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Natorade
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Pigasus]
#14449077 - 05/14/11 12:57 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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oh yeah totally thats always a classic move 
does everybody go through this shit or is it just us trippers??
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Dosile Kouki
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Natorade]
#14449081 - 05/14/11 01:00 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah im the same natorade, lol. eye contact puts me off or makes me lose concentration. i notice too much shit. im crazy though. I think its mostly just me being a nerd then being a tripper that has made me like this. i just get awkward and anxious in stupid situations. :/
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Natorade]
#14449082 - 05/14/11 01:00 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm sure this kind of stuff happened to me before I ever started doing drugs.
the drugs probably didn't help though.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Natorade]
#14449097 - 05/14/11 01:04 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Natorade said: its harder for me to focus on the conversation during eye contact
all i can think about is the eye contact itself
which is weird cuz they probably think im not listening as intently when im gazing off but it actually helps me pay attention
feelssociallyawkwardman
lol same here man
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Natorade
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Pigasus]
#14449121 - 05/14/11 01:10 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Pigasus said: I'm sure this kind of stuff happened to me before I ever started doing drugs.
the drugs probably didn't help though.
yeahhh id definitely agree with this
its just hard for me to imagine that some people dont even think about these kinds of things and its just natural for them
how will i ever allure a woman
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Changsta said: What I do is look at them in the eyes for like 2-5 seconds, then switch off and look away from them, then repeat 
It all depends on how interested I am. If im not to interested you'll pick up on the body language.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Pigasus]
#14449229 - 05/14/11 01:48 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Pigasus said: the worst is when you're on a crowded bus sitting in those inward-facing seats so you've got people two feet across from you, and you're trying to focus on some part of the window between two people or something...
I dunno why, those situations just make me uncomfortable
DUUUDEEEE seriously this calls for a story. I was sitting on the bus, and I was in a forward facing seat, but there was this chick who was sitting facing the wall like 2 seats ahead of me, and she was just STARING ME DOWN. It was so much staring that it made me feel uncomfortable so I was like "oh fuck better not make eye contact with this chick" because she was not a looker by any means...
anyway I could just sense her eye's raping me the whole bus ride, it was so uncomfortable. I would look in the reflection of the window and see her head in my direction...creeped me out. When she got off the bus I let out this big sigh of relief like "aahhh I'm free"
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14449702 - 05/14/11 05:42 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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nice1 said: Ahh sorry I missed the point and just read the I have massive tits bit.
i dont have to worry about that i have small boobs nobody looks at them and i dont ever get checked out or hit on
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Mello Kitty]
#14449724 - 05/14/11 05:56 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Awww I'm sure you do - you just think you don't. Loads of men love small boobs as much as big ones. I do. Too big is a turn off - especially massive fake ones.
Maybe you are making yourself not look approachable. Try flashing a smile at some random men to remind yourself. 
If that fails get a flight over here and I'll check you out
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: nice1]
#14449740 - 05/14/11 06:06 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Hey I love small boobs. I'll check you out! Haha. Hey I've been told mine are too big! Be happy with your body!
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Jiji]
#14449782 - 05/14/11 06:28 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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interesting topic and takes on the matter. I look directly into the person's eyes and agree that it's a dimension unto itself. In fact, eye contact with a beautiful pair of eyes can be much more satisfying than anything said. I regularly chat with this beautiful girl who has the most amazing eyes and the convo is often silly and/or stupid but it doesn't even bother me. I find it rare that someone has such pretty eyes and gazes in a similar manner as myself. I can tell we both feel a connection that is beyond words.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: sirdonut]
#14449903 - 05/14/11 07:27 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Didn't read much of this beast, but try getting in kinda side by side with the person and face the same way they are. Then nobody has to feel awkward and you can look at all the same shit. And if it's somebody doing a job like a cashier, keep in mind they probably just want to get out of there and smoke a fatty just like you do [probably, maybe?]
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: bossocto]
#14450005 - 05/14/11 08:10 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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this thread has made me so self conscious about my eyes
fucking great
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Jiji
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Micawber]
#14450027 - 05/14/11 08:23 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Hahahaha oops. Ohh btw your angry face looks like it's pumping err something. Not shaking it's fist!
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Mello Kitty]
#14450299 - 05/14/11 09:48 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Look at them directly in the eye for the duration of the conversation.
If something happens that requires my attention my attention/focus will flit to that section of my visual field until I identify whatever required observation.
After that, back to the eyes.
Important.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Jiji]
#14450326 - 05/14/11 09:56 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Jiji said: Hahahaha oops. Ohh btw your angry face looks like it's pumping err something. Not shaking it's fist!
people deal with frustration in diff ways u know lol
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Micawber]
#14450612 - 05/14/11 11:08 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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Hahaha by jerking off somebody else? I don't ahh think so lol. :p
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Mello Kitty]
#14454707 - 05/15/11 02:48 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think this only feels weird when you start thinking about it (like everything else), otherwise it'll just go naturally.
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: pouihi]
#14454822 - 05/15/11 04:18 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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pouihi said: I think this only feels weird when you start thinking about it (like everything else), otherwise it'll just go naturally.
Intelligence is a trap!
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Re: when you talk to people... [Re: Beanhead]
#14454978 - 05/15/11 06:12 AM (12 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't think that questioning which eye to look when talking to people is quite a question of intelligence. It's like if you start thinking about how many times per minute you blink your eyes or how many breaths you take, eventually those things won't happen naturally.
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