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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: nimrod]
#14478009 - 05/19/11 11:14 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nimrod said: what i would have done is talked to the child like a human being, made him feel bad about what he had done, focus the entire group on the situation and then made ammends together. not place an 11 year old boy in timeout. come on.
you obviously dont have kids or have been around them much
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: hippielauren] 2
#14478013 - 05/19/11 11:15 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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sounds like she was quite the nagger, amirite?
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: Salomon]
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: hippielauren] 1
#14478045 - 05/19/11 11:22 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Salomon said: sounds like she was quite the nagger, amirite?
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I like that op mentioned she was black, it gives me an idea of the attitude op was dealing with.
You politically correct folks need to quit giving into that crap.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: Psychoslut]
#14478078 - 05/19/11 11:30 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Salomon said: sounds like she was quite the nagger, amirite?
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I like that op mentioned she was black, it gives me an idea of the attitude op was dealing with.
You politically correct folks need to quit giving into that crap.
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enjoying this little racist circle jerk are we?
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: nimrod]
#14478154 - 05/19/11 11:45 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: nimrod]
#14478157 - 05/19/11 11:45 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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wtf???
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: bryguy27007]
#14478168 - 05/19/11 11:47 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nimrod said: she is racist. why does it matter if they were black? we didn't need to know that. it wouldn't have changed the story.
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bryguy27007 said: Skin color is a physical attribute. Nothing more and nothing less. Good stories paint a picture. That helped paint a picture. There is nothing racist about it. Everybody who thinks it is racist to mention skin color is perpetuating racism. There is nothing wrong with mentioning a physical attribute. Would it have been wrong if he mentioned somebody had brown hair or blue eyes?
Maybe it was to help show and paint a picture of how the woman stormed in talking to her(if you know ppl like that and can use your imagination). Different races act differently and it helped me imagine the kind of voice and attitude she had at this girl.
Personally if she needed to be somewhere that badly she should've picked him up bc it's notnyour fault he acted up. Also it's not your job to be on her schedule regardless of who the person is. You were doing your job, put him in time out, heard he needed to walk home then was told he needed to immediately. You went to send him home, got distracted by kids complaining(your job to deal with that first) and then got to the other kid. His mother was just being impatient and should've scheduled more time and she was only being a bitch bc of being in a rush.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: nimrod]
#14478185 - 05/19/11 11:50 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nimrod said: enjoying this little racist circle jerk are we?
no ones being racist here, you are taking things out of context.
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Salomon said: sounds like she was quite the nagger, amirite?
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I like that op mentioned she was black, it gives me an idea of the attitude op was dealing with.
You politically correct folks need to quit giving into that crap.
agreed 
For sure. Black women are fiesty ones in general. Her son probably picks up on a lot of her dynamics in handling situations and emulates.

Also, dude, black is not the preferred nomenclature. African American. Please.
And of course you're going to get put on time out in a day care or a tennis camp if you're acting out. You've got a bunch of kids to handle, and it's not fair to eat into the others' potential playing time if the stupid kid is being difficult.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: nimrod]
#14478217 - 05/19/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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On the claim of racism: I agree its racist, but not in the way most people think of racism. In the definition that most people have of racism, I don't think it was directly racist.
With that said, it sure as hell is othering and reaffirming that being white is the default way to be in the eyes of our society. But I digress, thats not really a conversation that I want to jump into here.
However, I do think that as a teacher, care person at a school, daycare, whatever, one has the right to separate the child from other children, especially if the kid is being a little jerk. Light punishments like that are fine. There are times when things go way too far, but this was definitely not one of them.
Regarding the parent... Parents are just like that a lot. They can complain and bitch, but in the end it doesn't really matter. Especially since it was a misunderstanding in the first place.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: nimrod] 2
#14478219 - 05/19/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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nimrod said: its not your responsibility to discipline other peoples kids.
hahah that is one of the most retarded things I have ever heard....dude works at a day care haha
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: ifoundwaldo] 1
#14478220 - 05/19/11 11:58 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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is a black man who was born in Canada, and has never been to either America or Africa, an African American?
no. he is a black Canadian
is a black man who was born in America but has never been to Africa, and African American?
no. he is a black American
calling somebody black is not racism, so fuck yalls political correctness
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: Salomon]
#14478248 - 05/19/11 12:02 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Salomon said: is a black man who was born in Canada, and has never been to either America or Africa, an African American?
no. he is a black Canadian
is a black man who was born in America but has never been to Africa, and African American?
no. he is a black American
calling somebody black is not racism, so fuck yalls political correctness
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: Salomon]
#14478255 - 05/19/11 12:03 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You don't have to go to Africa to be African. I'm Scottish, and I've never been to Scotland.
I was just joking about the black thing anyway...
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14478303 - 05/19/11 12:13 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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im irish/german but have never been to either place but i plan on it some day.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14478343 - 05/19/11 12:22 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifoundwaldo said: You don't have to go to Africa to be African. I'm Scottish, and I've never been to Scotland.
I was just joking about the black thing anyway...
yea i'm just making a point.
le example: i'm polish/German/Italian/reptilian. but my race is white.
i am not a polish/German/Italian/reptilian American. i am a white American.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: Salomon]
#14478419 - 05/19/11 12:41 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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ifoundwaldo said: You don't have to go to Africa to be African. I'm Scottish, and I've never been to Scotland.
I was just joking about the black thing anyway...
yea i'm just making a point.
le example: i'm polish/German/Italian/reptilian. but my race is white.
i am not a polish/German/Italian/reptilian American. i am a white American.
Yeah. I'm not from anywhere near the damn Caucasus Mountains.
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Re: Childs mother yelled at me [Re: ifoundwaldo]
#14478429 - 05/19/11 12:43 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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