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Anonymous #1
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how the f can you move on so fast
#14483672 - 05/20/11 10:24 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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How do people move on so fast and hop into other relationships? I've seen that people that were just in 3-5 year relationships just got in a new one within a month. I was just in a 2 year one that ended about 2 3 months ago and I can't stop thinking about my x when I'm alone. How do you/can you do it?
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automan
blasted chipmunk


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Re: how the f can you move on so fast [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14483731 - 05/20/11 10:39 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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A year ago, I got out of a 6 year marriage. I took 4 months off before I started dating again. The first few people I dated were just to get back into the saddle again, but then it got infinitely better.
-------------------- No, no, you're not thinking, you're just being logical. ~ Niels Bohr
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ifoundwaldo


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Re: how the f can you move on so fast [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14484949 - 05/20/11 03:20 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: How do people move on so fast and hop into other relationships? I've seen that people that were just in 3-5 year relationships just got in a new one within a month. I was just in a 2 year one that ended about 2 3 months ago and I can't stop thinking about my x when I'm alone. How do you/can you do it?
You don't let yourself become attached. Perhaps it's easy for me. I've had many people come and go in my life. I just try to appreciate what's around; if some person isn't around or doesn't want to make the effort to share time, fuck them. 
It'll get better with time. Keep yourself interesting: do hobbies, activities, things with friends, whatever you like to do. It sounds like your ex was a big part of your life, and that's probably one of the reasons you're so hung up. Fill your life with other fulfilling activities.
A lot of the feelings of loneliness can be filled with another girl too; that's how a lot of guys deal with the anguish. Don't assume they're ready for other relationships just because they're jumping into them.
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shLong



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Re: how the f can you move on so fast [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14498674 - 05/23/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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When my g.f of 4 years and I broke up back in 2005 I was so fucking down and out. Then, I met this ho, who only wanted to use me for sex, but it was ALLLLLL good.
That slut saved my life . I didnt need a relationship, but it was great being able to have someone around to hold and...well, fuck.
It onlt lasted a few weeks, but she made me feel so much better about myself, ironically, because she was using me, 
I dont make the rules , lol
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shLong



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Re: how the f can you move on so fast [Re: shLong]
#14498686 - 05/23/11 12:00 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Rebounding...I got that out of my system/head and was ready to start meeting 'real' chicks...and I did...and we're still together.
If anything ever happens to my current g/f and I, I only hope there will be another 'Lindsay' around to cheer me up for a few weeks....
I dont think they're getting over their ex's so fast, but rebounding is complicated...
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