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Was I wrong?
#14455883 - 05/15/11 11:57 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Who is in the wrong?
Basically I've been seeing this guy for a few months now, we're not in a formal relationship; we've never really defined ourselves as anything or talked about it, but he once said he was growing "fond" of me though... We see each other around 3 times a week, he sleeps over at my place and usually fucks me well.
But the problem is that I have a very high sex drive (nymphomania?), and when he comes over and says hes too tired to fuck me I get a little pissed off, but usually can get over it quickly.
So the current situation is that he slept over on Thursday night (fucked me too), then Friday I bought him breakfast and we spent the day together drinking beers on his porch with his friends and when he ran out of cigarettes he said that if I lent him money (35$) to buy more cigarettes and beer then he would eat my pussy and fuck me from behind. So I walked home to get the money for him. That night he said he was too tired to fuck me but said he would do it the next night (Saturday).
So Saturday (last night), he comes over and still won't fuck me. He pays the 35$ back though, and complains about the fact that I have no alcohol or drugs. So this pisses me off and I sort of give him the cold shoulder when we're sleeping, but then during the night I give up because I like the feeling of his body touching mine. Anyways, this morning we go out for breakfast and I guess I was still pissed at him... We didn't really talk much over breakfast but he said he could see contempt in my eyes and that me giving him the money for sex was like prostitution, to which I replied that atleast prostitutes follow through with their end of the deal... So then we leave and he says "text me when you get over it" and walks away.
Should I just swallow my pride?
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h00ligaN
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what a little bitch! just sayin "when you got a job to do you gotta do it well!" na, fuck him. he'll probly give ya goofy lookin soft skulled babies..
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Sleepwalker
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It sounds like he might be gay.
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DoDahDay
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: h00ligaN]
#14456007 - 05/15/11 12:31 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Almost sounds like he is using the sex to control you. Did you make this sex craze thing vocal to him? If you did then this is exactly what is going on.
Unfortunately, I have never had this problem(not wanting sex...ever!) but this dude must be some sort of pussy magentic and can get it when he wants...from...another source?
What draws you to this man anyway? Doesnt sound too appealing at this point. Growing "fond" sounds more like "I will have sex with you when I want and that is about it" AKA: you are not important to me other than for sex. A "booty call" would be a proper title. Dont be a booty call. Please. Find someone else that likes to "fuck" you and not give you shit about not having drugs. In other words, someone that truely likes you for you and will spend time with you because you are you.
Geez! You speak in such a vulgar manner about "the act". Not very lady like.
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Oweyervishice said: It sounds like he might be gay.
yeah if a gal gave me a couple bucks to eat her out (like the op) I would go get me some ginger... make some ginger tea, and crank up my sex drive up another notch-BAM!
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do you live in Denver?
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h00ligaN
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: DoDahDay]
#14456248 - 05/15/11 01:24 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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dude when you gotta get your pussy fucked and your behind eat you gotta do what you gotta do..
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Oweyervishice said: It sounds like he might be gay.
^^this. or theres something rank about your vagina.
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: s0nny]
#14456316 - 05/15/11 01:41 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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you are throwing yourself at him too hard. Leave him alone and wait for him to come to you. He thinks you are a tool and he's got you right where he wants you
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DoDahDay
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Whats with all the anonymity?
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: DoDahDay]
#14457054 - 05/15/11 03:48 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Seen a guy act like that when the girls vagina is too loose or smells bad.
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: DoDahDay]
#14457148 - 05/15/11 04:00 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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DoDahDay said: Whats with all the anonymity?
no idea
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DoDahDay
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You got me. Hahaha, very funny. Guess I was asking for that one.
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: DoDahDay]
#14457450 - 05/15/11 04:50 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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ditch the guy.... there are lots of guys who enjoy fucking... I let shit like this go to long with my ex-girlfriend. We finally split up. It got to the point that to her, I was a sex fiend, and to me she was a frigid bitch. Not a good ending, and she's still living here until the end of the month. I love her, but refuse to be in a long term relationship without sex. We all have our needs...... (except for my ex)
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I wish I was a pussy magentic
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Re: Was I wrong? [Re: AUX]
#14458766 - 05/15/11 08:16 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I had a girl once like this. All she wanted to do was stay in the bed and get it on. It was ok for the first week or two, but then it started getting in the way of other activities that I also enjoyed; i.e. outdoors, mushrooms, etc. So long story short, she started getting pissed at me too cause I wanted to have time to basically live instead of fuck all the time. And by all the time I mean 4 and 5 times a day. Sorry, if you can't deal with before bed or after we wake up, your loss. The rest of the day is mine.
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if your making his dick sore its understandable.
as much as guys like to talk about how much they will/can have sex dick gets sore after being hard for so long. 4 5 times a day is just way to much for extended periods of time.
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don't listen to these fools!
girl ill fuck you 6 hours a day!
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Anonymous #1
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Thanks for the input. All I was asking for was once everyday or once every two days... I don't think my vag smells or that its very loose, I even shaved it recently...
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Anonymous said: you are throwing yourself at him too hard. Leave him alone and wait for him to come to you. He thinks you are a tool and he's got you right where he wants you
Yes I can see that now thanks
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I don't know if it's really about who's at fault so much as a problem that you're not 100% sexually compatible. I have a far higher sex drive than my bf, and I've gone many a night being so horny that it hurt, and sad that he wouldn't touch me.
Anyway, since you're not in a relationship with him, it's probably a good time to call it quits and look for someone who can keep up better in bed.
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