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acidxprincess



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help me out shroomery
#14498921 - 05/23/11 12:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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So there's this guy I've been seeing for a whileish. Super gorgeous. Great kisser and cuddler. Takes me out on dates late night walks and almost every cute thing you can think of lol. He's seriously perfect. Everyone keeps asking when were gonna date, But we both just got out of long term relationships. And I'm afraid to fall for him cause my last relationship hurt me bad. So how can I let go of the past to move further with this new amazing guy../:
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Me_Roy
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Eat shrooms, turn gh3y, problem solved!
On a more serious note, I think you should just ride it out and wait until it feels right, and only then step up the commitment and intimacy. It sounds like you have a great thing going -- you should be ecstatic!
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stranger_danger
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Just trust in the fact that life goes on and there is more beauty out in the world. I am sorry that your last relationship hurt you so much, but just because one situation ends up being shitty, it doesnt mean that all situations always will.
How will you ever find true lasting love (assuming that is what you are looking for) without finding sorrow and pain first?
Its just like how can one appreciate a truly beautiful trip without knowing torturous introspective self examination/bad trip?
What is happy without sad? etc.... etc... etc... Just take it one step at a time, and most importantly make sure he knows how you feel/you know how he feels before getting anything in your to far into your brain/heart.
Also, sounds like you have a rly romantic guy in your life - if that is what you are looking for hold onto it, cause chivalry and romance is getting rarer and rarer in this world.
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Doc_T
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Quote:
acidxprincess said: Takes me out on dates late night walks and Everyone keeps asking when were gonna date
I'm sure this makes sense- could you explain it?
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Before shit becomes official u should try all the popular trial scenarios. For instance the night at home on the couch. See how it feels, and if he can handle it. Make sure you get him drunk one night too and see how that goes. That way you can uncover any hidden problems before its uncomfortable.
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stranger_danger
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Re: help me out shroomery [Re: rodfarva]
#14499840 - 05/23/11 04:11 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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rodfarva said: Before shit becomes official u should try all the popular trial scenarios. For instance the night at home on the couch. See how it feels, and if he can handle it. Make sure you get him drunk one night too and see how that goes. That way you can uncover any hidden problems before its uncomfortable.
QFT
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acidxprincess



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Re: help me out shroomery [Re: rodfarva]
#14500052 - 05/23/11 04:57 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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rodfarva said: Before shit becomes official u should try all the popular trial scenarios. For instance the night at home on the couch. See how it feels, and if he can handle it. Make sure you get him drunk one night too and see how that goes. That way you can uncover any hidden problems before its uncomfortable.
We've been doing that since the beginning ahaha
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last part is dont fall in love. lol
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try doing it sober. if you keep on drinking together all the time you'll just end up being alcoholics. possible one more than the other, then things can get complicated... best of luck princess
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acidxprincess



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Re: help me out shroomery [Re: hcrider]
#14503552 - 05/24/11 09:51 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well we don't drink EVERY night. Just on weekends with our friends haha. And thenn he comes over at night or ill go to his house and well snug and fall asleep. Its soo nice.
-------------------- "what do you call Discovery? I call it rape of the natural world."
"In the end the choice is all yours."
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