, or both a wife and friends. It's not cool to have no friends and no wife.
Becoming irreversibly socially isolated is a deep, primal fear of mine.
Has anybody seen the movie Crumb? R. Crumb's brother is a good example of how I'd prefer not to live. Violently if necessary.
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propensity
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: 4runner]
#14510925 - 05/25/11 05:15 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have one true friend who I actually trust.
Who lives 3 hours away as well.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: propensity]
#14510939 - 05/25/11 05:18 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have a few. I'm lucky to live close to a couple of them, too. I guess it comes with living in the same area your whole life 
I still feel like I'm well-enough versed in the People-Who-Go-Out-On-Saturday-Night scene to make new acquaintances fast in a new area, though. It's a good skill to have.
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the human abstract
malaka the werewolf



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lol socially awkward isnt even anything
its mostly about spending time with people
if youre worried about what to say or how to talk just do what i do
pointers: talk for a while always use a negative followed by a positive use your hands a lot (85% of anxiety is hand anxiety, its overlooked)
i only have 2 stories i made up. i always make an awkward situation better by just talking for a minute or two about one. its so funny how people fear talking, people fear it more than suicide according to statistics.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Yeah, I have to get drunk to talk to strangers without stuttering.
There, I said it.
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Mad_Larkin

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the human abstract said: its so funny how people fear talking, people fear it more than suicide according to statistics.
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4runner


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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: propensity]
#14510967 - 05/25/11 05:24 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah i am actually blessed. I have a large group of friends that I have known for 15-20 years that are like family. My wife always says I have the best freinds. Of course I just happen to live far away from them all. Hell I guess you could say I have friends from Bellingham Washington to Auburn, Ca(near Sacramento) that are truly family. I am right in the middle. Luckily Eugene isn't that far away. Probably my closet "old school" friends.
And yes, having a wife that is my best friend helps, not to mention her family being around here also. They are one crazy group of peeps.
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Sophistic Radiance
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: Mad_Larkin]
#14510971 - 05/25/11 05:24 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mad_Larkin said:
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the human abstract said: its so funny how people fear talking, people fear it more than suicide according to statistics.

Yeah, I was wondering just how those statistics were gathered. Did they point-blank ask people what they fear most? Or did they ask them to mark it on a list?
Honestly, I think a lot of people just wouldn't think enough about suicide to find the idea personally threatening.
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Le_Canard
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14510987 - 05/25/11 05:27 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Some folks just don't like larger crowds or have a lot of friends, like me. But the friends I do have are very close, and I'm happy with that. Some are different and thrive on large groups of people. I prefer having a small number of close friends.
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the human abstract
malaka the werewolf



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public speaking is the number one fear in this country.
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4runner


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Quote:
Tchan909 said: Yeah, I have to get drunk to talk to strangers without stuttering.
There, I said it.
I don't stutter but I clam up tight around new people unless there is a beer or maybe something else that lubes the vocal cords. My bro in law was telling his now fiance how funny and cool I am as I stand there listening to it going.....
Im gonna go hide now and stop saying I am the "dude". Gah!
I guess I just like to ease into a friendship before i let it all out. It might be scary for some, or so I think. Just the nicest I don't give a fuck guy ever I guess.
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DarkMatterOfFact
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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: skatealex2]
#14511004 - 05/25/11 05:29 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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i like to listen to bukowski reads when people i know get me down.
it helps to identify with people that are like you, imo. even if your having trouble finding them in life.
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malaka the werewolf



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Re: I give up on seeking socializing [Re: 4runner]
#14511015 - 05/25/11 05:30 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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quick to google. 
Far above the fear of death and disease, comes fear of standing in front of a crowd. We all want to be movie stars, but are terrified of the spotlight.
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