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Anonymous #1

What do you do?.....
    #14499982 - 05/23/11 04:43 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

When your heart is bleeding out for company?

I have always enjoyed my own company, and I still do, but recently I've been needing someone to share the load with. Just to chill, whatever.

There's a guy at work who is just like the male version of me who I've had a couple of intimate moments with. Nothing goes further as we are both a bit shy and insecure (he's my manager too), but I know there is something there as he treats me differently - my thoughts cling to him, and it's not healthy.

I have friends at work, but at the end of the day everyone goes home to their lives.

We have periods of going out a lot and I end up extremely drunk to fill some void. I've been mistreated by partners in the past, but feel I can give a lot to people, which I do naturally.

I grew apart from all of my past friends due to being in a controlling relationship. I know I could try and join some local activity groups of interest, I will look into it. I don't seem to gel....

My health and mind go from sometimes being so healthy to so fat, frumpy and grumpy.

I just feel if I could give a constant flow of my nature to people then I'd be safe in mind too. Maybe I'm over-analyzing the fact of why I'm up and down and just get on with it.

Anyways, thanks for reading. Just an open whine really.  :flowers:

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InvisibleHarri


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Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14500012 - 05/23/11 04:49 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

What do you mean when you say it's not healthy for your thoughts to cling to him?

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Anonymous #1

Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Harri]
    #14500040 - 05/23/11 04:54 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Like I think about him a LOT, sometimes it's the same loop of when we've shared a moment and I mainly do that to keep me to how I was feeling at the time - utterly blissful.

They then sometimes turn into anger and disappointment at myself, because it's not an ongoing thing.

I shouldn't be clinging my thoughts to him as it COULD be all in my head, even though intuition severely feels otherwise.

Edited by Anonymous (05/23/11 04:57 PM)

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InvisibleHarri


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Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14500119 - 05/23/11 05:13 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Does he have relationship with someone? This dude might be the one that let's you be free, make a move in the chess-game that is your life :happyheart:

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Anonymous #1

Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Harri]
    #14500164 - 05/23/11 05:22 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Nah, he split with her. He got over her though because of some advice I gave him back then when he was feeling bad. (he admitted this before we got close)

I've told him that I like him and think he's cool. I've made the first moves and received flutters or reciprocation, but it's been well over a month though since any breakthrough although we hang out at music nights and he's always glancing my way.

I can't really push again until he pushes back really, don't want to seem 'obsessed'. I'd be sad if he ran.

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InvisibleHarri


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Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14500280 - 05/23/11 05:44 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Have you asked him if he's interested in you in a more then friendship way? or see if he wants to hang out more often on occasions that you guys plan out.

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Anonymous #1

Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Harri]
    #14500354 - 05/23/11 05:57 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

No I haven't, but I did once mention that I probs wasn't his type (I'm a bit tomboyish) to which he replied, he doesn't have a type.

I should just let it chill really, or I'll end up thinking all sorts of things. Like I says, he's my manager. One reason right thur.

Bigger things in life right?

Thanks for your input though :sun:

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Re: What do you do?..... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #14500437 - 05/23/11 06:10 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

It might take some bravery, but you truly will never know where he really is in the thing unless you at least ask him where he thinks its going.  If you catch him looking at you a lot, the interest is likely quite high.  Just ask him where he thinks the two of you are headed.  Make it clear that you are not doing so to make him feel pressured but that its nice to at least have an idea.  Look at it this way.  If you don't like the answer that he gives you, yes it will suck and maybe hurt, but probably much less than it will if that same answer comes later on after more uncertainty.  Plus, waiting to get things out in the open could dampen his interest.  He may be having the same thoughts as you are about him.

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InvisibleHarri


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Re: What do you do?..... [Re: FestrunneR]
    #14500591 - 05/23/11 06:41 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

^ exactly, this is great advice, this could open a whole new chapter to your life, a very positive one at that.

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