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River Man
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Ever use an online affair site?
#14487408 - 05/20/11 11:17 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Has anyone here ever used an online sex/affair site like Fling or adultfriendfinder? Did you have any luck?
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moonrockmushy
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: River Man]
#14487581 - 05/21/11 12:00 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I tried to meet a girl on craigslist once.
After talking to "her" on email for 2 days, fabricating an alternate reality for myself where this whole situation was real, she said she needed a backround check before we met and sent me a link to a site that was the most obvious, poorly done, scam I have ever seen. I am really suprised I didn't catch on before that, looking back it was really obvious the whole time. If I was thinking straight in the first place, I wouldn't go through with something so risky and impulsive, as at no point did it feel "right", but lonliness can make me a bit loco sometimes. In retrospect, I was not being true to myself. I am not saying this is you, my experience only. The one piece of advice I would give: if it seems too good to be true, it is
As far as the more established dating sites, I have checked them out and I have had friends who have had great success with this online dating stuff. However, it just does not feel right to me, I hate seeing myself as a profile, and people dont appeal to me as just a picture and set of stats, one girl seems just the same to me as the next. Plus they all either cost $$$ or else they are full of scammers.
I would say give it a shot, if you are careful it can't hurt. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there, you only live once. You never know, you might be lucky and find your dream girl/guy. But personally, I have been very discouraged, and I am a super-stud so the problem obviously isn't with me. 
Hope you find what you're looking for!
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River Man
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14487667 - 05/21/11 12:21 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah the online dating sites can be ok. I know some people who have good luck there.
I'm just curious about those sex sites though. I mean, it just seems too easy!
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: River Man]
#14489444 - 05/21/11 12:31 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've met girls on craigslist for casual sex. Just meet in public.
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14490592 - 05/21/11 05:19 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Female here, used adultfriendfinder only contacted by married guys - complete turnoff. I left the site.
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14490825 - 05/21/11 06:23 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Pfft if you're female walk up to a guy you think is good looking "hey, are you married?" "no" "wanna have casual sex?" "sure"
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14492202 - 05/22/11 12:42 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have faced essentially nothing but rejection my whole life, it is not as simple as you make it out to be.
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River Man
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14492392 - 05/22/11 01:51 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Dating and relationships are very hard for both men AND women. In some ways harder for either sex but still hard for both regardless. Sucks man...
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Doc_T
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Re: Ever use an online affair site? [Re: River Man]
#14493027 - 05/22/11 08:14 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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AFF worked for me once. CraigsList has been a winner.
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